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* meiniks bestiks Freundiks
* meiniks bestiks Freundiks
'''-ir, -on <ref>https://nibi.space/nichtbin%C3%A4re_w%C3%B6rter</ref> and -chen Forms.'''
 
* Chirurgon
 
* Doktoron
'''Shortened words, -ir and -on <ref>https://nibi.space/nichtbin%C3%A4re_w%C3%B6rter</ref> forms.'''
 
Shorten and/or add -ir or -on to make nouns gender-neutral. -ir works as a gender-neutral ending as it is a combination of -in and -er. -on can be used as an alternative to -ir when a word ends on the letter r.
 
<u>Shortened</u>
* Gema (Gemahlin/Gemahl)
* Prin/Kronprin
<u>Shortened/-ir/-on</u>
* Begleitir
* Chirurgir
* Cousir/Cousinir
* Doktir/Doktoron
* Freundir
* Freundir
* Partchen
* Gattir (Gattin/Gatte)
* Heiratir
* Könir
* Lehrir/Lehreron
* Partnir
* Partnir
* Witwon
* Professir/Professoron
* Schägir/Schwageron
* Trauzeugir
* Verlobtir
* Witwir


'''Shortened Words and Nonsense Forms <ref>http://nomthecatsaid.tumblr.com/post/124574373381/kennst-du-eine-gute-seite-auf-der-man-sich-%C3%BCber [https://web.archive.org/web/20211114230553/https://nomthecatsaid.tumblr.com/post/124574373381/kennst-du-eine-gute-seite-auf-der-man-sich-%C3%BCber Archived] on 17 July 2023</ref>'''
 
'''Shortened words and nonsense forms <ref>http://nomthecatsaid.tumblr.com/post/124574373381/kennst-du-eine-gute-seite-auf-der-man-sich-%C3%BCber [https://web.archive.org/web/20211114230553/https://nomthecatsaid.tumblr.com/post/124574373381/kennst-du-eine-gute-seite-auf-der-man-sich-%C3%BCber Archived] on 17 July 2023</ref>'''


Fairly well known -i words:
Fairly well known -i words:
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* Ich will Fotografierflausch werden.
* Ich will Fotografierflausch werden.
*
'''"-person" and "-mensch"'''


=== Pronouns ===
=== Pronouns ===
''See main article at [[Pronouns#German neutral pronouns|German neutral pronouns]].''
''See main article at [[Pronouns#German neutral pronouns|German neutral pronouns]].''
====== dey ======
Suggested by Riley Alexis in August 2016,<ref>Riley Alexis (2024): ''agenderbee.'' Online at:https://www.instagram.com/p/CZgOS9VqGWH/?igsh=MWs1eDVtYjRxMm9weA== (retrieved 21.03.2024).</ref> the "dey"-pronoun seems to be the most widespread nowadays. German translation of ''Starfield'' vom Bethesda Games Studios uses 'dey'/'demm' pronouns to refer to nonbinary protagonists. Some German speaking influencers use them as their pronouns (cf. @kai.isaiah_jamal) and so do other numerous Instagram users (i. e. search for the key words 'dey/dem' in the Instagram search engine). As for series, ''Star Treck Discovery'' uses 'dey' pronouns for their nonbinary/genderless characters.<ref name=":2">Heger, Illi Anna (2022): ''Darunter und darüber — "they" Pronomen in Filmen/Serien Deutsch übersetzen''. Online at: https://www.annaheger.de/darunterdarueber/ (retrieved 10.02.2024).</ref>
====== sier ======
Ravna Marin Siever, author of the book ''Was wird es denn? Ein Kind! Wie geschlechtsoffene Erziehung gelingt'', uses pronouns from the sier-paradigm for people to refer to them. Several books use 'sier' pronouns.<ref name=":4">Heger, Illi Anna (2022): ''DiverserLesen''. Online at: https://www.annaheger.de/diverserlesen/ (retrieved 10.02.2024).</ref>
====== xier ======
In the second episode (1:02) of the series ''City of Ghosts'', i. e. ''Stadt der Geister'' in German, Thomas states that their pronoun is 'xier'. The blogger Frau Papa Nina tells in an interview from the podcast ''Das gewünschteste Wunschkind,'' hosted by Danielle Graf and Katja Seide, t
that they use the pronoun 'xier' for themselves.<ref>Frau Papa Nina in conversation (2019): Transsexualität und Diversität. In: Graf, Danielle/Seide, Katja (hosts): ''Das gewünschteste Wunschkind. Der Podcast''. Online at: https://plus.rtl.de/podcast/das-gewuenschteste-wunschkind-3r427sdoc4dw2/transsexualitaet-und-diversitaet-cbin4vimtsr1p (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref> Several books,<ref name=":4" /> series<ref name=":3">Heger, Illi Anna (2022): ''Xier Pronomen in Texten, Serien, Filmen und Video Games''. Online at: https://www.annaheger.de/pronomentexte/ (retrieved 10.02.2024).</ref> and video games use 'xier' pronouns. For an exhaustive list, see ''Xier Pronomen in Texten, Serien, Filmen und Video Games'' from Illi Anna Heger.<ref name=":3" />
====== hen ======
In the German version from ''Kivi & Monsterhund'' from Jesper Lundqvist and Bettina Johansson, the protagonist, Kivi, who is referred to with the Swedish gender neutral pronoun 'hen', is referred to with the same pronoun in the German translation from Jochen Barthel.<ref>Lundqvist, Jesper/Johansson, Bettina (2019): ''Kivi & Monsterhund''. Berlin: Maria Benson Verlag.</ref> 'hen' also seems to be used by some bloggers,<ref>Annat75pyz (2023): ''Benutzt du das Pronomen "hen"?''. Online at: https://www.gutefrage.net/sprache-literatur-raetsel/deutsche-sprache/grammatik-rechtschreibung/frage/nenutzt-du-das-pronomen-hen (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref> instagrammers, and to be currently perceived as popular.<ref>Erhardt, Melissa (2022): Dey, Xier, Hen: Was es mit genderneutralen (Neo-)Pronomen auf sich hat. In: ''radio FM4''. Online at: https://fm4.orf.at/stories/3025024/ (retrieved 09.02,2024).</ref><ref name=":1" />
====== en ======
An important number of the members of the ''Verein für Geschlechtsneutrales Deutsch'', that is currently growing, uses the en/em forms from the De-e-System as their pronouns.<ref>Verein für Geschlechtsneutrales Deutsch e. V. (2024): ''r/geschlechtsneutral''. Online at: https://www.reddit.com/r/geschlechtsneutral/ (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
==== Tables ====
The relative pronouns are all similar to the demonstrative pronouns but for the genitive, represented in the last ligne of the table.
Except for the De-e-System (definite article: 'de' [də]; relative and demonstrative pronoun: 'de' [de(:)]), the definite article is similar to the demonstrative personal pronoun.
{| class="wikitable"
{| class="wikitable"
|+Personal pronouns: dominant usage
|+Primary and demonstrative personal pronouns, relative pronoun and definite article: dominant usage
!Paradigm
!Paradigm
!'dey/dej'<ref>Anonym (2017): ''Q: Ein [...] gegeben''. Online at: https://nonbinarytransgermany.tumblr.com/post/148742824641/ein-befreundeter-mensch-von-mir-hat-sich-mal (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref><ref>Pronouns.page (2024): ''dey/denen/demm''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/dey/denen/demm?erweitert (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref><ref>Pronouns.page (2024): ''dej/denen/dej''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/dej?erweitert (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
!'dey/dej'<ref name=":5">Anonym (2017): ''Q: Ein [...] gegeben''. Online at: https://nonbinarytransgermany.tumblr.com/post/148742824641/ein-befreundeter-mensch-von-mir-hat-sich-mal (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref><ref name=":6">Pronouns.page (2024): ''dey/denen/demm''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/dey/denen/demm?erweitert (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref><ref name=":7">Pronouns.page (2024): ''dej/denen/dej''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/dej?erweitert (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
! colspan="2" |<span style="color:DarkBlue">'sier' Version 2.1</span><ref>Heger, Illi Anna (2022): ''Version 2.1: sier Pronomen ohne Geschlecht''. Online at: https://www.annaheger.de/pronomen21/ (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
! colspan="2" |<span style="color:DarkBlue">'sier' Version 2.1</span><ref name=":8">Heger, Illi Anna (2022): ''Version 2.1: sier Pronomen ohne Geschlecht''. Online at: https://www.annaheger.de/pronomen21/ (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
! colspan="2" |'xier' Version 3.3<ref>Heger, Illi Anna (2022): ''Version 3.3: xier Pronomen ohne Geschlecht''. Online at: https://www.annaheger.de/pronomen33/ (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
! colspan="2" |'xier' Version 3.3<ref name=":9">Heger, Illi Anna (2022): ''Version 3.3: xier Pronomen ohne Geschlecht''. Online at: https://www.annaheger.de/pronomen33/ (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">'hän'</span><ref>zweisatz (2011): ''HIGH ON CLICHÉS''. ''Glossar''. Online at: https://web.archive.org/web/20230531034450/https://highoncliches.wordpress.com/2011/12/11/glossar/ (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref><ref>Pronouns.page (2024): ''hän/sim''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/h%C3%A4n?erweitert (retrieved 02.09.2024).</ref>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">'hän'</span><ref name=":10">zweisatz (2011): ''HIGH ON CLICHÉS''. ''Glossar''. Online at: https://web.archive.org/web/20230531034450/https://highoncliches.wordpress.com/2011/12/11/glossar/ (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref><ref name=":11">Pronouns.page (2024): ''hän/sim''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/h%C3%A4n?erweitert (retrieved 02.09.2024).</ref>
! colspan="2" |NoNa-System<ref>Pronouns.page (2024): ''hen/hem''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/hen?erweitert (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref><ref>Moro, Jona/Frank, Noah (2024): ''Das NoNa-System. geschlechtsneutrale deutsche Grammatik''. Online at: https://geschlechtsneutralesdeutsch.com/ (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
! colspan="2" |NoNa-System<ref name=":12">Pronouns.page (2024): ''hen/hem''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/hen?erweitert (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref><ref name=":13">Moro, Jona/Frank, Noah (2024): ''Das NoNa-System. geschlechtsneutrale deutsche Grammatik''. Online at: https://geschlechtsneutralesdeutsch.com/ (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
! colspan="2" |<span style="color:DarkBlue">g-Genus</span><ref name=":0">Dominik Jahre (2018): ''Das g-Genus. Merkmale des g-Genus''. Online at: https://www.geschlechtsneutral.com/index.html (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
! colspan="2" |<span style="color:DarkBlue">g-Genus</span><ref name=":0">Dominik Jahre (2018): ''Das g-Genus. Merkmale des g-Genus''. Online at: https://www.geschlechtsneutral.com/index.html (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
! colspan="2" |De-e-System<ref>Verein für Geschlechtsneutrales Deutsch e. V. (2024): ''De-e-System''. https://geschlechtsneutral.net/gesamtsystem/ (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
! colspan="2" |De-e-System<ref name=":14">Verein für Geschlechtsneutrales Deutsch e. V. (2024): ''De-e-System''. https://geschlechtsneutral.net/gesamtsystem/ (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
|-
|-
!'''prosodical features'''
!'''solely referential and/or demonstrative'''
!
!syncretic pronoun
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">unstressed</span>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">solely ref.</span>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">stressed</span>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">demonstr.</span>
!unstressed
!solely ref.
!stressed
!demonstr.
!
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">solely ref.</span>
!unstressed
!solely ref.
!stressed
!demonstr.
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">unstressed</span>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">solely ref.</span>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">stressed</span>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">demonstr.</span>
!unstressed
!solely ref.
!stressed
!demonstr.
|-
|-
!'''Nominative'''
!'''Nominative'''
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|<span style="color:DarkBlue">dio</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">dio</span>
|en
|en
|de [de(:)]
|de [də]/[de(:)]
|-
|-
!'''Accusative'''
!'''Accusative'''
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|<span style="color:DarkBlue">dio</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">dio</span>
|en
|en
|de [de(:)]
|de [də]/[de(:)]
|-
|-
!'''Dative'''
!'''Dative'''
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|<span style="color:DarkBlue">sirer</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">sirer</span>
| henser
| henser
| dais
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">henser</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">dero</span>
|enser
| -
| -
|-
!Genitive: relative pronouns
|derer/deren
|
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">deren</span><ref>Heger, Illi Anna (2024): Personal Communication.</ref>
|
|deren
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">-</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">-</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">-</span>
|
|enser
| -
| -
|
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">dereno</span>
|
|dersen
|-
|-
| colspan="6" |
! colspan="6" |
! colspan="5" |'hen' paradigms
! colspan="5" |'hen' paradigms
| colspan="2" |
! colspan="2" |
|-
!Examples
|'''Dey''' wohnt in '''deren'''&nbsp;eigener Wohnung. Hast du&nbsp;'''demm''' neulich gesehen? Wie geht es '''denen'''?
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">Ich kenne '''sien''' nicht. Ist '''sier''' hier&nbsp;eingezogen?Ich habe noch nie mit '''siem''' gesprochen.</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">Mit '''diem''' will ich&nbsp;nichts zu tun&nbsp;haben.&nbsp;'''Dier''' hört mir nie zu!</span>
|Suchst du&nbsp;'''xien'''?'''Xier''' ist im&nbsp;Urlaub.
|Same as for "sier".&nbsp;
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">Ich rufe '''sin''' später zurück an, wenn ich mit '''sim''' auch entspannt reden kann.</span>
|'''Hen''' lächelt  wie&nbsp;du.&nbsp;Bist du mit '''hem''' verwandt?
|'''Dai''' Tankel, '''dai''' neu hier ist, fragt '''dai''' Ompa, '''dam''' ich&nbsp;mal&nbsp;ein&nbsp;Bild geschenkt habe, wie es hem geht.
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">'''Hen''' wohnt mit '''hem''' in einem Reihenhaus.</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">'''Dio''' Hansi, '''dereno''' Geschwister ich noch nie getroffen habe, findet '''dio''' Kayan beim Versteckenspielen nie.</span>
|'''Em''' schmeckt mein Essen nie. Ich will '''en''' nicht mehr einladen.
|'''De''' Studente, mit '''derm''' ich gestern gesprochen habe, gefällt mir.
|}
|}


====== dey ======
{| class="wikitable"
Suggested by Riley Alexis in August 2016,<ref>Riley Alexis (2024): ''agenderbee.'' Online at:https://www.instagram.com/p/CZgOS9VqGWH/?igsh=MWs1eDVtYjRxMm9weA== (retrieved 21.03.2024).</ref> the "dey"-pronoun seems to be the most widespread nowadays. German translation of ''Starfield'' vom Bethesda Games Studios uses 'dey'/'demm' pronouns to refer to nonbinary protagonists. Some German speaking influencers use them as their pronouns (cf. @kai.isaiah_jamal) and so do other numerous Instagram users (i. e. search for the key words 'dey/dem' in the Instagram search engine). As for series, ''Star Treck Discovery'' uses 'dey' pronouns for their nonbinary/genderless characters.<ref name=":2">Heger, Illi Anna (2022): ''Darunter und darüber — "they" Pronomen in Filmen/Serien Deutsch übersetzen''. Online at: https://www.annaheger.de/darunterdarueber/ (retrieved 10.02.2024).</ref>
|+<small>Personal pronouns: peripheral usage</small>
!<small>Paradigm</small>
! colspan="2" |<small><span style="color:DarkBlue">SYLVAIN-Konventionen</span><ref>de Sylvain, Cabala/Balzer, Carsten (2008): ''Die SYLVAIN-Konventionen — Versuch einer "geschlechtergerechten" Grammatik-Transformation der deutschen Sprache.'' Online at: https://www.geschlechtsneutral.com/lit/Liminalis-2008-Sylvain-Balzer.pdf (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref></small>
! colspan="2" |<small>'sir' [zi:<span style="color:DarkBlue">ɐ̯]</span><ref>Nichtbinär-Wiki (2024): ''sir''. Online at: https://nibi.space/pronomen#sir (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref><ref name=":15">Berliner Morgenpost (2017): ''Das sagen Berliner Experten zum Streit ums dritte Geschlecht''. Online at: https://www.morgenpost.de/berlin/article212586881/Das-sagen-Berliner-Experten-zum-Streit-ums-dritte-Geschlecht.html (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref></small>
!<small><span style="color:DarkBlue">'hen'<sub>2</sub></span><ref>Catboy Jaebeom/Fliederfuchs (2023): ''ASTRI'FA | THE BEARER OF STARS''. Online at: https://catboy-jaebeom.tumblr.com/about (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref></small>
!<small>'el'<ref>Pronouns.page (2024): ''el/em''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/el?erweitert (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref><ref>Nichtbinär-Wiki (2024): ''el''. Online at: https://nibi.space/pronomen#el (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref></small>
!<small><span style="color:DarkBlue">'ey'</span><ref>Pronouns.page (2024). ''ey/emm''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/ey?erweitert (retrieved 10.02.2024).</ref><ref>Nichtbinär-Wiki (2024): ''ey/em''. Online at: https://nibi.space/pronomen#eyem (retrieved 10.02.2024).</ref></small>
|-
!'''<small>solely referential and/or demonstrative</small>'''
!<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>solely ref.</small></span>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>demonstr.</small></span>
!<small>solely ref.</small>
!<small>demonstr.</small>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>-</small></span>
!<small>-</small>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>-</small></span>
|-
!'''<small>Nominative</small>'''
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>nin</small></span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>din</small></span>
|<small>sir</small>
|<small>dier</small>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>hen</small></span>
|<small>el</small>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>ey</small></span>
|-
!'''<small>Accusative</small>'''
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>nin</small></span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>din</small></span>
|<small>sihn</small>
|<small>dien</small>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>han</small></span>
|<small>en</small>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>emm</small></span>
|-
!'''<small>Dative</small>'''
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>nim</small>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>dim</small>
|<small>ihrm</small>
|<small>derm</small>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>ham</small></span>
|<small>em</small>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>emm</small></span>
|-
!'''<small>Genitive</small>'''
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>nimser</small>
| <small>-</small>
|<small>sihrer</small>
| <small>-</small>
| <small>-</small>
|<small>emser</small>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>eyser</small></span>
|}


====== sier ======
{| class="wikitable"
Ravna Marin Siever, author of the book ''Was wird es denn? Ein Kind! Wie geschlechtsoffene Erziehung gelingt'', uses pronouns from the sier-paradigm for people to refer to them. Several books use 'sier' pronouns.<ref name=":4">Heger, Illi Anna (2022): ''DiverserLesen''. Online at: https://www.annaheger.de/diverserlesen/ (retrieved 10.02.2024).</ref>
|+<small>(almost) Indeclinable personal pronouns</small>
!<small>Paradigm</small>
!<small>'ens'<ref>Lann Hornscheidt in conversation (2021): ''Debatte um Gendersprache: Sie oder er oder wie? „Ich wünsche mir, dass alle erst mal ens sind“.'' In: ''Berliner Zeitung.'' Retrieved 28.04.2021.</ref><ref>Pronouns.page (2024): ''ens/ens''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/ens?erweitert (retrieved 10.02.2024).</ref></small>
!<small><span style="color:DarkBlue">'en'</span><ref name=":1">von Usslar, Maria (2019): Er, sie, they, hen: Wie wollen Trans- und Interpersonen bezeichnet werden? In: ''Der'' ''Standard''. Online at: https://www.derstandard.de/story/2000106804139/er-sie-they-hen-wie-wollen-trans-und-interpersonen-bezeichnet (retrieved 10.02.2024).</ref><ref>Pronouns.page (2024): ''en/en''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/en?erweitert (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref></small>
!<small>'iks'<ref>Pronouns.page (2024): ''iks/iks''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/iks?erweitert (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref></small>
|-
!<small>Nominative</small>
|<small>ens</small>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>en</small></span>
|<small>iks</small>
|-
!<small>Accusative</small>
|<small>ens</small>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>en</small></span>
|<small>iks</small>
|-
!<small>Dative</small>
|<small>ens</small>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>en</small></span>
|<small>iks</small>
|-
!<small>Genitive</small>
|<small>enser</small>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>enser</small></span>
|<small>ikser</small>
|}
For an exhaustive list of all existent neopronouns, see https://nibi.space/pronomen#pronomen or https://de.pronouns.page/pronomen


====== xier ======
=== Possessive adjectives ===
In the second episode (1:02) of the series ''City of Ghosts'', i. e. ''Stadt der Geister'' in German, Thomas states that their pronoun is 'xier'. The blogger Frau Papa Nina tells in an interview from the podcast ''Das gewünschteste Wunschkind'' — hosted by Danielle Graf and Katja Seide — that they use the pronoun 'xier' for themselves.<ref>Frau Papa Nina in conversation (2019): Transsexualität und Diversität. In: Graf, Danielle/Seide, Katja (hosts): ''Das gewünschteste Wunschkind. Der Podcast''. Online at: https://plus.rtl.de/podcast/das-gewuenschteste-wunschkind-3r427sdoc4dw2/transsexualitaet-und-diversitaet-cbin4vimtsr1p (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref> Several books,<ref name=":4" /> series<ref name=":3">Heger, Illi Anna (2022): ''Xier Pronomen in Texten, Serien, Filmen und Video Games''. Online at: https://www.annaheger.de/pronomentexte/ (retrieved 10.02.2024).</ref> and video games use 'xier' pronouns. For an exhaustive list, see ''Xier Pronomen in Texten, Serien, Filmen und Video Games'' from Illi Anna Heger.<ref name=":3" />
For the sake of clarity, the neuter grammatical gender is omitted from this table.
{| class="wikitable"
|+Inclusive possessive adjective (ownership of any gender)
!Paradigm
! colspan="3" |'dey/dej'<ref name=":5" /><ref name=":6" /><ref name=":7" />
! colspan="3" |<span style="color:DarkBlue">'sier' Version 2.1</span><ref name=":8" />
! colspan="3" |'xier' Version 3.3<ref name=":9" />
! colspan="3" |<span style="color:DarkBlue">'hän'</span><ref name=":10" /><ref name=":11" />
! colspan="3" |NoNa-System<ref name=":12" /><ref name=":13" />
! colspan="3" |<span style="color:DarkBlue">g-Genus</span><ref name=":0" />
! colspan="5" |De-e-System<ref name=":14" />
|-
!Gender of the owned object
!<small>masc.</small>
!<small>fem.</small>
!<small>incl.</small>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>masc.</small></span>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>fem.</small></span>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>incl.</small></span>
!<small>masc.</small>
!<small>fem.</small>
!<small>incl.</small>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>masc.</small></span>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>fem.</small></span>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>incl.</small></span>
!<small>masc.</small>
!<small>fem.</small>
!<small>incl.</small>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>masc.</small></span>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>fem.</small></span>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>incl.</small></span>
!<small>masc.</small>
!<small>fem.</small>
!<small>incl. 3<sup>d</sup> PS</small>
! colspan="2" |<small>incl. 1<sup>st</sup> and 2<sup>d</sup> PP</small>
|-
!'''Nominative'''
| colspan="3" rowspan="4" |deren
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">sies</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">siese</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">siesa</span>
|xies
|xiese
|xiesa
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">sir</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">sire</span>
| -
| colspan="3" rowspan="4" |hens
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">hens</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">hense</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">henseo</span>
|ens
|ense
|ens
|unse
|eue
|-
!'''Accusative'''
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">siesen</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">siese</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">siesan</span>
|xiesen
|xiese
|xiesan
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">siren</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">sire</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"> -</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">hensen</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">hense</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">henseo</span>
|ensen
|ense
|ens
|unse
|eue
|-
!'''Dative'''
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">siesem</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">sieser</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">siesam</span>
|xiesem
|xieser
|xiesam
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">sirem</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">sirer</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"> -</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">hensem</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">henser</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">hensero</span>
|ensem
|enser
|enserm
|unsererm
|eurerm
|-
!'''Genitive'''
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">sieses</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">sieser</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">siesas</span>
|xieses
|xieser
|xiesas
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">sires</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">sirer</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue"> -</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">henses</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">henser</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">hensero</span>
|enses
|enser
|ensers
|unserers
|eurers
|-
! colspan="10" |
! colspan="10" |'hen' paradigms
! colspan="4" |
|}
The possessiv adjectives 'deren' and 'hens' offer the advantage of being easily learnable. As for the possessives suggested by the g-Genus, aside from appearing on nonbinary grammatical websites, they don't seem to have gained much popularity on online platforms. The possessive adjectives from the 'hän' paradigm are phonetically similar to the ones of the system proposed by Kathrin Kunkel-Razum, the editor-in-chief of the Duden.<ref name=":15" />


====== hen ======
=== Article pronouns, possessive pronouns ===
In the German version from ''Kivi & Monsterhund'' from Jesper Lundqvist and Bettina Johansson, the protagonist Kivi, who is referred to with the Swedish gender neutral pronoun 'hen', is referred to with the same pronoun in the German translation from Jochen Barthel.<ref>Lundqvist, Jesper/Johansson, Bettina (2019): ''Kivi & Monsterhund''. Berlin: Maria Benson Verlag.</ref> 'hen' also seems to be used by some bloggers<ref>Annat75pyz (2023): ''Benutzt du das Pronomen "hen"?''. Online at: https://www.gutefrage.net/sprache-literatur-raetsel/deutsche-sprache/grammatik-rechtschreibung/frage/nenutzt-du-das-pronomen-hen (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>, instagrammers, and to be currently perceived as popular.<ref>Erhardt, Melissa (2022): Dey, Xier, Hen: Was es mit genderneutralen (Neo-)Pronomen auf sich hat. In: ''radio FM4''. Online at: https://fm4.orf.at/stories/3025024/ (retrieved 09.02,2024).</ref><ref name=":1" />
Unlike possessive adjectives ('dein Eis', 'ihr Bleistift', 'unser Löffel'), possessive pronouns ('deins', 'ihrer', 'unserer') stand for the entire possessed object, so they are not followed by a noun or declined.


====== en ======
Article pronouns can both function as articles and pronouns without undergoing any formal changes (ex.: Diesen (Pulli) mag ich nicht.).<ref>Ertl, Martin (2022): ''Kasusauffälligkeiten in Lerntexten''. Bielefeld: wbv Publikation, p. 53.</ref> For that reason, demonstratives that also function as pragmatically marked personal pronouns (see table 'Personal pronouns: dominant usage'), are considered article pronouns too, as they can refer to an entire syntagma on their own, or accompany/precede a noun (ex.: Den (Julian) mag ich nicht). In the De-e-system, however, the declension of the demonstrative personal pronoun is different from the other article pronouns.<ref>Verein für Geschlechtsneutrales Deutsch e. V (2023): ''Demonstrativ-/Relativpronomen''. Online at: https://geschlechtsneutral.net/deklinationstabellen/ (retrieved 28.03.2024).</ref>
An important number of the members of the ''Verein für Geschlechtsneutrales Deutsch'', that is currently growing, uses the en/em forms from the De-e-System as their pronouns.<ref>Verein für Geschlechtsneutrales Deutsch e. V. (2024): ''r/geschlechtsneutral''. Online at: https://www.reddit.com/r/geschlechtsneutral/ (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
 
 
For an exhaustive list of all existent neopronouns, see https://nibi.space/pronomen#pronomen or https://de.pronouns.page/pronomen.
{| class="wikitable"
{| class="wikitable"
|+Personal pronouns: peripheral usage
|+Inclusive possessive and article pronouns (genderneutral/-inclusive owned object)
!Paradigm
!Paradigm
! colspan="2" |<span style="color:DarkBlue">SYLVAIN-Konventionen</span><ref>de Sylvain, Cabala/Balzer, Carsten (2008): ''Die SYLVAIN-Konventionen — Versuch einer "geschlechtergerechten" Grammatik-Transformation der deutschen Sprache.'' Online at: https://www.geschlechtsneutral.com/lit/Liminalis-2008-Sylvain-Balzer.pdf (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
!'dey/dej'<ref name=":5" /><ref name=":6" /><ref name=":7" />
! colspan="2" |'sir' [zi:<span style="color:DarkBlue">ɐ̯]</span><ref>Nichtbinär-Wiki (2024): ''sir''. Online at: https://nibi.space/pronomen#sir (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref><ref>Berliner Morgenpost (2017): ''Das sagen Berliner Experten zum Streit ums dritte Geschlecht''. Online at: https://www.morgenpost.de/berlin/article212586881/Das-sagen-Berliner-Experten-zum-Streit-ums-dritte-Geschlecht.html (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">'sier' Version 2.1</span><ref name=":8" />
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">'hen'<sub>2</sub></span><ref>Catboy Jaebeom/Fliederfuchs (2023): ''ASTRI'FA | THE BEARER OF STARS''. Online at: https://catboy-jaebeom.tumblr.com/about (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
!'xier' Version 3.3<ref name=":9" />
!'el'<ref>Pronouns.page (2024): ''el/em''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/el?erweitert (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref><ref>Nichtbinär-Wiki (2024): ''el''. Online at: https://nibi.space/pronomen#el (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">'hän'</span><ref name=":10" /><ref name=":11" />
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">'ey'</span><ref>Pronouns.page (2024). ''ey/emm''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/ey?erweitert (retrieved 10.02.2024).</ref><ref>Nichtbinär-Wiki (2024): ''ey/em''. Online at: https://nibi.space/pronomen#eyem (retrieved 10.02.2024).</ref>
!NoNa-System<ref name=":12" /><ref name=":13" />
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">g-Genus</span><ref name=":0" />
!De-e-System<ref name=":14" />
|-
|-
!'''prosodical features'''
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">unstressed</span>
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">stressed</span>
!unstressed
!stressed
!
!
!ex. with 'die' (plurall)
!
!
!
!
!
!ex. with 'jene·r·s'
!<span style="color:DarkBlue"><small>ex. with 'jede·r·s'</small></span>
!ex. with 'eins·e·er'
|-
|-
!'''Nominative'''
!'''Nominative'''
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">nin</span>
| rowspan="4" |derer
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">din</span>
<small>(only attested possessive</small>
|sir
<small>pronoun for this paradigm)</small>
|dier
| rowspan="4" |<span style="color:DarkBlue">no data yet</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">hen</span>
| rowspan="4" |no data yet
|el
| rowspan="4" |<span style="color:DarkBlue">no data yet</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">ey</span>
|jenai
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">jedeo</span>
|einey
|-
|-
!'''Accusative'''
!'''Accusative'''
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">nin</span>
|jenai
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">din</span>
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">jedeo</span>
|sihn
|einey
|dien
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">han</span>
|en
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">emm</span>
|-
|-
!'''Dative'''
!'''Dative'''
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">nim
|jenam
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">dim
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">jedero</span>
|ihrm
|einerm
|derm
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">ham</span>
|em
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">emm</span>
|-
|-
!'''Genitive'''
!'''Genitive'''
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">nimser
| -
| -
|sihrer
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">-</span>
| -
| -
| -
|-
|emser
! colspan="4" |
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">eyser</span>
! colspan="3" |'hen' paradigms
!
|}
|}


{| class="wikitable"
=== '''Indefinite pronoun''' ===
|+(almost) Indeclinable personal pronouns
In German, there is the indefinite pronoun "man". This is used in everyday language regardless of gender. But the fact that it sounds exactly like the word "Mann" makes some people uncomfortable. A few decades ago, feminist language critics suggested using alternatives such as "frau" or "mensch". However, the word "frau" only evokes one gender, so it has no real advantage over "man".
!Paradigm
 
!'ens'<ref>Lann Hornscheidt in conversation (2021): ''Debatte um Gendersprache: Sie oder er oder wie? „Ich wünsche mir, dass alle erst mal ens sind“.'' In: ''Berliner Zeitung.'' Retrieved 28.04.2021.</ref><ref>Pronouns.page (2024): ''ens/ens''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/ens?erweitert (retrieved 10.02.2024).</ref>
From a linguistic history perspective, "man" is an Old High German noun that had the gender-neutral meaning of the word "human" and only later took on the meaning "man" as a noun.
!<span style="color:DarkBlue">'en'</span><ref name=":1">von Usslar, Maria (2019): Er, sie, they, hen: Wie wollen Trans- und Interpersonen bezeichnet werden? In: ''Der'' ''Standard''. Online at: https://www.derstandard.de/story/2000106804139/er-sie-they-hen-wie-wollen-trans-und-interpersonen-bezeichnet (retrieved 10.02.2024).</ref><ref>Pronouns.page (2024): ''en/en''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/en?erweitert (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
 
!'iks'<ref>Pronouns.page (2024): ''iks/iks''. Online at: https://de.pronouns.page/iks?erweitert (retrieved 09.02.2024).</ref>
The form "man" is only used in the nominative. In the dative and accusative, the forms "einem" and "einen" are used as indefinite pronouns; there is no genitive form of the indefinite pronoun in German.
|-
 
!Nominative
"Mensch" and "eins" are suggested alternatives to the subject form of “man”. "einem"/"einen" would stay the same.
|ens
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">en</span>
|iks
|-
!Accusative
|ens
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">en</span>
|iks
|-
!Dative
|ens
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">en</span>
|iks
|-
!Genitive
|enser
|<span style="color:DarkBlue">enser</span>
|ikser
|}


=== Titles ===
=== Titles ===
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* Professx<ref>http://www.spiegel.de/unispiegel/wunderbar/gendertheorie-studierx-lann-hornscheidt-ueber-gerechte-sprache-a-965843.html [https://web.archive.org/web/20230421011215/https://www.spiegel.de/unispiegel/wunderbar/gendertheorie-studierx-lann-hornscheidt-ueber-gerechte-sprache-a-965843.html Archived] on 17 July 2023</ref>, abgekürzt Prof. oder Profx. - nonstandard
* Professx<ref>http://www.spiegel.de/unispiegel/wunderbar/gendertheorie-studierx-lann-hornscheidt-ueber-gerechte-sprache-a-965843.html [https://web.archive.org/web/20230421011215/https://www.spiegel.de/unispiegel/wunderbar/gendertheorie-studierx-lann-hornscheidt-ueber-gerechte-sprache-a-965843.html Archived] on 17 July 2023</ref>, abgekürzt Prof. oder Profx. - nonstandard


=== Family and relationship terms ===
=== Family, relationship and people terms ===
See also: [https://nibi.space/nichtbin%C3%A4re_w%C3%B6rter Nichtbinäre Wörter] at Nichtbinär-Wiki
See also: [https://nibi.space/nichtbin%C3%A4re_w%C3%B6rter Nichtbinäre Wörter] at Nichtbinär-Wiki


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* Großes - standard
* Großes - standard
* Enbie, Enby - instead of Mädchen/Junge/Bub, nonstandard
* Enbie, Enby - instead of Mädchen/Junge/Bub, nonstandard
* Spross/nachkomme, means sprogeny/offspring/descendant


'''Aunt/Uncle'''
'''Aunt/Uncle'''
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* Batter
* Batter
* Cousibling
* Cousibling
* Cousinir
* Cousir/Cousinir
* Couson
* Seitschwister
* Seitschwister


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* Brüderin, Brüder*in - nonstandard
* Brüderin, Brüder*in - nonstandard
* Geschwister - standard, but not commonly used
* Geschwister - standard, but not commonly used
* Geschwisterchen - standard, but old fashioned and usually used for very young siblings
* Geschwisterchen - standard but old fashioned and usually used for very young siblings
* Große/Ältere Geschwister - big/older sibling
* Große/Ältere Geschwister - big/older sibling
* Kleine/Jüngere Geschwister - little/younger sibling
* Kleine/Jüngere Geschwister - little/younger sibling
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* Brautpartnir - nonstandard
* Brautpartnir - nonstandard
* Brautpartchen - nonstandard
* Eheperson
* Eheperson
* Ehepartei
* Ehepartei
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*Eheperson
*Eheperson
*Eheherzperson
*Eheherzperson
* Freund - nonstandard
* Freun - nonstandard
* Freundir - nonstandard
* Freunir/Freundir - nonstandard
* Freund*in
* Freund*in
* Gattir - nonstandard, oldfashion, from Gattin/Gatte
* Gattir - nonstandard, oldfashion, from Gattin/Gatte
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* Liebschaft
* Liebschaft
* Paarteil
* Paarteil
* Partchen - nonstandard
* Partner*in
* Partner*in
* Partnir - nonstandard
* Partnir - nonstandard
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'''In-law'''
'''In-law'''


* Schwageron - nonstandard, sibling-in-law
* Schwiegerelter - nonstandard, parent-in-law
* Schwiegerelter - nonstandard, parent-in-law
* Schwiegergeschwister - nonstandard, sibling-in-law
* Schwiegergeschwister - nonstandard, sibling-in-law
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* Schwiegerperson - in-law person
* Schwiegerperson - in-law person
* Schwiegschwister - nonstandard, sibling-in-law
* Schwiegschwister - nonstandard, sibling-in-law
* Schwägir - nonstandard, sibling-in-law
* Schwägir/Schwageron - nonstandard, sibling-in-law


'''Other'''
'''Other'''
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* Brautentourage - nonstandard neutral word for wedding entourage
* Brautentourage - nonstandard neutral word for wedding entourage
* Erwachsene Person - neutral word for adult
* Erwachsene Person - neutral word for adult
* Hauspartnir/Hauspartchen - nonstandard neutral word for housespouse
* Hauspartnir - nonstandard neutral word for housespouse


* Hauselter - nonstandard neutral word for houseparent
* Hauselter - nonstandard neutral word for houseparent
* Jemensch - non-male-generalizing alternative to jemand
* Jugenlicher/Jungere Person - neutral word for youth/young person
* Jugenlicher/Jungere Person - neutral word for youth/young person
* Köni - nonstandard neutral alternative to queen (königin) and king (könig)
* Niemensch - non-male-generalizing alternative to niemand
* Könilich - nonstandard neutral alternative to royal (königlich)
* Leut - nonstandard singular version of ''Leute''
* Leut - nonstandard singular version of ''leute''
* Leute - standard word for people
* Leute - standard word for people
* Prin/Kronprin - nonstandard alternatives for princess/prince and crownprincess/crownprince
* Thronfolger - neutral word for crownprincess/crownprince
* Regent/Monarch - standard neutral alternatives to queen and king
* Reich - neutral alternative to kingdom (königreich)
* Trauzeugir - nonstandard neutral alternative to ''trauzeugin/brautjungfern'' and ''trauzeuge(n)''
* Trauzeugir - nonstandard neutral alternative to ''trauzeugin/brautjungfern'' and ''trauzeuge(n)''
* Verehrte Publikum/Gäste/Leute - neutral alternative to "ladies and gentlemen"
* Verehrte/Liebe Publikum/Gäste/Leute/Menschen - neutral alternative to "ladies and gentlemen"


* Verheirateten - neutral alternative to married couple
* Verheirateten - neutral alternative to married couple
* Witwir - neutral alternative to widowed person/wid
* Älterer person - neutral alternative to old woman and old man
* Älterer person - neutral alternative to old woman and old man
=== Other terms ===
* Bürgir/Bürgeron - nonstandard neutral word for citizen
* Chirurgir
* Doktir/Doktoron
* Kollegir
* Könir - nonstandard neutral alternative to queen (königin) and king (könig)
* Könirlich - nonstandard neutral alternative to royal (königlich)
* Mittbewohnir - nonstandard neutral alternative to mittbewhonerin/mittbewohner
* Lehrir/Lehreron
* Prin/Kronprin - nonstandard alternatives for princess/prince and crownprincess/crownprince
* Professir/Professoron - nonstandard alternatives for professor
* Schülir/Schüleron - nonstandard alternatives for school-student
* Studentir - nonstandard alternative for student
* Thronfolger - neutral word for crownprincess/crownprince
* Regent/Monarch - standard neutral alternatives to queen and king
* Reich/Könirreich - neutral alternatives to kingdom (königreich)


== See also ==
== See also ==

Revision as of 21:08, 28 August 2024

See also: Glossary of German gender and sex terminology

See also: Pronouns#German neutral pronouns


Gender neutral language

Gender neutral language in German is more difficult than gender neutral language (also called gender inclusive language) in some languages, because German's grammatical gender is pervasive. See the main article on gender neutral language for general reasons to use neutral language, common problems in using it, and its use for nonbinary people.

Nouns, Adjectives etc.

See also: Geschlechtsneutrale Sprache at Nichtbinär-Wiki

Asterisk, Underscore, Punctuation

Pronounced as a pause or glottal stop. In between "feminine" and "masculine" ending, the most common version:

  • mein_e beste*r Freund:in

Either after the stem - or more realistically at the next best place that has nothing to do with feminine/masculine forms but makes sense for pronunciation:

  • mei:ne bes_ter Freun*din

At random places:

  • mei*ne best:er Freundi_n

Can be used consistently or mixed up like in the example above.

X[1]

Pronounced like iks.[2]

  • meinx bestx Freundx

(or e.g. Befreunx to avoid basing it on the masculine form) Or write it as -iks.

  • meiniks bestiks Freundiks


Shortened words, -ir and -on [3] forms.

Shorten and/or add -ir or -on to make nouns gender-neutral. -ir works as a gender-neutral ending as it is a combination of -in and -er. -on can be used as an alternative to -ir when a word ends on the letter r.

Shortened

  • Gema (Gemahlin/Gemahl)
  • Prin/Kronprin

Shortened/-ir/-on

  • Begleitir
  • Chirurgir
  • Cousir/Cousinir
  • Doktir/Doktoron
  • Freundir
  • Gattir (Gattin/Gatte)
  • Heiratir
  • Könir
  • Lehrir/Lehreron
  • Partnir
  • Professir/Professoron
  • Schägir/Schwageron
  • Trauzeugir
  • Verlobtir
  • Witwir


Shortened words and nonsense forms [4]

Fairly well known -i words:

  • der_die Studi, dix Touri

New words by the same pattern:

  • dier Mitbewohni, der*die Kollegi

Use the short -i forms or make up new endings and treat the word as neutrum.

  • mein bestes Freundi
  • mein liebes Mitbewohnsi

Use -mensch, -menschi, -person:

  • das Postmenschi
  • meine Liebhabperson
  • der liebe Katzenbetreu-Mensch

Or just random words that you think are cute.

  • Ich will Fotografierflausch werden.

"-person" and "-mensch"

Pronouns

See main article at German neutral pronouns.

dey

Suggested by Riley Alexis in August 2016,[5] the "dey"-pronoun seems to be the most widespread nowadays. German translation of Starfield vom Bethesda Games Studios uses 'dey'/'demm' pronouns to refer to nonbinary protagonists. Some German speaking influencers use them as their pronouns (cf. @kai.isaiah_jamal) and so do other numerous Instagram users (i. e. search for the key words 'dey/dem' in the Instagram search engine). As for series, Star Treck Discovery uses 'dey' pronouns for their nonbinary/genderless characters.[6]

sier

Ravna Marin Siever, author of the book Was wird es denn? Ein Kind! Wie geschlechtsoffene Erziehung gelingt, uses pronouns from the sier-paradigm for people to refer to them. Several books use 'sier' pronouns.[7]

xier

In the second episode (1:02) of the series City of Ghosts, i. e. Stadt der Geister in German, Thomas states that their pronoun is 'xier'. The blogger Frau Papa Nina tells in an interview from the podcast Das gewünschteste Wunschkind, hosted by Danielle Graf and Katja Seide, t

that they use the pronoun 'xier' for themselves.[8] Several books,[7] series[9] and video games use 'xier' pronouns. For an exhaustive list, see Xier Pronomen in Texten, Serien, Filmen und Video Games from Illi Anna Heger.[9]

hen

In the German version from Kivi & Monsterhund from Jesper Lundqvist and Bettina Johansson, the protagonist, Kivi, who is referred to with the Swedish gender neutral pronoun 'hen', is referred to with the same pronoun in the German translation from Jochen Barthel.[10] 'hen' also seems to be used by some bloggers,[11] instagrammers, and to be currently perceived as popular.[12][13]

en

An important number of the members of the Verein für Geschlechtsneutrales Deutsch, that is currently growing, uses the en/em forms from the De-e-System as their pronouns.[14]

Tables

The relative pronouns are all similar to the demonstrative pronouns but for the genitive, represented in the last ligne of the table.

Except for the De-e-System (definite article: 'de' [də]; relative and demonstrative pronoun: 'de' [de(:)]), the definite article is similar to the demonstrative personal pronoun.

Primary and demonstrative personal pronouns, relative pronoun and definite article: dominant usage
Paradigm 'dey/dej'[15][16][17] 'sier' Version 2.1[18] 'xier' Version 3.3[19] 'hän'[20][21] NoNa-System[22][23] g-Genus[24] De-e-System[25]
solely referential and/or demonstrative syncretic pronoun solely ref. demonstr. solely ref. demonstr. solely ref. solely ref. demonstr. solely ref. demonstr. solely ref. demonstr.
Nominative dey/dej sier [zi:ɐ̯] dier [di:ɐ̯] xier dier hän hen dai hen dio en de [də]/[de(:)]
Accusative dey/dej; dem(m) [dɛm] sien dien xien dien sin hen dai hen dio en de [də]/[de(:)]
Dative denen; demm[26] siem diem xiem diem sim hem dam hem dero em derm
Genitive derer/deren sieser - xieser - sirer henser dais henser dero enser -
Genitive: relative pronouns derer/deren deren[27] deren - - dereno dersen
'hen' paradigms
Examples Dey wohnt in deren eigener Wohnung. Hast du demm neulich gesehen? Wie geht es denen? Ich kenne sien nicht. Ist sier hier eingezogen?Ich habe noch nie mit siem gesprochen. Mit diem will ich nichts zu tun haben. Dier hört mir nie zu! Suchst du xien?Xier ist im Urlaub. Same as for "sier".  Ich rufe sin später zurück an, wenn ich mit sim auch entspannt reden kann. Hen lächelt wie du. Bist du mit hem verwandt? Dai Tankel, dai neu hier ist, fragt dai Ompa, dam ich mal ein Bild geschenkt habe, wie es hem geht. Hen wohnt mit hem in einem Reihenhaus. Dio Hansi, dereno Geschwister ich noch nie getroffen habe, findet dio Kayan beim Versteckenspielen nie. Em schmeckt mein Essen nie. Ich will en nicht mehr einladen. De Studente, mit derm ich gestern gesprochen habe, gefällt mir.
Personal pronouns: peripheral usage
Paradigm SYLVAIN-Konventionen[28] 'sir' [zi:ɐ̯][29][30] 'hen'2[31] 'el'[32][33] 'ey'[34][35]
solely referential and/or demonstrative solely ref. demonstr. solely ref. demonstr. - - -
Nominative nin din sir dier hen el ey
Accusative nin din sihn dien han en emm
Dative nim dim ihrm derm ham em emm
Genitive nimser - sihrer - - emser eyser
(almost) Indeclinable personal pronouns
Paradigm 'ens'[36][37] 'en'[13][38] 'iks'[39]
Nominative ens en iks
Accusative ens en iks
Dative ens en iks
Genitive enser enser ikser

For an exhaustive list of all existent neopronouns, see https://nibi.space/pronomen#pronomen or https://de.pronouns.page/pronomen

Possessive adjectives

For the sake of clarity, the neuter grammatical gender is omitted from this table.

Inclusive possessive adjective (ownership of any gender)
Paradigm 'dey/dej'[15][16][17] 'sier' Version 2.1[18] 'xier' Version 3.3[19] 'hän'[20][21] NoNa-System[22][23] g-Genus[24] De-e-System[25]
Gender of the owned object masc. fem. incl. masc. fem. incl. masc. fem. incl. masc. fem. incl. masc. fem. incl. masc. fem. incl. masc. fem. incl. 3d PS incl. 1st and 2d PP
Nominative deren sies siese siesa xies xiese xiesa sir sire - hens hens hense henseo ens ense ens unse eue
Accusative siesen siese siesan xiesen xiese xiesan siren sire - hensen hense henseo ensen ense ens unse eue
Dative siesem sieser siesam xiesem xieser xiesam sirem sirer - hensem henser hensero ensem enser enserm unsererm eurerm
Genitive sieses sieser siesas xieses xieser xiesas sires sirer - henses henser hensero enses enser ensers unserers eurers
'hen' paradigms

The possessiv adjectives 'deren' and 'hens' offer the advantage of being easily learnable. As for the possessives suggested by the g-Genus, aside from appearing on nonbinary grammatical websites, they don't seem to have gained much popularity on online platforms. The possessive adjectives from the 'hän' paradigm are phonetically similar to the ones of the system proposed by Kathrin Kunkel-Razum, the editor-in-chief of the Duden.[30]

Article pronouns, possessive pronouns

Unlike possessive adjectives ('dein Eis', 'ihr Bleistift', 'unser Löffel'), possessive pronouns ('deins', 'ihrer', 'unserer') stand for the entire possessed object, so they are not followed by a noun or declined.

Article pronouns can both function as articles and pronouns without undergoing any formal changes (ex.: Diesen (Pulli) mag ich nicht.).[40] For that reason, demonstratives that also function as pragmatically marked personal pronouns (see table 'Personal pronouns: dominant usage'), are considered article pronouns too, as they can refer to an entire syntagma on their own, or accompany/precede a noun (ex.: Den (Julian) mag ich nicht). In the De-e-system, however, the declension of the demonstrative personal pronoun is different from the other article pronouns.[41]

Inclusive possessive and article pronouns (genderneutral/-inclusive owned object)
Paradigm 'dey/dej'[15][16][17] 'sier' Version 2.1[18] 'xier' Version 3.3[19] 'hän'[20][21] NoNa-System[22][23] g-Genus[24] De-e-System[25]
ex. with 'die' (plurall) ex. with 'jene·r·s' ex. with 'jede·r·s' ex. with 'eins·e·er'
Nominative derer

(only attested possessive pronoun for this paradigm)

no data yet no data yet no data yet jenai jedeo einey
Accusative jenai jedeo einey
Dative jenam jedero einerm
Genitive - - -
'hen' paradigms

Indefinite pronoun

In German, there is the indefinite pronoun "man". This is used in everyday language regardless of gender. But the fact that it sounds exactly like the word "Mann" makes some people uncomfortable. A few decades ago, feminist language critics suggested using alternatives such as "frau" or "mensch". However, the word "frau" only evokes one gender, so it has no real advantage over "man".

From a linguistic history perspective, "man" is an Old High German noun that had the gender-neutral meaning of the word "human" and only later took on the meaning "man" as a noun.

The form "man" is only used in the nominative. In the dative and accusative, the forms "einem" and "einen" are used as indefinite pronouns; there is no genitive form of the indefinite pronoun in German.

"Mensch" and "eins" are suggested alternatives to the subject form of “man”. "einem"/"einen" would stay the same.

Titles

Instead of Frau/Herr

  • Frann[42] - nonstandard
  • Ind.[42] von "Individuum", nonstandard
  • Mau[42] - nonstandard
  • Per - nonstandard
  • "Vorname, Nachname" - In vielen Fällen kann und sollte man anstelle eines Ehrentitels der Vor- und Nachname verwenden, z.B. "Kim Müller" statt "Frau/Herr Müller".

Professional & Academic Titles

  • Doctorx[42] - nonstandard
  • Professorx[42] - nonstandard
  • Professx[43], abgekürzt Prof. oder Profx. - nonstandard

Family, relationship and people terms

See also: Nichtbinäre Wörter at Nichtbinär-Wiki

Parent

  • Elter - German word for parent, will sound awkward but be recognised
  • Elta - nonstandard
  • Mapa - nonstandard
  • Pama - nonstandard
  • Wawa - nonstandard

Child

  • Kind - standard
  • Kleines - standard
  • Großes - standard
  • Enbie, Enby - instead of Mädchen/Junge/Bub, nonstandard
  • Spross/nachkomme, means sprogeny/offspring/descendant

Aunt/Uncle

  • Eltergeschwister - nonstandard
  • Eltschwister - nonstandard
  • Onte - nonstandard
  • Pibling - nonstandard
  • Tankel - nonstandard
  • Tonke - nonstandard

Niece/Nephew

  • Nibling - nonstandard
  • Niffe - nonstandard
  • Geschwisterkind - nonstandard
  • Schwisterkind - nonstandard
  • Seitkind - nonstandard

Cousin

  • Batter
  • Cousibling
  • Cousir/Cousinir
  • Seitschwister

Grandparent

  • Großelter - nonstandard, will sound awkward but be understood
  • Ohlta - nonstandard
  • Opma - nonstandard
  • Owa - nonstandard

Sibling

  • Bruderin, Bruder*in - nonstandard
  • Brüderin, Brüder*in - nonstandard
  • Geschwister - standard, but not commonly used
  • Geschwisterchen - standard but old fashioned and usually used for very young siblings
  • Große/Ältere Geschwister - big/older sibling
  • Kleine/Jüngere Geschwister - little/younger sibling

Partner

  • Brautpartnir - nonstandard
  • Eheperson
  • Ehepartei
  • Eheteil
  • Eheherzmensch - married to the heart person
  • Eheperson
  • Eheherzperson
  • Freun - nonstandard
  • Freunir/Freundir - nonstandard
  • Freund*in
  • Gattir - nonstandard, oldfashion, from Gattin/Gatte
  • Gema - nonstandard, oldfashion, from Gemahlin/Gemahl
  • Gespons - oldfashion
  • Heiratir - nonstandard
  • Herzmensch - literally heart person, used as a term of endearment
  • Liebschaft
  • Paarteil
  • Partner*in
  • Partnir - nonstandard
  • Verlobtir - nonstandard

In-law

  • Schwiegerelter - nonstandard, parent-in-law
  • Schwiegergeschwister - nonstandard, sibling-in-law
  • Schwiegerkind - nonstandard, child-in-law
  • Schwiegerperson - in-law person
  • Schwiegschwister - nonstandard, sibling-in-law
  • Schwägir/Schwageron - nonstandard, sibling-in-law

Other

  • Begleitir - nonstandard neutral word for one's company/companion
  • Brautentourage - nonstandard neutral word for wedding entourage
  • Erwachsene Person - neutral word for adult
  • Hauspartnir - nonstandard neutral word for housespouse
  • Hauselter - nonstandard neutral word for houseparent
  • Jemensch - non-male-generalizing alternative to jemand
  • Jugenlicher/Jungere Person - neutral word for youth/young person
  • Niemensch - non-male-generalizing alternative to niemand
  • Leut - nonstandard singular version of Leute
  • Leute - standard word for people
  • Trauzeugir - nonstandard neutral alternative to trauzeugin/brautjungfern and trauzeuge(n)
  • Verehrte/Liebe Publikum/Gäste/Leute/Menschen - neutral alternative to "ladies and gentlemen"
  • Verheirateten - neutral alternative to married couple
  • Witwir - neutral alternative to widowed person/wid
  • Älterer person - neutral alternative to old woman and old man

Other terms

  • Bürgir/Bürgeron - nonstandard neutral word for citizen
  • Chirurgir
  • Doktir/Doktoron
  • Kollegir
  • Könir - nonstandard neutral alternative to queen (königin) and king (könig)
  • Könirlich - nonstandard neutral alternative to royal (königlich)
  • Mittbewohnir - nonstandard neutral alternative to mittbewhonerin/mittbewohner
  • Lehrir/Lehreron
  • Prin/Kronprin - nonstandard alternatives for princess/prince and crownprincess/crownprince
  • Professir/Professoron - nonstandard alternatives for professor
  • Schülir/Schüleron - nonstandard alternatives for school-student
  • Studentir - nonstandard alternative for student
  • Thronfolger - neutral word for crownprincess/crownprince
  • Regent/Monarch - standard neutral alternatives to queen and king
  • Reich/Könirreich - neutral alternatives to kingdom (königreich)

See also

Main resources

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