Nico Tortorella

Nico Tortorella (born July 30, 1988) is an American model, writer, and actor, known for roles in Scream 4, the Fox crime drama series The Following, and the TV Land comedy-drama series Younger. Tortorella is nonbinary and uses singular they pronouns since mid-2018.

Their spouse Bethany C. Meyers is also nonbinary. They met in 2006 at a Chicago art school.

Quotes
"You don't have to be one thing for the rest of your life. … Play with your sexuality, play with gender identity, play with your expression. That's what we're all doing, we’re transitioning every single day. Your transition doesn’t have to look like anyone else's! [...] I use the word bisexual, I use the word pansexual, non-binary, gender non-conforming. The words are so much more simple than what we are. I think in the fields of social justice, we have the tendency of getting hung up on the language or the movement, rather than the cause-and-effect and who we’re really talking about. I’m more interested in who you actually are than what you are. I’m looking forward to a time where we can all just be an individual and we don’t necessarily have to be anything but that."

"For me, 'they/them' fully encompasses all of it that exists in my own multi-dimensional dynamic being. Right? It just feels more inclusive. It feels wider."

Links

 * Wikipedia page
 * Twitter
 * Instagram