Public toilets

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One nonbinary person's ideal public toilet situation; symbols representing facilities rather than permitted genders.

Public toilets are a serious challenge for gender nonconforming and nonbinary people. Places that only offer men's or women's restrooms create an unsafe situation where gender nonconforming people have to choose between potentially getting harassed or assaulted, or having to wait so long that they get health problems. A single-occupancy, gender-neutral restroom is safest, so it is important for everyone's rights to be able to find these spaces, and to ask for them to be created in public places that need to have them.

Problems

Restrooms for able-bodied people are often assigned to male and female, with little to no provision for people who don't fit the gender binary. For nonbinary and gender nonconforming people, having to choose whether to go in a men's room or women's room can be a source of social anxiety and gender dysphoria. People who are seen as gender nonconforming may be subjected to harassment, violence, or arrest if others think they have entered the wrong restroom. Because of these risks, some people try to avoid using public toilets by waiting so long that it is bad for their health. Health risks from waiting too long to use a restroom include urinary stones, dehydration, cystitis, and infections of the bladder and kidneys.

• Go Where? is an article on the gendering of public toilets, looking into the visual symbols and what they say about language and public perception of gender.
• "Renaming the bathrooms: A cruel trick for queer ends," by androgyne Raphael Carter regarding a practical joke about signs on restroom doors, providing some levity about these issues.

Advocating for gender-neutral restrooms

There has long been a common misconception that having separate restrooms for men and women helps prevent assault. However, facts don't support this assumption. For preventing assault, a single-occupancy restroom is more effective. There is no reason for a single-occupancy restroom to be only for a certain gender. A gender-neutral, single-occupancy restroom makes public places safer for everyone.

Most public places only offer baby changing tables in the women's room, which can be a problem for fathers, and any other caretaker who feels out of place in a women's room. Caretakers of babies, children, or other dependents also want gender-neutral, single-occupancy restrooms. People who have disabilities want accessible, single-occupancy restrooms, too. Transgender and gender nonconforming people can unite with these groups to organize and advocate for these improved public restrooms more effectively.

These are some resources for people who want there to be gender-neutral restrooms in public places.

• Transgender Law Center. (2005). Peeing in peace: A resource guide for transgender activists and allies. http://transgenderlawcenter.org/issues/public-accomodations/peeing-in-peace
• Sylvia Rivera Law Project (Producer) & Mateik, T. (Director). (2003). Toilet training: Law and order in the bathroom (DVD). United States: Silvia Rivera Law Project.

Finding gender-neutral restrooms

How to find gender-neutral public toilets anywhere, and how to handle situations where these aren't available.

• Refuge Restrooms is a replacement for Safe2pee. It also has an iOS app available.
• Safe2pee is a crowdsourced world map of public toilets that are genderfree and/or accessible. There is an iPhone app that uses the information so that you can find places when you're out and about, called Transquat.

Restroom signs

In some public places, where the facilities are already adequate, something as simple as the signs on the restroom doors can make a difference in whether people feel safer there. Some kinds of signs are more effective at this, and others make matters worse.

These kinds of signs have disadvantages:

• "Family restroom" signs can be seen as excluding people who are not being a caretaker of babies, children, or other dependents at that moment. Sometimes people who are by themselves get told they are not allowed to use them.
• Toilet/urinal signs can still be used to single out people who are expected to be able to pee standing up.
• Humorous restroom signs can seem cute at first, but they can be in bad taste. They can act as a conversation-starter that make people feel uncomfortable.

These are some examples of different kinds of inclusive restroom signs.

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  "All gender restroom"

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  Trans symbol and wheelchair

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  "Unisex toilet and baby change"

See also

• Changing rooms
• Swimming pools
• Locker rooms
• Practical resources