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==Tips== | ==Tips== | ||
*Though certain sexual acts may be traditionally associated with a binary gender, or with [[femininity]]/[[ | *Though certain sexual acts may be traditionally associated with a binary gender, or with [[femininity]]/[[masculinity]], this is not inherent. | ||
*Communication before, during, and after sex is vital. For example: | *Communication before, during, and after sex is vital. For example: | ||
** Make it clear what acts you are comfortable with, and which ones you do not want to do. Consider working on a "Yes/No/Maybe" list for yourself and your partner(s). | ** Make it clear what acts you are comfortable with, and which ones you do not want to do. Consider working on a "Yes/No/Maybe" list for yourself and your partner(s). | ||
** Let your partner(s) know if there are certain words (for anatomical parts, terms of endearment, etc) that you | ** Let your partner(s) know if there are certain words (for anatomical parts, terms of endearment, etc) that you want them to use or avoid. | ||
** Let your partner(s) know if there is an area of your body you do not want touched, due to [[dysphoria]] or any other reason. | ** Let your partner(s) know if there is an area of your body you do not want touched, due to [[dysphoria]] or any other reason. | ||
* Orgasming is good, but not required for sex to be satisfying. Depending on [[Hormone therapy|hormonal levels]], orgasm may be very difficult or impossible for someone to achieve. | * Orgasming is good, but not required for sex to be satisfying. Depending on [[Hormone therapy|hormonal levels]], dysphoria, or other reasons, orgasm may be very difficult or impossible for someone to achieve. | ||
==Resources== | ==Resources== | ||
*[https://www.wellandgood.com/trans-nonbinary-sex/ I’m Trans and Nonbinary: Here’s What I Want Cis People To Know About Having Sex With Me], by Jamie LeClaire | *[https://www.wellandgood.com/trans-nonbinary-sex/ I’m Trans and Nonbinary: Here’s What I Want Cis People To Know About Having Sex With Me], by Jamie LeClaire | ||
*[https://www.women.com/shannon/lists/what-is-sex-like-with-a-non-binary-person-agender-trans-and-sex What Is Sex Like With A Non Binary Person?], by | *[https://www.women.com/shannon/lists/what-is-sex-like-with-a-non-binary-person-agender-trans-and-sex What Is Sex Like With A Non Binary Person?], by Shannon Cabeen | ||
Shannon Cabeen | |||
*[https://web.archive.org/web/20160311020633/https://mickeyvalentinetee.com/2016/03/03/how-to-have-sex-with-a-transnb-person-without-being-gross/ How to Have Sex with a Trans/NB Person Without Being Gross], by Mickey Valentine | *[https://web.archive.org/web/20160311020633/https://mickeyvalentinetee.com/2016/03/03/how-to-have-sex-with-a-transnb-person-without-being-gross/ How to Have Sex with a Trans/NB Person Without Being Gross], by Mickey Valentine | ||
[[Category: Practical resources]] | [[Category: Practical resources]] | ||