Editing Quoigender

{{uncommon identity}}
{{infobox identity
| flag = quoigender.png
| related = [[Graygender]] and [[Exgender]]
| umbrella = [[Nonbinary]]
| frequency = 0.1%
}}
'''Quoigender''' (from French ''quoi'', ''quoi'' "what" + "gender") is a [[nonbinary]] gender identity with several definitions:

* someone who feels that gender identity and/or existing gender terms don't apply to them
* someone whose relationship with gender is complicated; someone who isn't sure whether they experience gender or what gender identity means for them
*can be used as an alternative to "[[questioning]]", in order to communicate exhaustion or frustration with searching for a better gender identity term for oneself
*someone who is done with gender and doesn't care much for it as a concept; frustration with gender

==History==
The Tumblr user epochryphal coined the word quoigender in 2014, as a gender counterpart to quoiromantic and quoisexual.<ref>Epochryphal. Tumblr, 2014. https://epochryphal.tumblr.com/post/91335142632/wait-shit-the-obvious-word-coinage-quoigender</ref> 

==Similar identities==

*'''[[Greygender]]''', also called grey agender - someone who has a gender, but feels less invested in it or connected to it than other people seem to.<ref name="Pride-Flags">{{Cite web |title=Graygender / Gray Agender |author=Pride-Flags |work=DeviantArt |date=23 August 2015 |access-date=20 May 2020 |url= https://www.deviantart.com/pride-flags/art/Graygender-Gray-Agender-555820442}}</ref><ref>[https://mogai-library.tumblr.com/post/126492755533/graygreygender Gray/greygender] by mogai-library, 12 August 2015</ref><ref>[https://invernom.tumblr.com/post/80158494356/identifying-as-graygendergreygender Identifying As “Graygender”/“Greygender”], invernom, 20 March 2014</ref><ref name="Hardell">{{Cite web |title=What is Greygender? |author=Hardell, Ash |authorlink=Ash Hardell|work=YouTube |date=17 December 2016 |access-date=19 May 2020 |url= https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Amt3YOkNes}}</ref>
*'''Exgender''' - similar to [[agender]] but more extreme--rejection of gender as a concept and a refusal to answer or acknowledge the question of gender.<ref>Lamb777. Tumblr, 2014. https://mentemmortaliatangunt.tumblr.com/post/90380722342/baaphomett-ive-done-a-lot-of-thinking-about</ref><ref>Lamb777. Tumblr, 2014. https://lamb777.tumblr.com/post/89738557605/genders-post-cw-for-death-mentions</ref><ref name=":0">Pride-color-schemes. Tumblr, 2016. https://pride-color-schemes.tumblr.com/post/148175331029/exgender-egender</ref>

==Flags==

There is no universally-accepted flag for the quoigender identity, but several have been proposed: one by Epochryphal, one by an unknown creator, a variation based on the former, and one by Hghrules. 
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File:Quoi Epochryphal.png
File:Quoigender.png
File:QuoiTrianglePurple.png
File:Quoigender (4).png
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==See also==

*[[List of nonbinary identities]]

==External Links==

*Ephochryphal: [https://epochryphal.tumblr.com/post/106762907052/a-note-on-quoi A Note On Quoi-]
*Hghrules: [https://hghrules.tumblr.com/day/2022/09/15 Quoigender Flag]

==References==
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[[Category:Nonbinary identities]]