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    [[File:Kingender.png|thumb|Kingender pride [[flags|flag]], for individuals whose gender identity is closely related to their otherkin type. Term and flag created by aroacehawkeye. The two symbols represent otherkin (seven-pointed star) and therianthropes (theta-delta symbol), respectively. The stripe color meanings follow the conventions of other pride flags: yellow for non-female/non-male [[nonbinary]] genders ([[agender]], etc), blue for [[male]], purple for mixed female/male nonbinary gender identities ([[androgyne]], etc), and pink for [[female]].<ref>"Kingender pride." ''Pride Archive'' (blog). [http://pridearchive.tumblr.com/post/91215568026/kingender-pride http://pridearchive.tumblr.com/post/91215568026/kingender-pride]</ref>]]
    {{infobox identity
    '''Otherkin''' are real individuals who think of themselves as other than human. For example, an individual who says, "I am an elf." Usually, they mean that they are an elf in spirit, or identify as an elf in some other way. Each individual comes up with their own reasoning for how and why they are otherkin, and what kind of being they are.<ref>Orion Scribner. "A simple introduction to otherkin." [http://frameacloud.com/otherkin/nonfiction-otherkin/introduction-otherkin/ http://frameacloud.com/otherkin/nonfiction-otherkin/introduction-otherkin/]</ref>
    | flag = Otherkin.jpg
    | meaning = The sunrise/sunset colors are an embodiment of the new beginnings, ends, and ones deepest sense of self. The variety of colors represents otherkin diversity, and the seven-pointed star is the classic Otherkin seven-pointed star that's been used for decades.
    | name = Otherkin
    }}'''Otherkin''' are a subculture of people who identify as something other than human. Each individual discovers for themself how and why they are otherkin.<ref name="scribner simple">{{Cite web|url=https://frameacloud.tumblr.com/post/708359714734489600/simpleintro|title=A Simple Introduction to Otherkin and Therianthropes|last=Scribner|first=Orion|date=February 11, 2023|website=frameacloud.tumblr.com|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230524164119/https://frameacloud.tumblr.com/post/708359714734489600/simpleintro|archive-date=May 24, 2023|access-date=December 10, 2023}}</ref> Most otherkin believe they are nonhuman in a spiritual way, or otherwise somehow non-physical, such as from reincarnation, psychology, trans-species dysphoria, or metaphor.<ref name="fieldguide" /> All otherkin know that they are physically human, in that they look like humans, were born like humans, and live in the way that most humans do. However, some otherkin believe their own bodies are different from most human bodies, such as having genes from supernatural ancestors.<ref>{{cite book |title=The Psychic Vampire Codex: A Manual of Magick and Energy Work |year=2004 |publisher=Weiser Books |isbn=1-57863-321-4 |author=Michelle Belanger |author2=Father Sebastiaan}}</ref>  


    Otherkin is an identity, but not a [[gender identity]]. That said, some otherkin do think of their gender identity as part of, influenced, or best described with their otherkin identity. For example, a [[nonbinary gender]] person who has decided that the best way to describe their gender identity is to say, "My gender is elf." (There are also people outside of the otherkin community who use similarly non-gender-related concepts and archetypes to describe their nonbinary genders; see [[xenogender]].) Much of the otherkin community is made up of folks who are [[transgender]], [[genderqueer]], or nonbinary. This has always been so, ever since the 1960s.<ref>Orion Scribner. "Otherkin Timeline," abridged edition. [http://frameacloud.com/otherkin/nonfiction-otherkin/otherkin-timeline-abridged/ http://frameacloud.com/otherkin/nonfiction-otherkin/otherkin-timeline-abridged/]</ref> For this reason, the otherkin community has a tendency to be accepting of anyone who is transgender, genderqueer, or nonbinary. See the article [[nonbinary gender outside of the transgender community]] for other communities that are similarly welcoming.
    Joseph P. Laycock, assistant professor of religious studies at Texas State University, considers the belief to be religious,<ref name="laycock">{{Cite journal|last=Laycock|first=Joseph P.|date=February 2012|title=We Are Spirits of Another Sort|url=https://www.jstor.org/stable/10.1525/nr.2012.15.3.65|journal=Nova Religio: The Journal of Alternative and Emergent Religions|volume=15|pages=65-90}}</ref> but most otherkin firmly disagree with being classified as a religion. This is because otherkin are not a formal organization with leaders or members, they do not agree on any cosmological or spiritual beliefs (some otherkin do not believe in spirituality at all), and otherkin independently come to the conclusion that they are other than human, sometimes without even knowing anybody else felt that way. By definition, otherkin is not a religion, and is not similar to a religion.<ref name="scribner simple" />
     
    ==Description==
     
    Otherkin may identify as real or mythical creatures,<ref>https://www.cam.ac.uk/research/features/why-be-human-when-you-can-be-otherkin</ref><ref>{{cite book |title=Vampires in Their Own Words: An Anthology of Vampire Voices |year=2007 |publisher=Llewellyn Worldwide |isbn=0-7387-1220-5 |author=Michelle Belanger |page=25}}</ref> with others identifying as creatures from fantasy or popular culture. Examples include: angels, demons, dragons, elves, fairies, aliens,<ref name=reale>{{cite book |title=Real Energy: Systems, Spirits, And Substances to Heal, Change, And Grow |year=2007 |publisher=Career Press |isbn=1-56414-904-8 |author=Isaac Bonewits |author2=Phaedra Bonewits |pages=196–197}}</ref><ref name=villagevoice>{{cite news| title=Elven Like Me: Otherkin Come Out of the Closet |first=Nick |last=Mamatas |newspaper=The Village Voice|location=New York |date=February 20, 2001 |url=https://www.villagevoice.com/2001-02-13/news/elven-like-me/|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230522190012/https://www.villagevoice.com/2001-02-13/news/elven-like-me/ |archive-date=17 July 2023 }}</ref><ref name="ascensionmagic">{{cite book |first=Christopher |last=Penczak |title=Ascension Magick: Ritual, Myth & Healing for the New Aeon | publisher=Llewellyn Worldwide |pages=416–417; 441 |year=2007 |isbn=0-7387-1047-4}}</ref> and cartoon characters.<ref name=kirby>{{cite book |title=Exploring Religion And The Sacred in A Media Age |year=2009 |publisher=Ashgate Publishing |isbn=0-7546-6527-5 |author=Kirby, Danielle |editor=Christopher Deacy; Elisabeth Arweck |chapter=From Pulp Fiction to Revealed Text: A Study of the Role of the Text in the Otherkin Community |url-access=registration |url=https://archive.org/details/exploringreligio0000unse_q7d1 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20210307225941/https://archive.org/details/exploringreligio0000unse_q7d1 |archive-date=17 July 2023 }}</ref> Many otherkin believe in the existence of a multitude of parallel universes, and their belief in the existence of supernatural or sapient non-human beings is grounded in that idea.<ref name=questing />
     
    With regard to their online communities, otherkin largely function without formal authority structures, and mostly focus on support and information gathering, often dividing into more specific groups based on kintype.<ref name=questing>{{cite book |title=Through a Glass Darkly: Collected Research |year=2006 |publisher=Sydney University Press |url=http://ojs-prod.library.usyd.edu.au/index.php/SSR/article/view/259/238 |author=Kirby, Danielle |editor=Frances Di Lauro |chapter=Alternative Worlds: Metaphysical questing and virtual community amongst the Otherkin |isbn=1920898549|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20200622023520/http://ojs-prod.library.usyd.edu.au:80/index.php/SSR/article/view/259/238 |archive-date=17 July 2023 }}</ref> There are occasional offline gatherings, but the otherkin network is mostly an online phenomenon.<ref name=questing />
     
    Some otherkin claim to be especially empathic and attuned to nature.<ref name=villagevoice /> Some claim to be able to shapeshift mentally or on the astral plane, meaning that they experience the sense of being in their particular form, while not changing physically.<ref name=fieldguide /><ref>{{cite book |title=Shadow Magick Compendium: Exploring Darker Aspects of Magickal Spirituality |year=2008 |publisher=Llewellyn Worldwide |isbn=0-7387-1318-X |author=Raven Digitalis |page=178}}</ref>
     
    The therianthrope and vampire subcultures are related to the otherkin community, and are considered part of it by most otherkin, but are culturally and historically distinct movements of their own, despite some overlap in membership.<ref name=fieldguide />
     
    ==Etymology==
    "Otherkin" as an adjective was defined in the ''Middle English Dictionary'' (1981) as "a different or an additional kind of, other kinds of".<ref>{{cite book |title=Middle English Dictionary: O.3, Volume 0 |year=1981 |publisher=University of Michigan Press |isbn=0-472-01153-7 |author=Sherman M. Kuhn |page=344}}</ref> The earliest recorded use of the term ''otherkin'', in the context of a subculture or people who identify as other than human, appeared in July 1990. The variant ''otherkind'' was recorded as early as April 1990.<ref name="fieldguide" /> The word "otherkind" was initially coined from the word "elfinkind", to refer to non-elf others who joined the communities.<ref name="timeline">{{cite web |url=https://frameacloud.com/nonfiction/otherkin-timeline-abridged/ |title=Otherkin Timeline: The Recent History of Elfin, Fae, and Animal People, Abridged Edition |last=Scribner |first=Orion |website=Orion Scribner |date=2013-02-27 |access-date=2020-07-10|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230606093321/http://frameacloud.com/nonfiction/otherkin-timeline-abridged/ |archive-date=17 July 2023 }}</ref>


    ==History==
    ==History==
    {{infobox identity
    | flag = Acute heptagram.svg
    | meaning = A heptagram, also called the Elven Star or Fae Star, the most common symbol to represent otherkinity.
    | name =
    }}
    The otherkin community has origins that go back to the 1960s, in Pagan spirituality groups of those who called themselves elves.<ref name="timeline" /> The word "otherkin" was created in 1990 by a group of people who identified as elves, to include people who identify as beings other than elves.<ref name="timeline" /> The otherkin subculture grew out of the elven online communities of the early-to-mid-1990s.<ref name="veilsedge">{{cite book |first=Willow |last=Polson |title= The Veil's Edge: Exploring the Boundaries of Magic |publisher=Citadel Press |page=95 |year=2003 |isbn=0-8065-2352-2}}</ref>
    The oldest Internet resource for otherkin is the ''Elfinkind Digest'', a mailing list started in 1990 by a student at the University of Kentucky for "elves and interested observers". Also in the early 1990s, newsgroups such as [https://groups.google.com/forum/#!forum/alt.horror.werewolves alt.horror.werewolves]<ref name="cursewere">{{cite book |title= The Curse of the Werewolf: Fantasy, Horror and the Beast Within |author= Chantal Bourgault Du Coudray |publisher= I.B. Tauris |year= 2006 |isbn= 1-84511-158-3}}</ref> and [https://groups.google.com/forum/#!forum/alt.fan.dragons alt.fan.dragons] on Usenet, which were initially created for fans of these creatures in the context of fantasy and horror literature and films, also came to have participants who identified as mythological beings.<ref name="fieldguide" /><ref name="Cohen">{{cite book |last=Cohen |first=D. |year=1996 |title=Werewolves |location=New York |publisher=Penguin Books |isbn=0-525-65207-8 |page=[https://archive.org/details/werewolves00cohe_0/page/104 104] |url=https://archive.org/details/werewolves00cohe_0/page/104 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20210307234549/https://archive.org/details/werewolves00cohe_0/page/104 |archive-date=17 July 2023 }}</ref>
    ==Otherkin, transgender, and nonbinary identity==


    The otherkin community has origins that go back to the 1960s, in Pagan spirituality groups of those who called themselves elves. The word "otherkin" was created by a group of these folks during 1990, to include people who identify as beings other than elves.<ref>Orion Scribner. "Otherkin Timeline," abridged edition. [http://frameacloud.com/otherkin/nonfiction-otherkin/otherkin-timeline-abridged/ http://frameacloud.com/otherkin/nonfiction-otherkin/otherkin-timeline-abridged/]</ref> The Internet makes it possible for everyone to reach out to others about personal matters that they have in common, while still keeping a kind of anonymity. As a result, the otherkin community is one of many that has recently become more visible to the public eye.
    Otherkin is an identity, but not a [[gender identity]]. Much of the otherkin community is made up of folks who are [[transgender]], [[genderqueer]], or nonbinary. This has always been so, ever since the 1960s.<ref name="timeline"/> For this reason, the otherkin community has a tendency to be accepting of anyone who is transgender, genderqueer, or nonbinary.  


    In 2013 or 2014, a community of non-binary gender people on the social blogging site Tumblr.com came up with a kind of [[Pronouns|gender-neutral pronouns]] called "[[Pronouns#Nounself pronouns|nounself pronouns]]." By adapting any noun of one's choosing into a pronoun, one can create a wide variety of very personal and descriptive pronouns. The sets can be themed around concepts that have nothing to do with gender, such as nature,  technology, or abstract concepts. For example, the fairy themed set "fae, fae, faer, faers, faeself." Some call nounself pronouns by the name "otherkin pronouns." However, few otherkin use nounself pronouns, and many folks using them aren't otherkin.<ref>otherkinlogic, vulpinekin, and roborenard. "Nounself pronouns and how to use them." [http://otherkinlogic.tumblr.com/post/92382457520 http://otherkinlogic.tumblr.com/post/92382457520] </ref>
    That said, some otherkin do think of their gender identity as part of, influenced, or best described with their otherkin identity. For example, a [[nonbinary]] person who has decided that the best way to describe their gender identity is to say, "My gender is elf." (There are also people outside of the otherkin community who use similarly non-gender-related concepts and archetypes to describe their nonbinary genders; see [[xenogender]].) The word "men" can mean people who are male, or it can mean humans, so some otherkin-- especially the earliest of them, the Silver Elves-- have enjoyed playing with denying that they are either of those things. An anecdote told before 2000 by the Silver Elves, who are an otherkin group which formed in the 1960s, and includes many transgender and gender nonconforming people, goes like this:  


    ==Genders for otherkin==
    <blockquote>
    "We were early at the party [...] when a beautiful woman arrived who was quite accustomed therefore of getting her way with men. She sat near them very quietly at first then suddenly she sighed and said, 'It sure would be nice if some man built us a fire.' [...] Then Zardoa, looking to Feral said, 'Do you see any men about?' And Feral Faun peering around said, 'Not a one.' The woman gaped astonished while we faerie folke chuckled quietly among ours'elves [sic]."<ref name="silver elves true tale">{{Cite web|url=http://www.jps.net/elve/trutal.html|title=True Tales of the Elves|authors=The Silver Elves|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20000529201548/http://www.jps.net/elve/trutal.html|archive-date=May 29, 2000}}</ref>
    </blockquote>


    Some folks have made names for specific kinds of genders experienced from a non-human perspective, for people who identify as otherkin, fictionkin (otherkin who identify as characters or creatures from fiction), or therianthropes (individuals who identify as real kinds of animals). A list, in alphabetical order:
    The equivocation and denial of both "human" and "male" in this anecdote is more than wordplay. Zardoa had also written that he had spent much of his youth "trying very hard to be a 'man' even though he knew in his heart that he was not a 'man', could never be a 'real man' [...] and succeed in the world of men but never felt accepted there," until a spiritual experience in meditation made him realize that "elf" was a better description of who he was at heart than either meaning of "man."<ref>{{Cite web|url=http://www.jps.net/elve/history.html|title=A BRIEF HISTORY OF THE SILVER ELVES IN THIS LIFETIME THUS FAR....|authors=The Silver Elves|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20000818010501/http://www.jps.net/elve/history.html|archive-date=August 18, 2000}}</ref> The Silver Elves were one of the earliest otherkin groups, dating back to the 1960s. Many of them were transgender as well as considering themselves as elves or other mythological beings, so much so that when they released a music album, they described it as trans-elven rock.


    '''adeptogender'''. Coined by Mercurykid. "When your state of gender was obtained through your realization of your kinself [otherkin self]. as in, your kin [otherkin] realization spurred your gender realization. (note: the gender and kin type [the kind of being that you identify as] do not necessarily have to correlate with each other)." <ref>"Adeptogender." ''Mogai-Archive.'' http://mogai-archive.tumblr.com/post/92035261024/adeptogender</ref>
    Some otherkin who are transgender describe themselves as "trans species," saying that their gender and the otherkin aspects of their identity feel connected and similar.<ref>{{Cite news|last=Graves-Browne|first=Eliza|url=https://www.vice.com/en/article/yvwknv/what-does-it-mean-to-be-trans-species|title=What It Means to Be Otherkin|date=April 17, 2016|work=Vice|access-date=December 10, 2023|url-status=live}}</ref>


    '''aliengender'''. Coined by genderghoul. "A gender that is an interpretation of a gender or genders, from a nonhuman perspective. may or may not like to fit into a gender and adopt a gender, but in a sort of ‘alien trying out foreign species’s gender’ way. alienboy, aliengirl, aliennonbinary etc."<ref>"Aliengender." ''Mogai-Archive.'' http://mogai-archive.tumblr.com/post/92391970239/aliengender</ref>
    ===Kingender===
    {{Infobox identity
    | name = Kingender
    | flag = Kingender.png
    | meaning = Kingender pride [[flags|flag]], for individuals whose gender identity is closely related to their otherkin type. Term and flag created by Tumblr user aroacehawkeye. The stripe color meanings follow the conventions of other pride flags: yellow for [[genderless]]ness, blue for [[male]], purple for mixed female/male nonbinary gender identities ([[androgyne]], etc), and pink for [[female]].<ref name="kingender pride archive">{{Cite web|url=https://pridearchive.tumblr.com/post/91215568026/kingender|title=Kingender Pride|authors=aroacehawkeye|date=Jul 8, 2014|website=tumblr|publisher=pridearchive|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20220531074003/https://pridearchive.tumblr.com/post/91215568026/kingender|archive-date=May 31, 2022|access-date=December 10, 2023}}</ref> The seven-pointed star has been a symbol for otherkin since the 1990s, and for elf people since the 1960s.<ref name="fieldguide">{{cite book |author=Lupa | title=A Field Guide to Otherkin | publisher=Immanion Press | pages=25–26, 50, 52 | year=2007 | isbn=978-1-905713-07-3 }}</ref>]]
    | frequency = 0.1%
    }}


    '''fictigender'''. Coined by anonymous. 1. "When your gender is connected to the fictional character(s) or species you identify as."<ref>"Fictigender." ''Mogai-Archive.'' http://mogai-archive.tumblr.com/post/92505638279/fictigender</ref>
    * '''Name(s):''' Kingender (from otherkin + gender)
    2. "when you feel like genders in the real world don’t apply to you because you identify as a fictional character or species. note: this gender is only for the use of fictionkin."<ref>"Fictigender." ''Mogai-Archive.'' http://mogai-archive.tumblr.com/post/92505638279/fictigender</ref>


    '''genderglitch.''' coined by: queercodedkid "genderglitch is similar to [[genderfluid|genderfluidity]], however while genderfluidity is normally described as your genders changing smoothly, genderglitch is more sudden and confusing. note: created by a techkin [technology otherkin] with kin [otherkin] in mind, but available to use by nonkin [people who don't identify as otherkin]." <ref>[http://mogai-archive.tumblr.com/post/93175312184/genderglitch http://mogai-archive.tumblr.com/post/93175312184/genderglitch]</ref>
    * '''Origin:''' Kingender was coined by Tumblr user SadVaporWaveBabe (who also posted under SSailorSenshi, and who deleted their blogs later that year), in a submission on or before July 25, 2014 to the [[MOGAI-Archive blog]] (which was also deleted later that year by one of its moderators).<ref name="SadVaporWaveBabe">{{Cite web|url=http://sadvaporwavebabe.tumblr.com/|title=ok ive though t about it more and i think this time i can make a better apology..|authors=ssailorsenshi|website=tumblr|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20140812075603/http://sadvaporwavebabe.tumblr.com/|archive-date=August 12, 2014}}</ref><ref name="kingender coin">{{Cite web|url=https://littlebunnykin.tumblr.com/post/92885358913/kingender|title=kingender|authors=sadvaporwavebabe|website=tumblr|publisher=mogai-archive|archive-url=https://archive.is/E8V0G|archive-date=June 23, 2021|access-date=December 10, 2023}}</ref> The Pride Archive blog instead says that Tumblr user AroAceHawkEye coined the term kingender.<ref name="kingender pride archive" />


    '''gendersea.''' Coined by anonymous. "like [[agender|gendervoid]], but related to the ocean. your gender is a vast sea of caverns and depths yet to be discovered. free for all to use but made with [[otherkin]] related to the ocean or sea creatures in mind." <ref>[http://mogai-archive.tumblr.com/post/93746653029/gendersea http://mogai-archive.tumblr.com/post/93746653029/gendersea]</ref>
    * '''Meaning:''' Kingender was defined by SadVaporWaveBabe as simply "the only thing defining your gender is your kintype (this gender is otherkin specific)."<ref name="kingender coin" /> SadVaporWaveBabe (or possibly someone else who took over their blog) later posted a note admitting that they had submitted this and other content to the MOGAI-Archive blog to make fun of trans, neurodivergent, and otherkin communities, which they later regretted, and apologized for doing.<ref name="SadVaporWaveBabe"/> The other person claiming to have coined it, AroAceHawkEye, defined kingender as "a catch-all term for individuals whose gender is closely related to their kintype."<ref name="kingender pride archive" />


    '''kingender'''. Coined by aroacehawkeye. "A catch-all term for individuals whose gender is closely related to their kintype(s) [the kinds of beings that they identify as]. note: this gender is only for the use of otherkin."<ref>"Kingender." ''Mogai-Archive.'' http://mogai-archive.tumblr.com/post/92506283959/kingender</ref> The pride flag for this gender is shown on this page.
    * '''Keywords:''' genders about things other than connection to female or male, nonbinary, otherkin, [[xenogender]]


    '''multigender'''. 1. One person who has several gender identities; see [[multigender]]. 2. As coined by theboxwitch, "a gender identity for those with multiple kintypes [kinds of beings they identify as] who each have their own gender identity. note: only for use of otherkin."<ref>"Multigender." ''Mogai-Archive.'' http://mogai-archive.tumblr.com/post/92506283959/kingender</ref>
    * '''Demographics:''' In the 2019 Worldwide Gender Census, two respondents called themselves kingender.<ref name="2019 Gender Census">{{Cite web|url=https://www.gendercensus.com/results/2019-worldwide-summary/|title=Gender Census 2019: Worldwide Summary|authors=Cassian|date=March 31, 2019|website=Gender Census}}</ref>


    {{Clear}}
    ==See also==
    ==See also==
    *[[Xenogender]]
    *[[Xenogender]]
    *[[Gender variance in spirituality]]
    *[[Gender variance in spirituality]]
    *[[Nonbinary gender outside of the transgender community]]
    *[[Mx]]


    ==External links==
    ==External links==
    *[http://frameacloud.com/otherkin/nonfiction-otherkin/introduction-otherkin/ A Simple Introduction to Otherkin], by Orion Scribner.
    *[http://anotherwiki.org/wiki/Main_Page AnOtherWiki], a free encyclopedia written by, for, and about the Otherkin community.
    *[http://anotherwiki.org/wiki/Main_Page AnOtherWiki], a free encyclopedia written by, for, and about the Otherkin community.
    *[http://otherkin.net Otherkin.net], created in 2000, with content from the 1990s.
    *[https://otherkin.wiki Otherkin Wiki], a "site about otherkin" which "also covers a diversity of other related alterhuman communities."
    *[http://otherkin-news.livejournal.com/tag/quiltbag Otherkin News - QUILTBAG]. News articles that are both about otherkin as well as transgender subject matter.


    ==References==
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    Otherkin
    Otherkin.jpg
    Meaning
    The sunrise/sunset colors are an embodiment of the new beginnings, ends, and ones deepest sense of self. The variety of colors represents otherkin diversity, and the seven-pointed star is the classic Otherkin seven-pointed star that's been used for decades.

    Otherkin are a subculture of people who identify as something other than human. Each individual discovers for themself how and why they are otherkin.[1] Most otherkin believe they are nonhuman in a spiritual way, or otherwise somehow non-physical, such as from reincarnation, psychology, trans-species dysphoria, or metaphor.[2] All otherkin know that they are physically human, in that they look like humans, were born like humans, and live in the way that most humans do. However, some otherkin believe their own bodies are different from most human bodies, such as having genes from supernatural ancestors.[3]

    Joseph P. Laycock, assistant professor of religious studies at Texas State University, considers the belief to be religious,[4] but most otherkin firmly disagree with being classified as a religion. This is because otherkin are not a formal organization with leaders or members, they do not agree on any cosmological or spiritual beliefs (some otherkin do not believe in spirituality at all), and otherkin independently come to the conclusion that they are other than human, sometimes without even knowing anybody else felt that way. By definition, otherkin is not a religion, and is not similar to a religion.[1]

    Description

    Otherkin may identify as real or mythical creatures,[5][6] with others identifying as creatures from fantasy or popular culture. Examples include: angels, demons, dragons, elves, fairies, aliens,[7][8][9] and cartoon characters.[10] Many otherkin believe in the existence of a multitude of parallel universes, and their belief in the existence of supernatural or sapient non-human beings is grounded in that idea.[11]

    With regard to their online communities, otherkin largely function without formal authority structures, and mostly focus on support and information gathering, often dividing into more specific groups based on kintype.[11] There are occasional offline gatherings, but the otherkin network is mostly an online phenomenon.[11]

    Some otherkin claim to be especially empathic and attuned to nature.[8] Some claim to be able to shapeshift mentally or on the astral plane, meaning that they experience the sense of being in their particular form, while not changing physically.[2][12]

    The therianthrope and vampire subcultures are related to the otherkin community, and are considered part of it by most otherkin, but are culturally and historically distinct movements of their own, despite some overlap in membership.[2]

    Etymology

    "Otherkin" as an adjective was defined in the Middle English Dictionary (1981) as "a different or an additional kind of, other kinds of".[13] The earliest recorded use of the term otherkin, in the context of a subculture or people who identify as other than human, appeared in July 1990. The variant otherkind was recorded as early as April 1990.[2] The word "otherkind" was initially coined from the word "elfinkind", to refer to non-elf others who joined the communities.[14]

    History

    Acute heptagram.svg
    Meaning
    A heptagram, also called the Elven Star or Fae Star, the most common symbol to represent otherkinity.

    The otherkin community has origins that go back to the 1960s, in Pagan spirituality groups of those who called themselves elves.[14] The word "otherkin" was created in 1990 by a group of people who identified as elves, to include people who identify as beings other than elves.[14] The otherkin subculture grew out of the elven online communities of the early-to-mid-1990s.[15]

    The oldest Internet resource for otherkin is the Elfinkind Digest, a mailing list started in 1990 by a student at the University of Kentucky for "elves and interested observers". Also in the early 1990s, newsgroups such as alt.horror.werewolves[16] and alt.fan.dragons on Usenet, which were initially created for fans of these creatures in the context of fantasy and horror literature and films, also came to have participants who identified as mythological beings.[2][17]

    Otherkin, transgender, and nonbinary identity

    Otherkin is an identity, but not a gender identity. Much of the otherkin community is made up of folks who are transgender, genderqueer, or nonbinary. This has always been so, ever since the 1960s.[14] For this reason, the otherkin community has a tendency to be accepting of anyone who is transgender, genderqueer, or nonbinary.

    That said, some otherkin do think of their gender identity as part of, influenced, or best described with their otherkin identity. For example, a nonbinary person who has decided that the best way to describe their gender identity is to say, "My gender is elf." (There are also people outside of the otherkin community who use similarly non-gender-related concepts and archetypes to describe their nonbinary genders; see xenogender.) The word "men" can mean people who are male, or it can mean humans, so some otherkin-- especially the earliest of them, the Silver Elves-- have enjoyed playing with denying that they are either of those things. An anecdote told before 2000 by the Silver Elves, who are an otherkin group which formed in the 1960s, and includes many transgender and gender nonconforming people, goes like this:

    "We were early at the party [...] when a beautiful woman arrived who was quite accustomed therefore of getting her way with men. She sat near them very quietly at first then suddenly she sighed and said, 'It sure would be nice if some man built us a fire.' [...] Then Zardoa, looking to Feral said, 'Do you see any men about?' And Feral Faun peering around said, 'Not a one.' The woman gaped astonished while we faerie folke chuckled quietly among ours'elves [sic]."[18]

    The equivocation and denial of both "human" and "male" in this anecdote is more than wordplay. Zardoa had also written that he had spent much of his youth "trying very hard to be a 'man' even though he knew in his heart that he was not a 'man', could never be a 'real man' [...] and succeed in the world of men but never felt accepted there," until a spiritual experience in meditation made him realize that "elf" was a better description of who he was at heart than either meaning of "man."[19] The Silver Elves were one of the earliest otherkin groups, dating back to the 1960s. Many of them were transgender as well as considering themselves as elves or other mythological beings, so much so that when they released a music album, they described it as trans-elven rock.

    Some otherkin who are transgender describe themselves as "trans species," saying that their gender and the otherkin aspects of their identity feel connected and similar.[20]

    Kingender

    Kingender
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    Meaning
    Kingender pride flag, for individuals whose gender identity is closely related to their otherkin type. Term and flag created by Tumblr user aroacehawkeye. The stripe color meanings follow the conventions of other pride flags: yellow for genderlessness, blue for male, purple for mixed female/male nonbinary gender identities (androgyne, etc), and pink for female.[21] The seven-pointed star has been a symbol for otherkin since the 1990s, and for elf people since the 1960s.[2]]]
    Frequency 0.1%
    • Name(s): Kingender (from otherkin + gender)
    • Origin: Kingender was coined by Tumblr user SadVaporWaveBabe (who also posted under SSailorSenshi, and who deleted their blogs later that year), in a submission on or before July 25, 2014 to the MOGAI-Archive blog (which was also deleted later that year by one of its moderators).[22][23] The Pride Archive blog instead says that Tumblr user AroAceHawkEye coined the term kingender.[21]
    • Meaning: Kingender was defined by SadVaporWaveBabe as simply "the only thing defining your gender is your kintype (this gender is otherkin specific)."[23] SadVaporWaveBabe (or possibly someone else who took over their blog) later posted a note admitting that they had submitted this and other content to the MOGAI-Archive blog to make fun of trans, neurodivergent, and otherkin communities, which they later regretted, and apologized for doing.[22] The other person claiming to have coined it, AroAceHawkEye, defined kingender as "a catch-all term for individuals whose gender is closely related to their kintype."[21]
    • Keywords: genders about things other than connection to female or male, nonbinary, otherkin, xenogender
    • Demographics: In the 2019 Worldwide Gender Census, two respondents called themselves kingender.[24]

    See also

    External links

    • AnOtherWiki, a free encyclopedia written by, for, and about the Otherkin community.
    • Otherkin Wiki, a "site about otherkin" which "also covers a diversity of other related alterhuman communities."

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