Gender neutral language in English: Difference between revisions

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====Child====
====Child====


Some of these gender-inclusive or gender-queer words refer only to relationship (as in daughter, son, or offspring), others only to age (girl, boy, or young one), and some to both (children). Alphabetical order.
Some of these gender-inclusive or gender-queer words refer only to relationship (as in daughter, son, or offspring), others only to age (girl, boy, or young one), and some to both (children).
 
{{common word
|word1 = Baby|meaning1 = Standard neutral word for very young offspring or very young people.
|word2 = Child|meaning2 = Standard gender neutral word for a young person or an offspring. Implied age isn't adult, but may be.
|word3 = Kid|meaning3 = Standard informal gender neutral term for young children or young offspring.}}


* '''Baby.''' Standard neutral word for very young offspring or very young people.
* '''Bitsy.''' Non-standard [[genderqueer]] term for a very young person.<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Bitsy.''' Non-standard [[genderqueer]] term for a very young person.<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Charge.''' Standard gender neutral word for a person in the care of another, often one's child.
* '''Charge.''' Standard gender neutral word for a person in the care of another, often one's child.
* '''Child.''' Standard gender neutral word for a young person or an offspring. Implied age isn't adult, but may be.
* '''Dependent.''' A person who relies on another-- usually a family member who may or may not be their parent-- for financial support; this is most often used as a standard gender-neutral word for a child too young to work. Formal.
* '''Dependent.''' A person who relies on another-- usually a family member who may or may not be their parent-- for financial support; this is most often used as a standard gender-neutral word for a child too young to work. Formal.
* '''Enby.''' From "NB (nonbinary)", a nonbinary equivalent of the words "boy" and "girl." However, some adults call themselves enbies.
* '''Enby.''' From "NB (nonbinary)", a nonbinary equivalent of the words "boy" and "girl." However, some adults call themselves enbies.
* '''Get.''' Poetic language for offspring.
* '''Get.''' Poetic language for offspring.
* '''Kid.''' Standard informal gender neutral term for young children or young offspring.
* '''Little one.''' Neutral word for a very young child or young offspring.
* '''Little one.''' Neutral word for a very young child or young offspring.
* '''Minor.''' Standard gender-neutral word for a person under the legal age of consent.
* '''Minor.''' Standard gender-neutral word for a person under the legal age of consent.
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====Aunt/Uncle====
====Aunt/Uncle====


Standard English doesn't have a gender neutral word for one's parent's sibling. People have created some words to fill this lexical gap, but they are still uncommon words. Alphabetical order.
Standard English doesn't have a gender neutral word for one's parent's sibling. People have created some words to fill this lexical gap, but they are still uncommon words.


* '''Auncle.''' "Queer, combination of aunt and uncle."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Auncle.''' "Queer, combination of aunt and uncle."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
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====Niece/Nephew====
====Niece/Nephew====


Standard English doesn't have a gender neutral word for one's sibling's child. People have created some words to fill this lexical gap, but they are still uncommon words. Alphabetical order.
Standard English doesn't have a gender neutral word for one's sibling's child. People have created some words to fill this lexical gap, but they are still uncommon words.
 
{{common word
|word1 = Nibling|meaning1 = Non-standard gender neutral term for "niece/nephew".|ref1 = <ref>[http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/nibling Coined by linguist Samuel E. Martin in 1951 from nephew/niece by analogy with sibling.]</ref>
|word2 = Nespring|meaning2 = A mix of ''offspring'' and the Latin word ''nepos'', from which both ''niece'' and ''nephew'' are derived.
}}


* '''Chibling.''' "Neutral, the children of you sibling."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Chibling.''' "Neutral, the children of you sibling."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Cousin.''' "Neutral, as sometimes people say niece/nephew for cousins’ children, or much younger cousins."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Cousin.''' "Neutral, as sometimes people say niece/nephew for cousins’ children, or much younger cousins."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Nespring.''' A mix of ''offspring'' and the Latin word ''nepos'', from which both ''niece'' and ''nephew'' are derived.
* '''Nibling.''' Non-standard gender neutral term for "niece/nephew". [http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/nibling Coined by linguist Samuel E. Martin in 1951 from nephew/niece by analogy with sibling.]
* '''Niecew.''' "Queer, mixture of niece and nephew."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Niecew.''' "Queer, mixture of niece and nephew."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Nieph.''' "Queer, mixture of niece and nephew."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Nieph.''' "Queer, mixture of niece and nephew."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
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====Grandparent====
====Grandparent====


Gender-neutral or genderqueer words for grandparent. Alphabetical order.
Gender-neutral or genderqueer words for grandparent.
 
{{common word
|word1 = Grandparent|meaning1 = Neutral, formal.|ref1 = <ref name="titles queeries"></ref>}}


* '''Bibi.''' "Queer, based on the B in NB, similar to nana and papa."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Bibi.''' "Queer, based on the B in NB, similar to nana and papa."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Grandparent.''' "Neutral, formal."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Grandwa.''' "Queer, based on grandma and grandpa."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Grandwa.''' "Queer, based on grandma and grandpa."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Grandy.'''' "Neutral, short for Grandparent, Grandma or Grandpa."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Grandy.'''' "Neutral, short for Grandparent, Grandma or Grandpa."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
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====Sibling====
====Sibling====


Gender-neutral or genderqueer words for sibling. Alphabetical order.
Gender-neutral or genderqueer words for sibling.
 
{{common word
|word1 = Sibling | meaning1 = Standard gender neutral term for sister or brother.
|word2 = Sib | meaning2 = Short for sibling, equivalent of ''bro'' or ''sis''.}}


* '''Emmer.''' Non-standard genderqueer term for sibling.
* '''Emmer.''' Non-standard genderqueer term for sibling.
* '''Sib.''' Short for sibling. Equivalent of bro or sis.
* '''Sibling.''' Standard gender neutral term for sister or brother.
* '''Sibster.''' "Queer, combination of sibling and sister."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Sibster.''' "Queer, combination of sibling and sister."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Sibter.''' "Queer, combination of sibling and brother."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Sibter.''' "Queer, combination of sibling and brother."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
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=====Date=====
=====Date=====


Gender-neutral and genderqueer words for a non-committed relationship, such as boyfriend, girlfriend, or date. Alphabetical order.
Gender-neutral and genderqueer words for a non-committed relationship, such as boyfriend, girlfriend, or date.
 
{{common word
|word1 = Date |meaning1 = Neutral, the person you are dating.|ref1 = <ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
|word2 = Lover|meaning2 = Neutral, often implies sexual relationship, but simply refers to someone you love/who loves you.|ref2 = <ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
|word3 = Sweetie/Sweetheart |meaning3 = Neutral, cheesy or old-fashioned.|ref3 = <ref name="titles queeries"></ref>}}


* '''Birlfriend.''' "Queer, mix of boyfriend and girlfriend."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref> [[Birl]] is also a particular gender identity.
* '''Birlfriend.''' "Queer, mix of boyfriend and girlfriend."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref> [[Birl]] is also a particular gender identity.
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* '''Boygirlfriend.''' "Queer, for bigender or androgynous people."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Boygirlfriend.''' "Queer, for bigender or androgynous people."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Cuddle Buddy.''' "Neutral, cheesy."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Cuddle Buddy.''' "Neutral, cheesy."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Date.''' "Neutral, the person you are dating."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Datefriend.''' "Neutral, the person you are dating, but fitting the boyfriend/girlfriend pattern."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Datefriend.''' "Neutral, the person you are dating, but fitting the boyfriend/girlfriend pattern."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Datemate.''' "Neutral, a rhyming version of datefriend, the person you are dating."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Datemate.''' "Neutral, a rhyming version of datefriend, the person you are dating."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
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* '''Genderfriend.''' "Queer, based on boyfriend and girlfriend."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Genderfriend.''' "Queer, based on boyfriend and girlfriend."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Girlboyfriend.''' "Queer, for bigender or androgynous people."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Girlboyfriend.''' "Queer, for bigender or androgynous people."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Lover.''' "Neutral, often implies sexual relationship, but simply refers to someone you love/who loves you."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''[name]friend.''' "Queer, based on girlfriend and boyfriend."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''[name]friend.''' "Queer, based on girlfriend and boyfriend."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Paramour.''' "Neutral, someone you are having a sexual relationship with."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Paramour.''' "Neutral, someone you are having a sexual relationship with."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Personfriend.''' "Neutral, leaning towards queer, based on boyfriend and girlfriend."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Personfriend.''' "Neutral, leaning towards queer, based on boyfriend and girlfriend."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Sweetie.''' "Neutral, slightly cheesy."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Sweetheart.''' "Neutral, cheesy or old-fashioned."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>


=====Significant other=====
=====Significant other=====


Gender-neutral and genderqueer words for a girlfriend, boyfriend, or partner in a committed relationship. Alphabetical order.
Gender-neutral and genderqueer words for a girlfriend, boyfriend, or partner in a committed relationship.
 
{{common word
|word1 = Beloved|meaning1 = Neutral, one who one loves.
|word2 = Partner|meaning2 = Neutral, often (but not necessarily) queer.
|word3 = Significant Other (SO)|meaning3 = Neutral, quite formal. Implies monogamy.|ref3 = <ref name="titles queeries"></ref>}}
}}


* '''Beloved.''' Neutral, one who one loves.
* '''Birlfriend.''' "Queer, mix of boyfriend and girlfriend."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref> [[Birl]] is also a particular gender identity.
* '''Birlfriend.''' "Queer, mix of boyfriend and girlfriend."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref> [[Birl]] is also a particular gender identity.
* '''Boifriend.''' "Queer, [[boi]] is a particular gender identity."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Boifriend.''' "Queer, [[boi]] is a particular gender identity."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
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* '''Other Half.''' "Neutral, informal, and implies monogamy."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Other Half.''' "Neutral, informal, and implies monogamy."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Paramour.''' "Neutral, someone you are having a sexual relationship with."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Paramour.''' "Neutral, someone you are having a sexual relationship with."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Partner.''' Neutral, but often queer.
* '''Personfriend.''' "Neutral, leaning towards queer, based on boyfriend and girlfriend."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Personfriend.''' "Neutral, leaning towards queer, based on boyfriend and girlfriend."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref>
* '''Significant Other (S.O.).''' "Neutral, quite formal."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref> Implies monogamy.
* '''Soul Mate.''' "Neutral, slightly cheesy, implies belief in soul mates."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref> Implies monogamy.
* '''Soul Mate.''' "Neutral, slightly cheesy, implies belief in soul mates."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref> Implies monogamy.
* '''Steady.''' "Neutral, as in 'going steady' or 'steady girlfriend/boyfriend'."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref> Implies monogamy.
* '''Steady.''' "Neutral, as in 'going steady' or 'steady girlfriend/boyfriend'."<ref name="titles queeries"></ref> Implies monogamy.