Quoigender

This page is about a gender identity that is not widely used among gender-variant people. This does not mean that the identity is not valid, but that very few people are known to use this term.
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Quoigender (from French quoi, quoi "what" + "gender") is a nonbinary gender identity with several definitions:

someone who feels that gender identity and/or existing gender terms don't apply to them
someone whose relationship with gender is complicated; someone who isn't sure whether they experience gender or what gender identity means for them
can be used as an alternative to "questioning", in order to communicate exhaustion or frustration with searching for a better gender identity term for oneself
someone who is done with gender and doesn't care much for it as a concept; frustration with gender

History

The Tumblr user epochryphal coined the word quoigender in 2014, as a gender counterpart to quoiromantic and quoisexual.^[1]

Similar identities

Greygender, also called grey agender - someone who has a gender, but feels less invested in it or connected to it than other people seem to.^[2]^[3]^[4]^[5]
Exgender - similar to agender but more extreme--rejection of gender as a concept and a refusal to answer or acknowledge the question of gender.^[6]^[7]^[8]

Flags

There is no universally-accepted flag for the quoigender identity, but several have been proposed: one by Epochryphal, one by an unknown creator, a variation based on the former, and one by Hghrules.