Names
Choosing a name can be a part of transition for people who have nonbinary gender identities. They might change their name to one that is gender-neutral, so that their name won't lead other people to see them as female or male. As with most parts of a nonbinary transition, this step is optional. It's not necessary for a nonbinary person to have a gender-neutral name if they don't want one. A nonbinary person can have a name that most people don't see as gender-neutral.
Choosing a name
Keep making a list of names that might suit you. Research each name. Some good research questions:
- Is the name compatible with your cultural or ethnic background? Try to avoid cultural appropriation. That means if the name is, for example, African, and you are not, then that name is not yours to take.
- When and where has the name been in fashion? Was it most popular in your generation, or will it make you seem younger or older?
- Is the name short for any long names? It may be short for several. Or, if it is a long name, what are some ways that people will often make it short?
List of all gender-neutral names
All of the personal names in the following list are gender-neutral. That is, people have given them to girls as well as boys. (Some names in this list might be only rarely used for a particular gender.) These names would be suitable for people of nonbinary genders, if they don't want names that are seen as feminine or masculine.
Each name entry is in this format:
Name. Language or culture of origin. Meaning. Sources cited. Keyword list.
The sources cited prove that the name is gender-neutral, and that it has the meaning given. The keyword list is to make it so that, if a person wants a name that has to do with a certain theme, such as the sea, or stars, they can search the names for any with those keywords.
If you put more names in this list, please make sure that you put them in alphabetical order.
A
A'ala, or 'A'ala. Hawaiian. Meaning "Fragrant, of high rank, royal."[1][2]
Aala. 1. Muslim. Meaning "Bounties."[3]. 2. American. "She who hunts and heals."[4] More often for girls.[5]
Aale. Finnish. Meaning "Noble."[6] Short for names beginning with Al, as well as Aarne and Arvid.[7] Estonian form of Alla and Rosalia.[8]
Aali. Finnish.[9]
Aalo. Finnish.[10]
Aalto. Finnish. Meaning "Wave."[11] Keyword: nature, sea, water
Aaren. English. Variant of Aaron.[12]
Abby. English. Short for Abraham or Abigail.[13]
Abcde. American. Meaning the beginning of the alphabet, but pronounced AB-sid-ee.[14]
Abia. Variant spelling of Abiah.[15]
Abiah. Hebrew. Meaning "God is my father."[16]
Abida. Arabic. Meaning "God's follower."[17]
Abijah. Variant of Abiah.[18]
Abimbola. West Africa, Yoruba. Meaning "Born wealthy."[19][20] Keywords: birth
Abiodun. West Africa, Yoruba. Meaning "A child born during Christmas or the New Year."[21] Keywords: birth
Ace. Latin. Meaning "One" or "Unity."
Achava. Hebrew. Meaning "Friendship."[22]
Acotas. Native American, Blackfoot. Meaning "Group of horses."[23]
Adair. English, Scottish. Meaning "Shallow place in a river near oaks."[24]
Addison. English. Meaning "Child of Adam."[25]
Addisyn. Variant of Addison, which see.[26]
Addyson. Variant of Addison, which see.[27]
Ade. West Africa, Yoruba. Meaning "Crown."[28]
Adebowale. West Africa, Yoruba. Meaning "My crown has come home."[29]
Adetokunbo. West Africa, Yoruba. Meaning "The crown came over the sea."[30]
Adi. Hebrew. Meaning "Jewel" or "Ornament."[31]
Adiel. 1. Hebrew. Meaning "Ornament of God." 2. Arabic. "Just; honest."[32]
Adilet. Kyrgyz. Meaning "Justice."[33]
Adina. Hebrew. Meaning "Slender."[34]
Adison. Variant of Addison, which see.
Adler. German. Meaning "Eagle."[35] Keywords: nature, animal, bird
Adoeete. Native American, Ga'igwu (Kiowa). Meaning "Big tree."[36] Keywords: nature, forest
Adolf.
Adria. Latin. Meaning "From Hadria; dark one." Variant of Adrian.[37]
Adrian. Latin. Meaning "From Hadria."[38]
Adriel. Hebrew. Meaning "God's majesty."[39]
Adyson. Variant of Addison, which see.
Aero. Greek. Meaning "Air."[40] Keywords: nature, elements
Aeron. Welsh. Meaning "Battle ending."[41] Keywords: war
Afon. Welsh. Meaning "River."[42] Keywords: nature, water, place
Africa.[43]
Afton. Gaelic. Meaning "From the Afton river."[44] Keywords: nature, water, place
Agam. Hebrew. Meaning "Lake."[45] Keywords: nature, water
Agrippa. Roman, Biblical. Meaning "Wild horse."[46] Keywords: nature, animals
Ah. Chinese. No meaning.[47]
Ahmoua. Native American, Sac and Fox Nation. Meaning "whale."[48] Keywords: nature, animals, water, sea
Aibhne. Irish.[49]
Aiken. English. Meaning "Made of oak." Also a variant of Adam. Keywords: nature, tree.[50]
Ailbhe. Gaelic. Meaning "White."[51] Keywords: colours
Aim.[52]
Aindrea. Variant of Andrea.
Ainsley. English. Meaning from the Brittish Nottinghamshire place name of Annesley, meaning Ann's Meadow.[53]
Ainslie. Variant of Ainsley.
Airlie. Scottish. Meaning from the place name Earley, meaning "Eagle wood."[54]
Airut. Finnish.[55]
Aj. English. From a combination of the letters A and J.[56]
Aja. Sanskrit. Meaning "Goat."[57] Keywords: nature, animals
Akachi. West African, Igbo. Meaning "the hand of God."[58]
Akay. Turkish. Meaning "Shining moon."[59] Keywords: nature, night, sky, space, magic, science
Akia. African. Meaning "First born."[60]
Akira (あきら). Japanese. Meaning "Bright" (明), "Sensible" (顕), or other meanings depending on spelling in kanji.[61][62]
Akpofure. West African, Urhobo. Meaning "Life is peaceful."[63]
Akuchi. West African, Igbo. Meaning "Wealth from God."[64]
Akuna. Aboriginal. Meaning "To know or follow."[65]
Al. Short for many female, male, and neutral names.
Alabama.[66]
Alary. German. Meaning "Elf ruler."[67] Keywords: mythology, magic
Alaula. Hawaiian. Meaning "Light of the early dawn."[68] Keywords: nature, sky, morning
Albany. Latin. Meaning "From Scotland (Albany)."[69]
Alby. Latin. Meaning "From Alba."[70]
Alchemy. Keywords: magic, science
Aldis. English. Meaning "From the Old House."[71]
Aldus. English. Meaning "Old."[72]
Ale. Finnish, short for Aleksanteri or Aleksi. Spanish, short for Alejandro or Alejandra.[73]
Aleksa. Variant of Alex.
Alemayehu. East African, Amharic. Meaning "I have seen the world."[74]
Alex. Short for Alexander, Alexandra, and so on.
Alexi. Variant of Alex.
Alexis. 1. Variant of Alex. 2. Greek. Meaning "Defender" or "Helper."[75]
Alf.
Ali. Arabic. Meaning "Sublime."[76]
Alick. Variant of Alex.
Alinafe. South African, Chewa. Meaning "He is with us."[77]
Alix. Variant of Alex.[78]
Allard. English. Meaning "Noble and bold."[79]
Allie. Celtic, meaning "Little rock; harmony, peace." German, meaning "Nobly famous."[80]
Allison. German. Meaning "Of a noble kind."[81]
Ally. English. Meaning "Friend, partner." Also short for names starting with Al. [82]
Almas. Arabic. Meaning "Diamond."[83]
Almog. Hebrew. Meaning "Coral."[84] Keywords: nature, water, sea
Aloha. Hawaiian. Meaning "Greetings."[85]
Alohilani. Hawaiian. Meaning "Bright sky, brightness of heaven."[86]
Alpha. Greek. Meaning "Ox," and the first letter of the Greek alphabet.[87]
Alpine. English. Meaning "Of mountain peaks."[88]
Alva. Latin. Meaning "Light skin."[89]
Alvi. Old English. Meaning "Elf friend."[90] Keywords: mythology, magic, fantasy
Aly. Variant of Ally, which see.[91]
Amabilis. Latin. Meaning "Lovable."[92]
Amal. Arabic. Meaning "Hope, aspiration."[93]
Amara. 1. Arabic. Meaning "Eternal." 2. Igbo. Meaning "God's grace."[94]
Amarah. Variant of Amara.[95]
Amare. Sanskrit. Meaning "Immortal."[96]
Amari.[97]
Amaris.
America.[98]
Americus
Ames. French. Meaning "Friend."[99]
Amethyst.[100]
Amets. Basque. Meaning "Dream."[101]
Ameya. Sanskrit. Meaning "Boundless."[102]
Ami
Amiel. Hebrew. Meaning "My people belong to God."[103]
Amisquew. Native American, Menominee. Meaning "Spoon."[104]
Amit. Hebrew. Meaning "Friend."[105]
Ammiel. Variant of Amiel, which see.
Amor. Spanish. Meaning "Love."[106]
Amory. English. Meaning "Home ruler."[107]
An. Chinese. Meaning "Peace."[108]
Anah. Hebrew. Meaning "Answer."[109]
Anan. West African, Akan. Meaning "Fourth born child."[110] Keywords: birth
Ananda. Sanskrit. Meaning "Bliss and joy."[111]
Anang. Native American, Ojibwa. Meaning "Star."[112]
Ananta. Sanskrit. Meaning "Infinite, endless."[113]
Anantha. Variant of Ananta, which see.
Anat. Hebrew. Meaning "Answer."[114]
Andi. Spelling variant of Andy.
Andie. Spelling variant of Andy.
Andrea. Italian. Meaning "Manly," and a feminine form of Andrew, but used for girls and boys.[115]
Andren. Variant of Andrea, which see.[116]
Andy. Short for Andrew, Andrea, and so on.
Angel. Greek. Meaning "Messenger."[117]
Anne. Frisian. Short for names beginning with Arn.[118]
Anh
Anmol
Ansley. English. Meaning "From the hermitage field," from a family name based on a place name.[119]
Anstice. Medieval English form of Anastasia, Greek, meaning "Resurrection."[120]
Anupan
Aoi. Japanese. Meaning "Blue" or "Hollyhock," depending on kanji.[121]
Aoki. Japanese. Meaning "Blue tree."[122]
Aolani. Hawaiian. Meaning "Cloud from heaven."[123]
Aquarius. Used for those born under this astrological sign.[124]
Aquila. Latin. Meaning "Eagle," and a constellation by that name.[125] Keywords: nature, animals, birds, sky, stars
Aquinnah
Ara
Arabia.[126]
Araci
Aran. Irish. Meaning "From the Aran Islands."[127]
Arawn. Welsh. Meaning "King of the otherworld."[128] Keywords: mythology, magic
Arda. Hebrew. Meaning "Bronze." Or a variant of Arden.[129]
Arden. English. From a family name based on place names meaning "High."[130]
Ardin. Latin. Meaning "Fiery."[131]
Areli. Hebrew. Meaning "Lion of God."[132]
Arely. Variant of Areli, which see.[133]
Aren.[134]
Ari. Hebrew. Meaning "Lion of God." Also short for names starting with Ar.[135]
Arian. Latin. Meaning "Very holy."[136]
Arien. Hebrew. Meaning "Enchanted."[137]
Arich.[138]
Ariel. Hebrew. Meaning "Lion of God," used in the Bible as another name for the city of Jerusalem. Shakespeare used this as the name for a spirit that was neither female nor male in The Tempest (1611).[139]
Aries. Used for those born under this astrological sign.[140]
Arion. Hebrew. Meaning "With melody."[141]
Arius. Greek. Meaning "Of Medea," originally a place name.[142]
Arizona. From a place name in the Basque language meaning "Good oak."[143]
Arkansas.[144]
Arketah. Native American, Oto. Meaning "No liver."[145]
Arlie. English. From a family name based on a place name meaning "Eagle wood."[146]
Armani. Meaning "From the house of Armand."[147]
Arnon. Hebrew. Meaning "Roaring stream."[148] Keywords: nature, water
Arrian. Latin. Meaning "Holy."[149]
Arron
Artemis. Greek. The name of a goddess, but used for girls and boys, and the masculine spelling, Artemus, sounds the same.[150]
Artois. French. Meaning "From Artois, Netherlands."[151]
Arvid
Arya. Sanskrit. Meaning "Honorable, noble."[152]
Asa. Hebrew. Meaning "Physician."[153]
Ascher. Variant of Asher, which see.[154]
Ash. English. Short for Ashley, which see.[155]
Ashanti. From the name of the Ashanti people in Ghana.[156]
Ashby. Old English. Meaning "Ash tree farm."[157]
Asher. Hebrew. Meaning "Blessed, happy."[158]
Ashland. English. Meaning "Land of ash."[159]
Ashlund. Variant of Ashland, which see.[160]
Ashley. Old English. From a family name based on a place name, meaning "Ash tree clearing."[161]
Ashton. Old English. From a family name based on a place name, meaning "Ash tree town."[162]
Ashwini
Asia
Asla
Aspen. Meaning a kind of tree.[163] Keywords: nature, tree
Asthore. Irish. Meaning "Loved one."[164]
Aştî. Kurdish. Meaning "Peace, tranquility."[165]
Astin. French. Meaning "Star-like."[166] Keywords: nature, sky, space
Aston. Old English. From a family name based on a place name meaning "East town."[167]
Asuka. Japanese.[168]
Atahladte
Atalyah. Variant of Athaliah, which see.[169]
Ataru
Athaliah. Hebrew. Meaning "Afflicted of God."[170]
Atherton. English. Meaning "From Atelhere's town."[171]
Atiya. Arabic. Mea