Sinclair Sexsmith: Difference between revisions

    From Nonbinary Wiki
    imported>TXJ
    (Created page with "{{stub}} '''Sinclair Sexsmith''' is a writer and performer. They identify as a "White non-binary butch feminist dominant".<ref name="medium">{{Cite web |t...")
     
    imported>TXJ
    No edit summary
    Line 1: Line 1:
    {{stub}}
    {{Infobox person
    | picture=Sinclair Sexsmith 06-23-2009 by Rachel Kramer Bussell.jpg
    | caption=Mx. Sexsmith at a Bluestockings bookstore reading in 2009
    | date_birth=
    | place_birth=
    | nationality=American
    | pronouns=[[they/them]]
    | gender=[[nonbinary]]
    | occupation=writer, performer
    | known_for=
    }}
     
    '''Sinclair Sexsmith''' is a writer and performer. They identify as a "White [[non-binary]] [[butch]] [[feminism|feminist]] dominant".<ref name="medium">{{Cite web |title=Sinclair Sexsmith profile |author= |work=Medium |date= |access-date=9 April 2020 |url= https://medium.com/@mrsexsmith}}</ref> Their website, Sugarbutch, which they started in 2006, "contains explicit writings on kink practices, dominant/submissive relationships, and queer kink erotica (among other things)." ​Their short story collection, ''Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica'', was a 2016 finalist for the Lambda Literary Award. Sexsmith uses [[singular they]] and the prefix [[Mx]].
    '''Sinclair Sexsmith''' is a writer and performer. They identify as a "White [[non-binary]] [[butch]] [[feminism|feminist]] dominant".<ref name="medium">{{Cite web |title=Sinclair Sexsmith profile |author= |work=Medium |date= |access-date=9 April 2020 |url= https://medium.com/@mrsexsmith}}</ref> Their website, Sugarbutch, which they started in 2006, "contains explicit writings on kink practices, dominant/submissive relationships, and queer kink erotica (among other things)." ​Their short story collection, ''Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica'', was a 2016 finalist for the Lambda Literary Award. Sexsmith uses [[singular they]] and the prefix [[Mx]].



    Revision as of 20:24, 6 May 2020

    Sinclair Sexsmith
    Sinclair Sexsmith 06-23-2009 by Rachel Kramer Bussell.jpg
    Mx. Sexsmith at a Bluestockings bookstore reading in 2009
    Nationality American
    Pronouns they/them
    Gender identity nonbinary
    Occupation writer, performer

    Sinclair Sexsmith is a writer and performer. They identify as a "White non-binary butch feminist dominant".[1] Their website, Sugarbutch, which they started in 2006, "contains explicit writings on kink practices, dominant/submissive relationships, and queer kink erotica (among other things)." ​Their short story collection, Sweet & Rough: Queer Kink Erotica, was a 2016 finalist for the Lambda Literary Award. Sexsmith uses singular they and the prefix Mx.

    Quotes

    "I am ever aware of the heteronormativity and cissexism in the BDSM worlds, and I think queers are doing amazing things to call attention to, work on, and transform what it means to explore gender, or explore power dynamics."[2]

    "Dear cis people who put your pronouns on your “hello my name is” name tags: Thank you. When you do that, I feel more comfortable putting my pronouns — they/them. I feel more comfortable being visibly out as nonbinary. I feel more comfortable asking people to use the pronouns that feel most like me, that make me feel most seen and whole, instead of just resolving to be mis-gendered and mis-represented and whatever who cares anyway."[3]

    "It's been a long, slow road to this version of me. It's taken a long time and a LOT of experiments, a lot of wardrobe changes, a lot of trial and error. And I'm still changing all the time, still seeking ways to become the most 'me' I can be. I had really excellent teachers who inspired me while I was coming out and coming into butchness and queerness, which really helped. I have very supportive parents and siblings, and I've always been very stubborn about doing my own thing and expressing my own way, since I was young. I've leaned on the many communities I've been a part of, and have felt so supported and lifted up by the generosity — I've learned so much by being part of communities and groups."[4]

    References

    1. "Sinclair Sexsmith profile". Medium. Retrieved 9 April 2020.
    2. Yates, Carolyn (8 April 2012). "Sinclair Sexsmith on "Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica": The Autostraddle Interview". Autostraddle. Retrieved 9 April 2020.
    3. Sexsmith, Sinclair (20 April 2019). "Dear (Cis) People Who Put Your Pronouns On Your "Hello My Name Is" Name Tags". Medium. Retrieved 9 April 2020.
    4. "An Interview with Sinclair Sexsmith: A Very Sexy Butch Wordsmith". ButchOnTap. 22 September 2014. Retrieved 9 April 2020.