Egogender

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'''Egogender''' (derived from Latin "ego", meaning "I") or '''charagender''' or '''[name]gender''', are terms for a gender which is so personal to someone that they can only describe it as "me"-gender.<ref>https://nandbaremyfavouriteletters.tumblr.com/post/137019840737/egogender-a-gender-identity-that-feels-unique-to</ref> Thus, no two egogender individuals have the same gender, although they have the same gender label. One may also use (name)gender with their name inserted for a synonymous term. This can be considered a type of [[xenogender]], since it is not related to the concepts of female or male. It can also be specified further, as egoguy, egogirl, or egononbinary.<ref>https://same-memes.tumblr.com/post/101781323202/i-made-some-flags-for-egogender-egoguy-egogirl</ref> When combined with [[genderflux]] it becomes egoflux or charaflux.<ref>https://www.deviantart.com/pride-flags/art/Egoflux-Charaflux-1-726901927</ref> Some people express their gender identity as being simply their identity from early childhood:

<blockquote>"Not all children fit neatly into a male or female gender identity, [[transgender|trans]] or otherwise. For some children, the sense of being '[[bigender|both]]' or 'neither' best describes their reality. [...] Children who see themselves as 'neither' will often speak of how regardless of whether they're with a group of boys or girls, they feel like they don’t fit. This is not necessarily a sad feeling. They just see the kids around them and know that they are not 'that.' Kids in this category often appear androgynous, and will frequently '''answer the question 'are you a boy or a girl' by saying their name ('I'm Devon')''' or by identifying themselves as animals. When asked to draw self portraits, they will portray themselves as rainbows, or unicorns, or another symbol of their choosing." [emphasis added]</blockquote>

<blockquote>- "Frequently Asked Questions," ''GenderSpectrum.org''
<ref>"Frequently Asked Questions." ''Gender Spectrum.'' Retrieved 2014-04-08. [https://web.archive.org/web/20140408123152/https://www.genderspectrum.org/child-family/faq https://web.archive.org/web/20140408123152/https://www.genderspectrum.org/child-family/faq]</ref></blockquote>

==Flags==

There is no universally-accepted flag for the egogender identity, but several have been proposed. Below are some of them. For egoflux, egoguy, egogirl, and egononbinary flags, see [[:Category:Charagender and Egogender pride flags]].
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File:Egogender by same-memes.png|Flag created in November 2014 by tumblr user same-memes, an egogirl.
File:Egogender.png|Unknown creator.
File:Egogender alt 1.png|Flag created in August 2019 by momma-mogai-sphinx.
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== Notable egogender people ==

[[File:Eileen Myles at the 2008 Brooklyn Book Festival.jpg|thumb|150px|[[Eileen Myles]] at the 2008 Brooklyn Book Festival]]
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There are many more [[notable nonbinary people|notable people who have a gender identity outside of the binary]]. The following are only some of those notable people who specifically say they are egogender, charagender, [name]gender, or who describe themselves in a way that fits the description of egogender.

* Writer and poet [[Eileen Myles]] has said "I'm the gender of Eileen".<ref name="Wichtel">{{Cite web |title=How Eileen Myles won a battle for personal pronoun plurality |last=Wichtel |first=By Diana |work=Noted |date=30 May 2018 |access-date=15 May 2020 |url= https://www.noted.co.nz/currently/currently-profiles/eileen-myles-won-their-battle-for-personal-pronoun-plurality}}</ref><ref name="Benjamin">{{Cite web |title=Hold a Feeling: An Interview With Eileen Myles |last=Benjamin |first=Tova |work=Rookie |date=30 November 2015 |access-date=15 May 2020 |url= https://www.rookiemag.com/2015/11/eileen-myles/}}</ref>
* Drag artist and actor [[Valentina]] has said "I feel like I'm my own gender."<ref name="Rodriguez">{{Cite web |title=Valentina Identifies as Nonbinary: "I'm My Own Gender" |last=Rodriguez |first=Mathew |work=out.com |date=14 January 2019 |access-date=1 April 2020 |url= https://www.out.com/entertainment/2019/1/14/valentina-identifies-non-binary-im-my-own-gender}}</ref>

==Egogender characters in fiction==

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There are many more [[Nonbinary gender in fiction|characters in fiction who have a gender identity outside of the binary]]. The following are only some of those characters who are specifically called by the words egogender, charagender, or similar wording, either in their canon or by their creators.

* Addie in the yet-unreleased dating sim game ''The Office Type'' is specified as egogender in their profile, and likes [[they/them]] pronouns or [[no pronouns]].<ref>https://www.heavythoughtstudios.com/projects/</ref>

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== References ==
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[[Category:Xenogender]]

Nonbinary Wiki - User contributions [en]

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