Editing Public toilets

[[File:Piptoilets.jpg|thumb|alt=A comic of one nonbinary person's ideal public toilet situation; toilet doors with signs of toilets and urinals, rather than the usual male/female symbols.|One nonbinary person's ideal public toilet situation; symbols representing facilities rather than permitted genders.]]'''Public toilets''' are a serious challenge for [[nonbinary]], [[intersex]], or [[gender nonconforming]] people. Places that only offer men's or women's restrooms create an unsafe situation where gender nonconforming people have to choose between potentially getting harassed or assaulted, or having to wait so long that they get health problems. A single-occupancy, gender-neutral restroom is safest, so it is important for everyone's rights to be able to find these spaces, and to ask for them to be created in public places that need to have them.

==Problems==

Restrooms for able-bodied people are often assigned to [[male]] and [[female]], with little to no provision for people who don't fit the [[gender binary]]. For nonbinary and gender nonconforming people, having to choose whether to go in a men's room or women's room can be a source of social anxiety and [[gender dysphoria]]. People who are seen as gender nonconforming may be subjected to harassment, violence, or arrest if others think they have entered the wrong restroom. Because of these risks, some people try to avoid using public toilets by waiting so long that it is bad for their health. Health risks from waiting too long to use a toilet include urinary stones, dehydration, cystitis, and infections of the bladder and kidneys.<ref name="trans bodies 576">Laura Erickson-Schroth, ed. ''Trans Bodies, Trans Selves: A Resource for the Transgender Community.'' Oxford University Press, 2014. P. 576.</ref> Another health concern is being able to wash one's hands in order to prevent the spread of contagious diseases.

*[http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2010/09/02/guest-post-go-where-sex-gender-and-toilets/ ''Go Where?''] is an article on the gendering of public toilets, looking into the visual symbols and what they say about language and public perception of gender.
*[https://web.archive.org/web/20041209235158/http://www.chaparraltree.com/raq/rename.shtml "Renaming the bathrooms: A cruel trick for queer ends,"] by [[androgyne]] Raphael Carter regarding a practical joke about signs on restroom doors, providing some levity about these issues.

==Advocating for gender-neutral restrooms==

There has long been a common misconception that having separate restrooms for men and women helps prevent assault. However, facts don't support this assumption. For preventing assault, a single-occupancy restroom is more effective. There is no reason for a single-occupancy restroom to be only for a certain gender. A gender-neutral, single-occupancy restroom makes public places safer for everyone.<ref name="trans bodies 576" /> 

Most public places only offer baby changing tables in the women's room, which can be a problem for fathers, and for any other caretaker who feels out of place in a women's room. Caretakers of babies, children, or other dependents want gender-neutral, single-occupancy restrooms. People who have disabilities want accessible, single-occupancy restrooms. Transgender, nonbinary, intersex, and gender nonconforming people can unite with these groups to organize and advocate for these improved public restrooms more effectively.<ref name="trans bodies 473">Laura Erickson-Schroth, ed. ''Trans Bodies, Trans Selves: A Resource for the Transgender Community.'' Oxford University Press, 2014. P. 473.</ref> 

These are some resources for people who want there to be gender-neutral restrooms in public places. 
* Transgender Law Center. (2005). ''Peeing in peace: A resource guide for transgender activists and allies.'' http://transgenderlawcenter.org/issues/public-accomodations/peeing-in-peace
* Sylvia Rivera Law Project (Producer) & Mateik, T. (Director). (2003). ''Toilet training: Law and order in the bathroom'' (DVD). United States: Silvia Rivera Law Project.

==Finding gender-neutral restrooms==

How to find gender-neutral public toilets anywhere, and how to handle situations where these aren't available.
* [http://www.refugerestrooms.org/ Refuge Restrooms] is a replacement for Safe2pee. It also has an iOS app available.
*[http://safe2pee.org/ Safe2pee] is a crowdsourced world map of public toilets that are genderfree and/or accessible. There is an iPhone app that uses the information so that you can find places when you're out and about, called [http://transquat.tumblr.com/ Transquat.]

==Restroom signs==

In some public places, where the facilities are already adequate, something as simple as the signs on the restroom doors can make a difference in whether people feel safer there. Some kinds of signs are more effective at this, and others make matters worse. 

These kinds of signs have disadvantages: 
* '''"Family restroom" signs''' can be seen as excluding people who are not being a caretaker of babies, children, or other dependents at that moment. Sometimes people who are by themselves get told they are not allowed to use them.
* '''Toilet/urinal signs''' can still be used to single out people who are expected to be able to pee standing up.
* '''A transgender symbol''' is not an internationally familiar symbol to everyone. Restrooms need to be marked with a universal pictogram, so that people who do not read the local language can recognize them without having to ask for help. (Many people are too shy to ask.) A trans symbol is not a universal pictogram for a restroom.
* '''Humorous restroom signs''' can seem cute and lighthearted. However, some such signs have jokes on them that are transphobic or are about sexual assault. Humorous restroom signs can act as a conversation-starter that can be a set-up for harassment. Even a tasteful joke on a restroom sign can make it harder for people who do not read the local language to recognize that this is the door to the restroom.

These are some examples of different kinds of gender-inclusive restroom signs, each demonstrating different advantages and disadvantages.
<gallery>
File:Gender neutral bathroom sign.png|Trans symbol
File:July 23 2008 025 Family Bathroom.jpg|"Family restroom"
File:2016.05.21 Capital TransPride Washington DC USA 0395 (26575220934).jpg|"Friendly for all genders"
File:Unisex bathroom.jpg|"Unisex"
File:Unisex pictogram.jpg|"All gender restroom"
File:Toilet for everyone.jpg|"Gender neutral"
File:Gender Neutral Bathroom Sign - Gas Station in Playa del Rey, CA - December 2017.jpg|"Gender neutral"
File:Behinderte Rollstuhl Wickelraum IMG 0223.JPG|Baby changing station and accessible
File:All gender restroom sign.jpg|Trans symbol and accessible symbol
File:Unisex Toilet.jpeg|"Unisex toilet and baby change"
File:Plumpsklo.jpg|Traditionally, outhouse doors had a heart or a moon.
File:Gender inclusive restroom sign Dartmouth College Hanover NH August 2016.jpg|"This is a gender inclusive restroom"
File:Gender Inclusive Restroom.JPG|"Gender inclusive restroom," with lengthy explanation
File:Carson Kitchen - Dec 2019 - Stierch 02.jpg|"Whatever, just please wash your hands"
File:25hours Vienna Restroom Sign.jpg|An example of a joke on a unisex restroom sign that is in bad taste, because it suggests that unisex bathrooms are a place for sexual harassment.
</gallery>

==See also==
* [[Changing rooms]]
* [[Swimming pools]]
* [[Locker rooms]]
* [[Practical resources]]

==References==
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