User:Ondo/Resources for allies

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This page contains a list of resources directed to friend and family of non-binary people. It's not an exhaustive list but a selection of web sites, books and videos.

Parents

If your child has come out as non-binary, the best thing you can do is to actively support them. That means not only listening to them but also doing research about non-binary gender identities and changing their name and pronouns if they ask you to. This wiki is a good starting point for educating yourself, but this is a list of some other resources:

Online

• Transgender People, Gender Identity and Gender Expression (American Psychological Association): frequently asked questions about transgender people.
• Too Queer for Your Binary: Everything You Need to Know and More About Non-Binary Identities by Kaylee Jakubowski on Everyday Feminism.
• Forcing Kids To Stick To Gender Roles Can Actually Be Harmful To Their Health by Tara Culp-Ressler on ThinkProgress.
• Explaining genderqueer to those who are not by Micah on Neutrois Nonsense
• A map of gender-diverse cultures

Books

• The Transgender Child by Stephanie A. Brill and Rachel Pepper
• The Transgender Teen by Stephanie A. Brill and Lisa Kenney