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'''Gender-neutral language''', also called '''gender-inclusive language''', is the practice of using words that don't give an idea of someone being female or male. For example, the word "fireman" gives the idea that a person in that work is male. An offer for a job as a "cleaning lady" gives the idea that only a woman should do the job. The gender-neutral alternatives are to say "fire fighter" and "janitor," respectively. Then it is easier to see that these jobs can be done by a person of any gender. Gender-neutral language is important in [[Feminism|feminism]], because changing the way that people talk can help make [[sexism|sexist]] ideas less common. For example, the sexist idea that some jobs should only be done by people of certain genders.
'''Gender-neutral language''', also called '''gender-inclusive language''', is the practice of using words that don't give an idea of someone being female or male. For example, the word "fireman" gives the idea that a person in that work is male. An offer for a job as a "cleaning lady" gives the idea that only a woman should do the job. The gender-neutral alternatives are to say "fire fighter" and "janitor," respectively. Then it is easier to see that these jobs can be done by a person of any gender. Gender-neutral language is important in [[Feminism|feminism]], because changing the way that people talk can help make [[sexism|sexist]] ideas less common. For example, the sexist idea that some jobs should only be done by people of certain genders.


Gender-neutral language is also important to many people who have [[Nonbinary gender|non-binary gender identities]]. For one reason, this kind of talk helps fight against [[nonbinary erasure]], which is the common but wrong and sexist idea that there are only two genders. Since gender-neutral language doesn't give the idea that a person is male or female, it can also apply to people who identify as other genders, outside of the [[Gender binary|gender binary]]. Non-binary people can ask to be talked about in this way.
Gender-neutral language is also important to many people who have [[Nonbinary gender|nonbinary gender identities]]. For one reason, this kind of talk helps fight against [[nonbinary erasure]], which is the common but wrong and sexist idea that there are only two genders. Since gender-neutral language doesn't give the idea that a person is male or female, it can also apply to people who identify as other genders, outside of the [[Gender binary|gender binary]]. Nonbinary people can ask to be talked about in this way.
 
Gender-neutral language is both useful and necessary grammatically and socially for the situtations in which gender is varied/queer, mixed/diverse in a group, irrelevant/unwanted, secret or unknown.
 
==Arabic==
The Washington Post has reported that "Modern standard Arabic, based on Koranic classical Arabic, additionally has a dual option for nouns and verbs that doesn’t imply a specific gender. Some people therefore use the dual of they and you — “huma” (هما) and “intuma” (انتما) — as a gender-neutral alternative. Colloquial Arabic spoken today has largely done away with the dual, so this form can sound very formal to those not in the know."<ref name="Berger">{{Cite web |title=A guide to how gender-neutral language is developing around the world |last=Berger |first=Miriam |work=Washington Post |date=15 December 2019 |access-date=2 October 2020 |url= https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2019/12/15/guide-how-gender-neutral-language-is-developing-around-world/|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230527215640/https://www.washingtonpost.com/world/2019/12/15/guide-how-gender-neutral-language-is-developing-around-world/ |archive-date=17 July 2023 }}</ref>


==Chinese==
==Chinese==
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* '''博士''' '''(bo shi)'''. Standard word for professor.  
* '''博士''' '''(bo shi)'''. Standard word for professor.  
* '''老板''' '''(lao ban)'''. Standard term for one's boss (say at work).
* '''老板''' '''(lao ban)'''. Standard term for one's boss (say at work).
*'''同学 (tong xue).''' Standard term for one's classmates
Family Terms
Family Terms
* '''孩子 (hai zi).''' Standard gender neutral term for child.  
* '''孩子 (hai zi).''' Standard gender neutral term for child.  
*'''家长 (jia zhang).''' Standard gender neutral term for parent.
Professions
Professions
* '''服务员 (''fu wu yuan'').''' Standard word for server and/or gender neutral term for waiter/waitress.  
* '''服务员 (''fu wu yuan'').''' Standard word for server and/or gender neutral term for waiter/waitress.  
==Dutch==


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Romantic
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===Family terms===
* '''对象 (dui xiang).''' Term that means one's romantic partner. It is gender neutral.
====Parent====
* '''配偶 (pei ou).''' Term that means one's partner in marriage. It is gender neutral.
* '''Ouder.''' Neutral, formal.


====Child====
== Cornish ==
* '''Baby.''' Standard neutral word for very young offspring or very young people.
Cornish, like all other modern Celtic languages, has two grammatical genders: masculine and feminine. Although the way that gender-neutral nouns and non-binary people are referred to in terms of grammatical gender, and the impact that those nouns would have on adjectives, is yet to be determined, Cornish has a complete set of non-binary 3rd person singular pronouns:
* '''Jonkie.''' Standard neutral word for young people.
{| class="wikitable"
* '''Kind.''' Standard gender neutral word for a young person or an offspring. Implied age isn't adult, but may be.
|+Paradigm of the Cornish non-binary pronoun
* '''Kleintje.''' Literally "little one", neutral word for a very young child or young offspring.
!Purpose
* '''Kleuter.''' Neutral word for child that is ~3 to ~6 years old.
!Word or element in Cornish
* '''Peuter.''' Neutral word for child that is ~1 to ~3 years old.
!Examples
* '''Tiener.''' Neutral word for a child that is ~10 to ~18 years old.
 
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==English==
 
''See also: [[Glossary of English gender and sex terminology]].''
 
English has grammatical gender, but only a vestige of what it once had. Old English once had grammatical gender for inanimate objects, but this practice started to disappear in the 700s, and vanished in the 1200s. The population of England at that time spoke several languages, and the same inanimate objects had different genders in those different languages. They may have stopped using that part entirely just to make it simpler. English stopped using grammatical gender for inanimate objects, but it still uses grammatical gender for people and personal pronouns.<ref>Dictionary.com. "English used to have gendered nouns?! Yes!" May 16, 2012. ''Dictionary.com'' (blog). [http://blog.dictionary.com/oldenglishgender/ http://blog.dictionary.com/oldenglishgender/]</ref> There is enough to make a challenge for nonbinary people who don't want gendered language to be used for them.
 
Gender-neutral language has become common in English today largely thanks to the pioneering work by feminists Casey Miller and Kate Swift. During the 1970s, they began the work of encouraging inclusive language, as an alternative to sexist language that excludes or dehumanizes women. Miller and Swift wrote a manual on gender-neutral language, ''The Handbook of Nonsexist Writing'' (1980). Miller and Swift also proposed a set of gender-neutral pronouns, [[Pronouns#Tey|tey]], although they later favored [[Pronouns#They|singular they]], or [[Pronouns#He or she|he or she]].<ref>Elizabeth Isele, "Casey Miller and Kate Swift: Women who dared to disturb the lexicon." http://scholar.lib.vt.edu/ejournals/old-WILLA/fall94/h2-isele.html </ref> There are several books on gender-neutral English, such as Rosalie Maggio's book ''The Nonsexist Word Finder: A Dictionary of Gender-Free Usage'' (1989).
 
Much of the language that is often called gender-neutral has a problem: it's more than a little bit male. This is the problem that the [[Pronouns#He|gender-neutral he pronoun]], "you guys," and similar kinds of language have in common. "Linguists call male terms used to include females ''androcentric generics.''"<ref>Suzanne Romaine, ''Communicating Gender.'' Mahwah, New Jersey: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, 1999, p. 104.</ref> Androcentric generics have several problems. It can be arbitrarily seen as either including women or excluding women depending on whims, which has made trouble for women when it happens in legal documents. It can also give the impression that someone is in some way male, which can be unclear or insulting to people of other genders.
 
Much of other gender-neutral language has a problem: it gives the idea that female and male are the only genders. For example, calling an unspecified person by [[Pronouns#He or she|he or she pronouns]], a speaker addressing "ladies and gentlemen," an invitation saying "both genders welcome," and so on. Much of Western society thinks this is inclusive enough, because it doesn't know there are other genders. This language excludes nonbinary people, who would prefer an unspecified person to be called "they" rather than "he or she," would prefer a speaker to address "the audience," and an invitation saying "all genders welcome."
 
This is a list of both standard (dictionary) and non-standard (created) terms and pronouns to include [[Nonbinary gender|nonbinary identities]]. It should be noted that while some are [[Agender|genderless]] or [[Third Gender|third gender]], others are multigender. Terms will be marked with the implied gender identity when possible.
 
===Pronouns===
 
''See main article at [[Pronouns]].''
 
Some examples of inclusive or alternative pronouns:
 
{|
 
|-
|they
|them
|theirs
|themself
|-
|e
|em
|es
|emself
|-
|ey
|em
|eirs
|eirself
|-
|-
|ze
|Personal pronoun
|hir
|'''hynn''', '''hydn''', '''hedn'''
|hirs
|'''Hynn''' a wra dos avorow.
|hirself
''They will come tomorrow.''
|-
|-
|xe
|Possessive adjective
|per
|'''ho<sup>2</sup>''' (causes soft mutation)
|pers
|My a wra '''ho''' weles avorow.
|perself
''I will see them tomorrow''.
|-
|-
|sie
|Infixed pronoun
|hum
|'''<nowiki/>'gh'''<sup>(2/4 if desired by speakers to improve the sound of the sentence)</sup>
|hus
|My a'''<nowiki/>'gh''' gwel/wel/kwel avorow.
|huself
''I will see them tomorrow.''
|-
|-
|xhe
|Emphatic pronoun
|herm
|'''hehynn''', '''ehynn''', '''hyhynn''', etc.
|herms
|Ny wra saw '''hehynn''' dos avorow.
|hermself
''Only <u>they</u> will come tomorrow''.
|-
|-
|thee
|Conjugated prepositions
|ther
|'''-m''' at the end of the masculine form
|thers
|My a wra mos '''dhodhom''' avorow.
|therself
''I will go to them tomorrow.''
|}
''(hir is pronounced "here")''


rows:  [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_they singular they],  [https://thebetter.wiki/en/Spivak_pronoun spivak (rogers)],  [https://www.mypronouns.org/ze-hir/ ze/hir],  [https://genderneutralpronoun.wordpress.com/tag/xe/ xe]/[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Woman_on_the_Edge_of_Time per],  [https://genderneutralpronoun.wordpress.com/tag/sie-and-hir/ sie]/[https://www.wou.edu/wp/safezone/terminology/pronouns/ hum], [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hermaphroditus 6)] [http://soda10years.dance/xhe/ xhe]/[https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hermself herm],  [https://www.quora.com/If-English-had-a-gender-neutral-third-person-pronoun-what-would-it-most-likely-sound-like-and-be-written/answer/Mark-Jones-203 thee/ther]
Ottoma lyver skrifys '''gansom'''.


===Titles===
''Here is a book written by them.''


''See main article at [[Gender neutral titles]].''
Ny aswonnav travyth '''anodhom'''.


===Family and relationship words===
''I don't know anything about them.''


''See also: [[family]] and [[intimacy]].''
etc.
|}


====Parent====
==Dutch==


Parents as in the formal words mother or father, or the informal mama or dada. Gender-neutral and gender-inclusive words for a parent of any gender, or non-standard specifically nonbinary, [[queer]], or [[genderqueer]] words. A list in alphabetical order.
{{main|gender neutral language in Dutch}}


*'''[https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/baba Baba].''' "Neutral, based on mama and papa. Can call to mind the children's character [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Babar_the_Elephant Babar], or the monster [http://www.rollingstone.com/culture/why-babadook-is-the-perfect-symbol-for-gay-pride-w487697 Babadook] (Note, baba means dad in some languages and grandmother in others.)"<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
==English==
* '''Bibi.''' "Queer, based on the B in NB [nonbinary], similar to mama and papa/dada."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
{{main|gender neutral language in English}}
* '''Cenn.''' "Neutral, short for cennend," which see.<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Cennend.''' "Neutral, Old English (Anglo-Saxon) meaning parent."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Dommy.''' "Queer, mixture of mommy and daddy (note: sounds like Dom/me, a BDSM term)."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Mad.''' Queer, mixture of mom and dad.
*'''Mada.''' Queer, mixture of mama and dad.
* '''[http://www.nytimes.com/2009/04/26/fashion/26love.html Maddy].''' "Queer, mixture of mom and daddy. Used by author [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jennifer_Finney_Boylan Jennifer Finney Boylan]. "<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Moddy.''' "Queer, mixture of mom and daddy."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Momo.''' Japanese word for peaches. This is also a South Asian dumpling. Momo looks like ‘mom’ in English, but with a more masculine ‘o’ ending.
* '''Moppa.''' Queer, mixture of mom and poppa. Used in the show [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transparent_(TV_series) Transparent]
* '''Muddy.''' "Queer, mixture of mum and daddy."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Nini.''' "Queer, based on the N in NB, similar to mama and papa/dada."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Non.''' Follows a similar pattern (CvC) to Mom or Dad, could be short for "nonbinary". Variation '''Nonny''' for use with young children, similar to Mommy or Daddy.
* '''Par.''' "Neutral, short for parent."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Pare/Pair.''' "Depending on spelling, this can be a shortening of the word "parent" or the "pair" to another parent or to the child. This can also reference an [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Au_pair au pair]. An au pair is a live in childcare worker, but the term means "equal to", implying that one is equal to a mother or father. An au pair is usually a woman, but not always. The title could also call to mind the French word for father, or the fruit as a general affectionate nickname"
* '''Parent.''' "Neutral, formal."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Parental Unit (PU).''' Neutral, informal, humorous, possibly disrespectful. Used by the alien family in ''Coneheads,'' and taken up by popular culture.<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Per.''' "Neutral, short for parent."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref> (See also: [[Pronouns#Per|per pronouns]] and [[Gender neutral titles#Pr|Pr title]].)
* '''Poppy.''' "Pop" and variations thereof are sometimes used to refer to one's father and adding a "y" to the end of a parental title is common and affectionate. Poppy is also a type of flower and a woman's name.
*'''[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poppet Poppet].''' British endearment for a child or woman. "Pop" is a word for one's father and "et" is generally a diminutive ending.
* '''Ren/Renny''' Neutral, short for paRENt, can be used in place of mom/mommy/dad/daddy. Ren is also a name and a somewhat relevant Confucian ideal.
* '''Zaza.''' "Queer, based on mama and papa/dada."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zither Zither.]''' "Queer, based on mother and father. "<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>


====Child====
English is one of the easiest languages to speak in a gender neutral way. One reason for this is it is in the Germanic language family, it originally had three grammatical genders: masculine, feminine, and neuter. Another reason is that in the 1200s, English speakers stopped making gender a part of every noun, adjective, and article. Remnants of grammatical gender survived only in personal pronouns and some common nouns.<ref>Dictionary.com. "English used to have gendered nouns?! Yes!" May 16, 2012. ''Dictionary.com'' (blog). [http://blog.dictionary.com/oldenglishgender/ http://blog.dictionary.com/oldenglishgender/] [https://web.archive.org/web/20220322012738/http://blog.dictionary.com/oldenglishgender/ Archived] on 17 July 2023</ref> On the other hand, a movement in the 18th century condemned neutral language like [[singular they]], and insisted it sounded more educated to use masculine language like "he" instead, like in Latin. All these changes to English still have effects today, and sometimes create problems. For example, old laws are not clear about whether they use "he" to mean anybody, or men only. Linguists, feminists, and LGBT people have been working on finding the best solutions to the remaining problems with gender exclusive language. Over the past century, they created hundreds of [[English neutral pronouns|pronouns]], out of the lingering belief that "singular they" pronouns will not do. From the 1970s, they have also developed alternatives to gendered words, such as "mail carrier" rather than "mailman."


Some of these gender-inclusive or gender-queer words refer only to relationship (as in daughter, son, or offspring), others only to age (girl, boy, or young one), and some to both (children). Alphabetical order.
==French==


* '''Baby.''' Standard neutral word for very young offspring or very young people, often younger than one year old.
''See also: [[Glossary of French gender and sex terminology]] and [[Gender neutral language in French]].''
* '''Bitsy.''' Non-standard [[genderqueer]] term for a very young person. Spike calls Dawn "little bit" in BtVS <ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Charge.''' Standard gender neutral word for a person in the care of another, often one's child.
* '''Child.''' Standard gender neutral word for a young person or an offspring. Implied age isn't adult, but may be.
* '''Dependent.''' A person who relies on another-- usually a family member who may or may not be their parent-- for financial support; this is most often used as a standard gender-neutral word for a child too young to work. Formal.
* '''Eldest.''' Neutral, a way of speaking of one's offspring by saying "my eldest," rather than saying "my daughter/son."
* '''[http://gender.wikia.com/wiki/Enby Enby.]''' From "NB (nonbinary)", a nonbinary equivalent of the words "boy" and "girl." However, some adults call themselves enbies.
* '''Get.''' Poetic language for offspring.
* '''Kid.''' Standard informal gender neutral term for young children or young offspring.
* '''Little one.''' Neutral word for a very young child or young offspring.
* '''Lun.''' Conjunction of the words "loved one". Alternative to "daughter/son".
* '''Minor.''' Standard gender-neutral word for a person under the legal age of consent.
* '''Nesser/[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loch_Ness_Monster Nessie].''' Non-standard genderqueer term for "daughter/son".<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''[http://aminoapps.com/p/y8dgsg Nore.]''' This word was voted for by an [http://aminoapps.com/ online trans community]. "Nore" is derived from the sentence "I am neither a boy '''nor''' a girl". The word also has letters from the words "'''n'''on-binary" or "'''n'''eutrality", "b'''o'''y", "gi'''r'''l", and "'''e'''nby" which can represent non-binary people being a mix of masculine and feminine, both, or neither. The word was made not to replace the popularized word "enby", but to stand by it as a more formal alternative to girl/boy, since "enby" was considered to be too "cute".
* '''Offspring.''' Neutral, standard word, but not usually used for people, except in legal language.
* '''Oldest.''' Neutral, a way of speaking of one's offspring by saying "my oldest," rather than saying "my daughter/son."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
*'''[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poppet Poppet].''' British endearment for a child or young woman.
* '''Sprog.''' Neutral, crude word for a young person.<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''[https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/sprout Sprout.]''' A young growing plant, can refer to one's child. The Hufflepuff professor from Harry Potter was called Professor Sprout.
* '''Youth.''' Neutral, poetic word for a young person, but usually implied to be male.
* '''Young.''' Neutral, standard word for offspring, but not usually used for people ("my young.")
* '''Youngest.''' Neutral, a way of speaking of one's offspring by saying "my youngest" rather than saying "my daughter/son."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Youngling.''' Gender neutral term for young children (best known from Star Wars, but also attended centuries earlier, with reference to a male [baby Jesus] in the lyrics of The Coventry Carol).
* '''Youngster.''' A word for a child, usually older than "baby" and a few years younger than "adult".
* '''Young one.''' Neutral, poetic.
* '''Young person.''' Neutral, standard, formal.
* '''Ward.''' Standard gender-neutral word for a person, usually a child, under the care of an adult, who may or may not be their parent. Formal.


====Sibling====
French, like other Romance languages (except for Asturian), traditionally has only two grammatical genders: masculine and feminine. Additionally, according to the standard language rules, masculine is always treated as the generic gender, meaning that a mixed-gender group will always be referred to in masculine (and not in feminine, unless everyone is a woman). These rules have been established over the centuries by men and male-led institutions like the ''Académie Française''. In 1675, talking about the grammar of the French language, abbot Dominique Bouhours stated "When both genders meet, the most noble must prevail". French inclusive language refuses such rules, and feminist and queer activists work hard to try and rid French of its sexism. They have developed over the last few decades different ways to adapt the French language to be more inclusive of women and gender minorities.


Gender-neutral or genderqueer words for sibling. Alphabetical order.
However, there is not one single way to speak inclusively in French, but rather, there are a wide variety of tools and workarounds one can use to adapt one's language.<ref>Knisely, Kris A. Le français non-binaire: Linguistic forms used by non-binary speakers of French. Foreign Language Annals. 2020;53:850–876.<nowiki>https://doi.org/10.1111/flan.12500</nowiki></ref> It should also be noted that the "mainstream" inclusive language used by an ever growing number or people, journals and institutions aims at being inclusive of women. These changes, albeit fairly minimal, are still very controversial with certain people. The problem of a language inclusive of the nonbinary community hasn't yet reached the mainstream debate and remains mostly confined within queer and feminist circles.  


* '''Emmer.''' Non-standard genderqueer term for sibling (emmer-ald, emm, emmy).
Finally, as it is not officially recognised, it is important to mention that inclusive French might not be accepted in contexts where formal language is expected; such as exams, language proficiency tests, official documents etc.  
* '''Bro.''' Short for brother. This one is taking advantage of sexism/ the male standard in language to use a more masculine term as a way to casually refer to siblings in general. The casualness of the abbreviation might make it slightly less gendered than the full word ‘brother’. Sometimes people associate ‘bro’ with fraternities and irresponsibility.
* '''Broster.''' This can be a mashup of ‘'''bro'''ther’ and ‘si'''ster'''’. It can also come from ‘bro’ with the suffix ‘ster’ added. Some people might associate ‘broster’ with ‘bro’.
* '''Sib.''' Short for sibling. Equivalent of bro or sis. "Sibby" could be a casual form.
* '''Sibling.''' Standard gender neutral term for sister or brother.
* '''Sibster.''' "Queer, combination of sibling and sister."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Sibler.''' "Queer, combination of sibling and brother/sister."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Sibber'''. Combination of '''Sib'''ling and broth/sist-'''er'''
* '''[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twin Twin.]''' Gender neutral term for sister or brother of the same age.


====Aunt/Uncle====
=== Gender neutral pronouns ===


Standard English doesn't have a gender neutral word for one's parent's sibling. People have created some words to fill this lexical gap, but they are still uncommon words. Alphabetical order.
==== Singular pronouns ====
These pronouns are considered neopronouns and are used to refer to nonbinary people or someone whose gender is unknown. They are not formally recognised and are not usually used in what could be called "mainstream inclusive French". Their use is mostly limited to nonbinary people, feminist and queer circles as well as the internet. Because nothing is codified, there are almost no limits on what can be used, and a wide variety of options have been created and adopted by different people. Due to these circumstances, it is common for French gender non-conforming people to accept different sets of pronouns/neopronouns, or any pronouns/neopronouns. The lists below are not exhaustive.  


* '''Aunbie.''' Queer, combination of auntie, uncle, and NB for non-binary.
{| class="wikitable"
* '''Auncle.''' "Queer, combination of aunt and uncle."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
|+
* '''Aunkie.''' Combination of Auntie and Uncle
!Subject pronouns
* '''Bibi.''' "Queer, based on the B in NB [nonbinary], similar to Titi/Zizi."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
!use
* '''Cousin.''' "Neutral, as sometimes people say aunt/uncle for parents’ cousins, or much older cousins. Some prefer to use the word cousin as a general term for extended family."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
!Exemples
* '''Nini.''' "Queer, based on the N in NB, similar to Titi/Zizi."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
|-
* '''Ommer.''' Non-standard genderqueer term for "aunt/uncle". In programming, Ommer is a node's parent's siblings, or more generally a child of an ancestor that is not itself an ancestor. If A is an ommer of B, B is a nibling (niece/nephew) of A. "Ommie" could be an affectionate derivative.
|'''iel''' (can also be spelled ''ielle'', ''yel'' or ''yelle'')
* '''Pibling.''' "Neutral, your parent’s sibling."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
|The most common spelling is "''iel''". It is the main gender neutral pronoun used in French and is a contraction of the two binary pronouns "''il''" and "''elle''". For that reason some nonbinary people do not find it adequate and prefer to use other neutral alternatives. It is also used to refer to someone whose gender is yet to be determined.
* '''Sibren.''' Sibling + Parent.
|"'''Iel''' est non-binaire. '''Iel''' n'est ni un garçon, ni une fille".
* '''Titi.''' "Neutral, from the Spanish for Aunt (Tia) and Uncle (Tio). (however, it is often a diminutive of aunt.)"<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Zizi.''' "Neutral, from the Italian for Aunt (Zia) and Uncle (Zio). (Note: zizi is also a French children’s ‘cute’ word for penis.)"<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Untie/Unty.''' "Queer, combination of uncle and auntie/aunty."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles</ref>


====Niece/Nephew====


Standard English doesn't have a gender neutral word for one's sibling's child. People have created some words to fill this lexical gap, but they are still uncommon words. Alphabetical order.
"Quelqu'un a mangé le dernier gâteau au chocolat. Je ne sais pas qui c'est, mais '''iel''' aurait quand même pu en laisser un morceau pour les autres".
|-
|'''ille'''
|Just like "''iel''", "''ille''" is a contraction of "''il''" and "''elle''", and therefore faces the same criticism. Its pronunciation can easily sound like the masculine "''il''" if the last syllable is not accentuated enough, which could either be considered a problem or an advantage depending on how one looks at it. An alternative pronunciation could be \ij\.
|"'''Ille''' est arrivé-e hier soir"
|-
|'''el'''
|Just like "''iel''", "''el''" is a contraction of "''il''" and "''elle''", and therefore faces the same criticism. Its pronunciation sounds like the feminine "''elle''". It could either be considered a problem or an advantage depending on how one looks at it.
|
|-
|'''ul''' or '''ol'''
|These pronouns are usually preferred by those whose gender identity falls mostly or completely outside the gender binary. They are the most common gender neutral pronouns after "''iel''".
|"'''Ul''' est parti en vacance. '''Ol''' va '''lu''' rejoindre dans quelques jours".
|-
|'''ael'''
|"''Ael''" also does not stem from the contraction of "''il''" and "''elle''". Although any types of agreement can be used, it is most often paired with "''-ae''".
|"'''Ael''' est all'''ae''' en Australie pendant deux semaines"
‘’Çom’’ a neo pronoun derived from an archaic català pronoun “hom” used as an impersonal/gender neutral subject pronoun. Since Hom is similar to homme, the pronoun variation featured here is based off a similar Occitan pronoun Òm.
|}
{| class="wikitable"
|+
!Object pronouns
!use
!exemples
|-
|'''lea'''
|It is the main gender neutral object pronoun. It is used to refer to nonbinary people or someone whose gender is yet unknown. It is often paired with "''iel''"
|"'''Iel''' est arrivé-e à la gare, je ne vais pas tarder à aller '''lea''' chercher"
|-
|'''lo''' or '''lu'''
|These neopronouns are usually used to refer to those who chose to go by "''ol''" or "''ul''".
|"'''Ol''' est arrivé-e à la gare, je ne vais pas tarder à aller '''lo''' chercher"
|-
|'''ellui'''
|"''Ellui''" is most commonly used as a reflexive pronoun. it is otherwise found to sound clunky or hard to understand when used as a non-reflexive pronoun.
|"'''Iel''' vient manger à la maison ce soir, je ne mais pas tarder à aller '''lea''' chercher à la gare. Nous irons manger chez '''ellui''' la semaine prochaine"
|}
{| class="wikitable"
|+
!Possessive pronouns
!use
!exemple
|-
|'''mo''' and '''man'''
|These result from the merging of the feminine possessive pronoun "''ma''" and the masculine "''mon''".
A commonly used alternative to these would be the "alternating approach" where one refers to somebody using "''ma''" and "''mon''" alternatively.
|"'''Iel''' est '''man''' meillleur-e ami-e depuis l'école primaire. Je '''lea''' connais depuis mes douze ans"
|}


* '''Chibling.''' "Neutral, the children of you sibling."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
==== plural pronouns ====
* '''Cousin.''' "Neutral, as sometimes people say niece/nephew for cousins’ children, much younger cousins or as a general term for extended family."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Nibling.''' Non-standard gender neutral term for "niece/nephew". [http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/nibling Coined by linguist Samuel E. Martin in 1951 from nephew/niece by analogy with sibling.]
* '''Nibblet.''' Term of affection for a young one. Sounds similar to "nibling". Spike called Dawn this in [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buffy_the_Vampire_Slayer BtVS].
* '''Nessie.''' "Mixture of '''ne'''phew and nie'''c'''e."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Nieph.''' "Queer, mixture of niece and nephew."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Niephling.''' Non-standard gender neutral term for "niece/nephew".
* '''Nephling.''' Non-standard gender neutral term for "niece/nephew".
* '''Neph.''' "Short for 'nephew'. Casualness of the term makes it somewhat less gendered."
* '''Nephie.''' Casual,  '''Neph'''ew & N'''ie'''ce
* Niephew. From Nephew and Niece
* Nesyew. From Nephew and Niece
* '''Sibskid.''' "Neutral, short for sibling’s kid."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles</ref>


====Grandparent====
==== agreements ====


Gender-neutral or genderqueer words for grandparent. Alphabetical order.
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*'''[https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/baba Baba].''' "Neutral, based on mama and papa. Can call to mind the children's character [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Babar_the_Elephant Babar], or the monster [http://www.rollingstone.com/culture/why-babadook-is-the-perfect-symbol-for-gay-pride-w487697 Babadook] (Note, baba means dad in some languages and grandmother in others.)"<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
==German==
* '''Bibi.''' "Queer, based on the B in NB, similar to nana and papa."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
{{main|gender neutral language in German}}
* '''Granba.''' Neutral, combines the NB of non-binary with grandma and grandpa.
* '''Granby.''' Neutral, casual, combines the NB of non-binary with granny.
* '''Granpare.''' Pare can be a shortening of the word "parent". The title sounds similar to the french word for grandfather.
* '''Grandparent.''' "Neutral, formal."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Grandren.''' Neutral form based on ren/renny as a neutral term for parents.
* '''Grandwa.''' "Queer, based on grandma and grandpa."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Grandy.''' "Neutral, short for Grandparent, Grandma or Grandpa."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Nini.''' "Queer, based on the N in NB, similar to nana and papa."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>


===Pronouns===
*'''Zett'''
*'''As'''
*'''Dey'''


=====Date=====
==Hindi==
 
Gender-neutral and genderqueer words for a non-committed relationship, such as boyfriend, girlfriend, or date. Alphabetical order.
 
* '''Beau.''' Originally meant boyfriend, suitor or an admirer. A fashionable young dandy. Literal meaning is handsome/good looking. Could now be applied to other genders, particularly with the popularity of "boo".
* '''Cuddle Buddy.''' "Neutral, cheesy."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Date.''' "Neutral, the person you are dating."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Datemate.''' "Neutral, a rhyming version of datefriend, the person you are dating."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles."
''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Enbyfriend.''' From NB, the initials of Non-binary.
* '''Valentine.''' An admirer, suitor or date around Valentine's day.
 
 
====Partner====
 
Gender-inclusive or genderqueer words for tentative romantic and sexual partners (as in girlfriend, boyfriend, or date) as well as permanent ones (as in wife, husband, or spouse).
 
* '''Beau.''' Originally meant boyfriend, suitor or an admirer. A fashionable young dandy. Literal meaning is handsome/good looking. Could now be applied to other genders, particularly with the popularity of "boo".
* '''Birlfriend.''' "Queer, mix of boyfriend and girlfriend."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref> [[Birl]] is also a particular gender identity.
* '''Boo.''' From "beau". Originated as African American slang, but now used more widely.
* '''Boifriend.''' "Queer, [[boi]] is a particular gender identity."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Bothfriend.''' "Queer, for [[bigender]] or [[androgynous]] people."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Boygirlfriend.''' "Queer, for bigender or androgynous people."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Companion.''' "Neutral, reference to Doctor Who’s companions, or Firefly’s Companions."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Datefriend.''' "Neutral, the person you are dating, but fitting the boyfriend/girlfriend pattern."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Datemate.''' "Neutral, a rhyming version of datefriend, the person you are dating."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles."
''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Enbyfriend.''' "Queer, based on boyfriend and girfriend. (note: enby comes from NB, non-binary)."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Feyfriend.''' Queer, due to the implications of "fey."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Genderfriend.''' "Queer, based on boyfriend and girlfriend."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Girlboyfriend.''' "Queer, for bigender or androgynous people."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Goyfriend.''' A mashup of girl/boy-friend. Used by Ali Stroker in reference to her Glee Project costar and partner Dani Shay. (Goy is also a Jewish term for a person who is not Jewish, so this term could be confusing or misleading.)
* '''Honey.''' An endearment used for one's partner.
* '''Imzadi.''' "Neutral, from Star Trek, a Betazed word similar to beloved."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Love.''' Refers to someone you love/who loves you. Calling someone "love" is usually casual and is often applied to women. Calling someone or referring to someone as "my love" is usually romantic and is applied to either gender.
* '''Loveperson.''' "Neutral, a person that you love."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Lover.''' "Neutral, often implies sexual relationship, but simply refers to someone you love/who loves you."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''[name]friend.''' "Queer, based on girlfriend and boyfriend."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Norefriend.'''
* '''Paramour.''' "Neutral, someone you are having a sexual relationship with."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Personfriend.''' "Neutral, leaning towards queer, based on boyfriend and girlfriend."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Partner.''' Neutral, often queer. There can be ambiguity between "partner" referring to a business or romantic partner.
* '''Special Friend.''' Casual, implying a different/more intense relationship than a normal friendship.
* '''Sweetie.''' "Neutral, slightly cheesy."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles</ref>
* '''Sweetheart.''' "Neutral, cheesy or old-fashioned."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Theyfriend.''' A mashup of the common gender neutral pronoun "they" and the -friend suffix in boyfriend and girlfriend.


=====Significant other=====
''See also: [[Gender neutral language in Hindi]].''


Gender-neutral and genderqueer words for a girlfriend, boyfriend, or partner in a committed relationship. Alphabetical order.
Hindi is a gendered language.  


* '''Beau.''' Originally meant boyfriend, suitor or an admirer. A fashionable young dandy. Literal meaning is handsome/good looking. Could now be applied to other genders, particularly with the popularity of "boo".
=== Pronouns ===
* '''Beloved.''' Neutral, one who one loves.
Personal pronouns in Hindi are gender neutral.  
* '''Better Half.''' "Neutral, informal, and implies monogamy."
* '''Boifriend.''' "Queer, [[boi]] is a particular gender identity."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Boo.''' From "beau". Originated as African American slang, but now used more widely.
* '''Companion.''' "Neutral, reference to Doctor Who’s companions, or Firefly’s Companions."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Enbyfriend.''' "Queer, based on boyfriend and girfriend. (note: enby comes from NB, non-binary)."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Goyfriend.''' A mashup of girl/boy-friend. Used by Ali Stroker in reference to her Glee Project costar and partner Dani Shay. (Goy is also a Jewish term for a person who is not Jewish, so this term could be confusing or misleading.)
* '''Gulfriend.'''Queer, from boy/girl-friend.
* '''Honey.''' An endearment used for one's partner.
* '''Imzadi.''' "Neutral, from Star Trek, a Betazed word similar to beloved."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''[name]friend.''' "Queer, based on girlfriend and boyfriend."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Love.''' Refers to someone you love/who loves you. Calling someone "love" is usually casual and is often applied to women. Calling someone or referring to someone as "my love" is usually romantic and is applied to either gender.
* '''Other Half.''' "Neutral, informal, and implies monogamy."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Paramour.''' "Neutral, someone you are having a sexual relationship with."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Partner.''' Neutral, but often queer.
* '''Personfriend.''' "Neutral, leaning towards queer, based on boyfriend and girlfriend."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Significant Other (S.O.).''' "Neutral, formal."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref> Implies monogamy.
* '''Soul Mate.''' "Neutral, slightly cheesy, implies belief in soul mates."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref> Implies monogamy.
* '''Steady.''' "Neutral, as in 'going steady' or 'steady girlfriend/boyfriend'."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref> Implies monogamy.
* '''Sweetie.''' "Neutral, slightly cheesy."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Sweetheart.''' "Neutral, cheesy or old-fashioned."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Theyfriend.''' A mashup of the common gender neutral pronoun "they" and the -friend suffix in boyfriend and girlfriend.


=====Fiancée/Fiancé=====
=== Verb Conjugations ===
Although in 2014, India, the parent culture of Hindi formally recognized the rights of transgender, non-binary, genderqueer and gender-questioning people to determine their gender identification as going beyond the existing binary classifications of male or female, Hindi has lagged behind in that, in Hindi verbs are still conjugated along traditional binary male-female classifications.


Words for engaged partners
This traditional gendered nature of verb conjugations in Hindi is problematic as it forces people with non-binary identities to misgender themselves.


* '''Beau.''' Originally meant boyfriend, suitor or an admirer. A fashionable young dandy. Literal meaning is handsome/good looking. Could now be applied to other genders, particularly with the popularity of "boo".
In an attempt to address the limitations posed by the gendered nature of verb conjugations in Hindi, and to ensure students are not forced to misgender themselves, in 2016, some faculty at the University of Texas at Austin, shared [https://inclusivehindi.la.utexas.edu/inclusive-hindi-grammar an avant-garde proposal for a non-binary verb conjugation option] that does not currently exist in Hindi. This proposal has largely been well received by colleagues and students alike (with some predictable backlash). They are currently in the process of creating a webpage dedicated to making Hindi pedagogy more inclusive, which will also include details of this proposal.  
* '''Betrothed.''' "Neutral, formal."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref> Usually means an arranged marriage.
* '''Better Half.''' "Neutral, informal, and implies monogamy."
* '''Companion.''' "Neutral, reference to Doctor Who’s companions, or Firefly’s Companions."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Honey.''' An endearment used for one's partner.
* '''Imzadi.''' "Neutral, from Star Trek, a Betazed word similar to beloved."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Intended.''' "Neutral, formal."
* '''Love.''' Refers to someone you love/who loves you. Calling someone "love" is usually casual and is often applied to women. Calling someone or referring to someone as "my love" is usually romantic and is applied to either gender.
* '''Other Half.''' "Neutral, informal, and implies monogamy."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Partner.''' Neutral, sometimes queer. There can be ambiguity between "partner" referring to a business or romantic partner.
* '''Significant Other (S.O.).''' "Neutral, formal."


=====Spouse=====
The proposal in a nutshell: '''Using the vowel  ओ ''o'' non-binary verb conjugations is suggested .'''


Words for spouse & significant other.
'''In the gendered binary option:''' - '''''male voice''''' ''conjugations'' end in '''''ā''''' for masculine singular conjugations and '''ए ''e'''''  for masculine plural conjugations. - '''''female voice''''' conjugations end in '''''ī''''' for both, feminine singular and plural conjugations, with '''''ī''''' sometimes being nasalized to '''ईं ''ī̃'''''  for plural conjugations. For ''a '''non-binary voice''''' option, we suggest conjugations end in '''ओ ''o''''' for both, non-binary singular and plural conjugations, with '''ओ ''o''''' sometimes being nasalized to '''ओं ''õ''''' for plural conjugations, along principles similar to conjugations for the ''female voice''.
* '''Ball and Chain.''' Casual, humorous, slightly pejorative.
* '''Better Half.''' "Neutral, informal, and implies monogamy."
* '''Companion.''' "Neutral, reference to Doctor Who’s companions, or Firefly’s Companions."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Honey.''' An endearment used for one's partner.
* '''Imzadi.''' "Neutral, from Star Trek, a Betazed word similar to beloved."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Love.''' Refers to someone you love/who loves you. Calling someone "love" is usually casual and is often applied to women. Calling someone or referring to someone as "my love" is usually romantic and is applied to either gender.
* '''Newlywed.''' Neutral, alternative to bride/groom.
* '''Partner.''' Neutral, sometimes queer. There can be ambiguity between "partner" referring to a business or romantic partner.
* '''Other Half.''' "Neutral, informal, and implies monogamy."<ref>"Gender neutral/queer titles." ''Gender Queeries.'' [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Significant Other (S.O.).''' "Neutral, formal."
* '''Spouse.''' "Standard, neutral, formal."


====Other family relationships====
Adopting '''ओ ''o'' / ओं ''õ''''' for a '''''non-binary voice''''' verb conjugation seems to be a straightforward approach without any disruption to the principles of Hindi verb conjugations.


Gender-neutral and genderqueer words for other kinds of family relationships.
So, for example, in the Habitual aspect the verb खाना / khānā “to eat”, would be conjugated as:


* '''Godparent.''' Standard gender neutral term for godfather or godmother.
[MS = masculine singular, MP = masculine plural, FS= feminine singular, FP = feminine plural, NBS = non-binary singular, NBP = non-binary plural]
* '''Grandchild.''' Standard gender neutral term for grandson or granddaughter.
* '''Grandkid.''' Gender neutral term for grandson or granddaughter.
* '''Grand.''' Gender neutral term for grandson or granddaughter.
===Professions===


* '''Bar tender.''' Standard gender neutral term for barman or barmaid.
Present day binary conjugation:
* '''Business person.''' Standard gender neutral term for businessman or businesswoman.
* '''Clergy member.''' Standard gender neutral term for clergyman, priest, priestess, and many religious titles.
* '''Cowhand.''' Standard gender neutral term for cowboy or cowgirl.
* '''Heroix.''' Proposed nonbinary equivalent to hero or heroine that specifies an individual doing heroic work is nonbinary.
* '''Horse rider/equestrian.''' Standard gender neutral term for horseman or horsewoman.
* '''Minister.''' Standard gender neutral term for priest or priestess.
* '''Monarch.''' Standard gender neutral term for a king or queen.
* '''Monarch's heir.''' Gender neutral term for a prince or princess.
* '''Prime.''' Derived from Latin. Gender Neutral term for a prince or princess.
* '''Primarch.''' Gender Neutral term for a prince or princess.
*"Prinze" gender neutral term for prince/ princess
* '''Princette.''' Queer, based on the Prince/ess ending. Gender Neutral term for a prince or princess.
* '''Princexx/Princex/Prinx''' Other gender neutral terms for Prince/Princess/Royalty incorporating the letter x; a common indicator of gender neutral language
* '''Qwing.''' A mix of King and Queen (with an added 'w'). Uncommon, but easy to recognize.
* '''Royalty.''' Standard. Usually refers to a family but can be used as a Gender Neutral term for a prince/princess or a king/queen.
* '''Noble.''' A nobleman/noblewoman, lord/lady, prince/princess, duke/duchess, or many other noble ranks that lack specific gender neutral titles.
* '''Pilot.''' Standard gender neutral term for aviator or aviatrix.
* '''Police officer''' Standard gender neutral term for policeman or policewoman.
* '''Server.''' Standard gender neutral term for a person who provides items to customers, such as a "waiter/waitress" or "steward/stewardess".


===Descriptions===
   MS-Present:   मैं खा'''ता''' हूँ    mãĩ  khā'''tā''' hū̃ (I eat- male voice)                              MS-Past:   मैं खा'''ता''' '''था''' mãĩ khā'''tā thā'''  (I used to eat - male voice)


* '''Attractive.''' Gender neutral term equally applicable to "handsome" or "beautiful" individuals. Implies the speaker experiences some form of attraction, so might not be suitable for people who are [[aromantic]] or [[asexual]].
   MP-Present:   हम खा'''ते''' हैं   ham khā'''te''' hãĩ  (we eat- male voice)                         MP-Past:   हम खा'''ते थे'''  ham khāt'''e the''' (we used to eat - male voice)
* '''Gorgeous.''' Gender neutral alternative to "handsome" or "beautiful," but tends to be feminine.
* '''Youthful.''' Gender neutral alternative to "boyish" or perhaps "girlish," but tends to be masculine.


===Deity titles===
   FS-Present:    मैं खा'''ती''' हूँ    mãĩ  khā'''tī''' hū̃  (I eat - female voice)                          FS-Past:    मैं खा'''ती थी''' mãĩ  khā'''tī thī'''   (I used to eat - female voice)


* '''Absolute Being.''' Standard term for a monotheistic deity, without implied gender.
FP-Present:    हम  खा'''ती''' हैं   ham khā'''''' hãĩ (we eat - female voice)                     FP-Past:    हम  खा'''ती थीं''' ham khā'''tī thī̃''' (we used to eat - female voice)
* '''Almighty.''' Standard term for a monotheistic deity, without implied gender.
* '''Creator.''' Standard term for a deity who created the world and/or humankind.
* '''Deity.''' Standard gender neutral term for a god or goddess.
* '''Divine, the.''' Common gender neutral term for a deity or supernatural forces.
* '''Divine being.''' Common gender neutral term for a deity or supernatural entity.
* '''God.''' Standard gender neutral term for a god or goddess, but tends to be presumed male.
* '''Goddex.''' "Queer, based on the God/dess ending."<ref>[http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Goddette.''' "Queer, based on the God/ess ending."<ref>[http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Goddeq.''' "Queer, based on the God/ess ending."<ref>[http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
* '''Heavens, the'''. Common gender neutral term for a deity, deities, or supernatural forces.
* '''Higher Power'''. Standard gender neutral term for a deity, deities, or supernatural forces.
* '''Liege.''' Neutral equivalent of lord or lady.
* '''Powers that be.''' Common gender neutral term for a god, goddess, or similar supernatural beings or forces.
* '''Ruler.''' Neutral equivalent of lord or lady.
* '''Sovereign.''' Neutral equivalent of lord or lady.
* '''Wild Divine, the.''' New Age name for God, Goddess, or primal supernatural forces.


===Other terms===
Suggested non-binary conjugation for inclusion:


* '''Fanenby/Fanby.''' Queer, using enby after fanboy or fangirl.<ref>[http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles]</ref>
    '''NBS-Present:''' मैं खा'''तो''' हूँ    mãĩ khā'''to''' hū̃  (I eat - suggested non-binary voice)   '''NBS-Past:''' मैं खा'''तो''' '''थो'''  mãĩ khāt'''o tho''' (I used to eat - suggested non-binary voice)
* '''Fankid.''' Neutral, after fanboy or fangirl.
* '''Wedding usher.''' Neutral, alternative to bridesmaid or groomsman.
* '''Wedding attendant.''' Neutral, alternative to bridesmaid or groomsman.
* '''Bridesmate/Groomsmate.''' Neutral, alternative to bridesmaid or groomsman.
* '''Friend of Honor/Made of Honor/Made of Awesome/Best Mate/ First Mate/Mate of Honor'''. Alternatives to Maid of Honor/Best Man


==French==
    '''NBP-Present:''' हम  खा'''तो''' हैं  ham khā'''to''' hãĩ (I eat - suggested non-binary voice) '''NBP-Past:'''  हम  खा'''तो थों'''   ham khā'''to thõ'''  (we used to eat - suggested non-binary voice)


''See also: [[Glossary of French gender and sex terminology]].''
The [https://inclusivehindi.la.utexas.edu/inclusive-hindi-grammar '''''Inclusive Hindi''''' website]: contains examples of how all tenses and aspect conjugations would look if one factors in the suggested non-binary option.


The same principle of using  '''ओ ''o'' / ओं ''õ''''' for a '''''non-binary voice''''', when transferred on to certain classes of nouns and adjectives, may make one pause to ponder over how it may affect other parts of speech, specifically, possession (particularly the possessive particles in Hindi), the plural oblique case, and in some instances, overlap between the imperative/command construction and the one-time completed action past tense. However, going deeper, one realizes that interference is minimal, if at all. Just as some other aspects of Hindi grammar which on the surface seem the same, being clearly context and/or marker dependent become non-issues, this too, being clearly either context and/or marker dependent would not pose a problem. Also, having the '''ओ ''o''/ओं ''õ''''' sound ending to indicate possession is not alien in Hindi as observed in various varieties like Braj Bhāshā, to name one. Besides, for now this point is quite mute, given that currently there is no class of non-binary nouns in Hindi!
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==German==
==Icelandic==


''See also: [[Glossary of German gender and sex terminology]].''


===Nouns, Adjectives etc.===
==Italian==
'''Asterisk, Underscore, Punctuation'''
Italian, as with other romance languages, presents challenges for inclusivity of nonbinary genders in that grammatically there only exists masculine and feminine genders. Although it descended from Latin, which had 3 genders (masculine, feminine and neuter), it has since lost its neuter form. Nevertheless, different approaches may transform the way Italian is spoken to make it more gender inclusive. In standard Italian, pronouns tend to be omitted unless they are needed for emphatic affect. Ex. Mangia un panino means " ___ eats a sandwich" 
===Nouns===
Italian has masculine and feminine grammatical genders, although some nouns ending in -e (singular)/ -i (plural) hint at a suggested neutral form not dissimilar from gender ambiguous nouns in Spanish (ex. el estudiante and la gente both end in -e even though they are gendered masculine and feminine).
One idea therefore may be to use these endings for nouns to neutralize language. Possible noun endings that could work:
*'''e, i.''' Already present in standard Italian
*'''en, is.''' Nonstandard and not regularly used, taking from latin endings.
*'''u, un, us.''' Nonstandard, taking from latin endings.
*'''@.''' Similar to "chic@s" in Spanish
*'''ə.''' The schwa, or scevà in Italian. In some regional languages, especially Neapolitan, the schwa is commonly found at the end of words, which can make many gendered words sound almost gender neutral. When spoken quickly, for listeners it can sound similar to removing the vowel, although it isn't because the schwa is a distinct sound.
*'''*.''' The asterisk is used at the end of words to represent gender neutral vowels. This method has been used by Queer Italian activists and even has been sported in some Italian pride media.


Pronounced as a pause or glottal stop.
===Personal Pronouns===
In between "feminine" and "masculine" ending, the most common version:
*'''Ləi.''' Nonstandard Italian, to be used in conjunction with the schwa.
* mein_e beste*r Freund:in
*'''Loi/Luoi.''' Nonstandard Italian, not regularly used. (Nonbinary option as "singular they")
Either after the stem - or more realistically at the next best place that has nothing to do with feminine/masculine forms but makes sense for pronunciation:
*'''Ilu.''' Nonstandard Italian, status of use unknown.
* mei:ne bes_ter Freun*din
*'''Il@.''' Nonstandard Italian, status of use unknown.
At random places:
*'''Lau.''' Nonstandard Italian, status of use unknown.
* mei*ne best:er Freundi_n
*'''Leu.''' Nonstandard Italian, status of use unknown.
Can be used consistently or mixed up like in the example above.
*'''Ciu.''' Nonstandard Italian Pronoun, inspired by the Word Cio/Ci, meaning "That". Use is unknown
*'''Ci.''' Present in Standard italian as a pronoun that is neutral, but is used in only specific grammatical structures. Additionally, this pronoun is associated with the pronoun "We" in certain contexts.
*'''Ne.''' Present in Standard Italian as a pronoun that is neutral, but like Ci, it is only used under certain circumstances.
Here is a hypothetical Pronoun model following the italian Neo Pronoun "Luoi".
{| class="wikitable"
|+
!Nominative
!Genitive
!Dative
!Accusative
!Instrumental
|-
|Luoi
|Ne/Di luoi
|Glie/A luoi
|Ciu/Luoi
|Ci/Ce/Con Luoi
|}


==Irish==
The Irish language (Gaeilge) presents some challenges to creating a gender neutral way of speaking. Every noun is gendered in either masculine or feminine grammatical gender, with accompanied binary forms for adjective agreement, pronouns and prepositions.
===Nouns===
Nouns in Irish are categorized into masculine and feminine grammatical genders, which in turn dictate the way nouns behave with the definitive articles "an" and "na", initial consonant mutations and the formation of adjectives. Gendered nouns correspond to gendered pronouns as stand ins (ex. masculine, Sé, or feminine, Sí). Nouns do seem to possess standard endings for the most part, although there are some exceptions. Irish nouns have 4 grammatical cases: nominative/accusative, vocative, genitive and prepositional.


'''X'''<ref>[http://feministisch-sprachhandeln.org/leitfaden/kapitel2/]</ref>
Masculine endings include the following
* ending in a broad consonant
* occupational nouns ending in -óir/oir, -éir/eir, -úir/uir
* single syllable words ending in -eacht or -acht
* end with the masculine diminutives -ín or -án
* end with -ste
* most loan words are masculine (including derivatives using -ach)


Pronounced like ''iks''.<ref>[http://feministisch-sprachhandeln.org/leitfaden/kapitel4/]</ref>
Feminine endings include:  
* meinx bestx Freundx
* ending in a slender consonant
(or e.g. Befreunx to avoid basing it on the masculine form)
* multiple syllable words ending in -eacht, -acht, or íocht.  
Or wite it as -iks.
* ending in -eog or -óg
* meiniks bestiks Freundiks
* ending in -chan
* are place names ending in -lann
* most countries, rivers and languages are feminine.


'''Shortened Words and Nonsense Forms'''<ref>[http://nomthecatsaid.tumblr.com/post/124574373381/kennst-du-eine-gute-seite-auf-der-man-sich-%C3%BCber]</ref>
(it could be argued since -eacht and -acht occur as both feminine and masculine nouns that there is some gender ambiguity/neutralized gender, and perhaps these could be neuter endings for nouns). For a traditionalist approach, it's important to recognize that grammatical gender is not the same as actual gender of the noun and can be categorical at times (ex. Paiste and Duine are both behave grammatically as masculine nouns but do not strictly mean a "male child" or "male person" and are basically neutral concepts).


Fairly well known -i words:
===Pronouns===
* der_die Studi, dix Touri
Pronouns in standard Irish Gaelic are as follows:  
New words by the same pattern:
* ''Sé'' - meaning ''he'' in English, is a masculine pronoun.
* dier  Mitbewohni, der*die Kollegi
* ''Sí'' - meaning ''she'' in English, is a feminine pronoun.
* ''Siad'' - meaning ''they'' in English, is neutral but a plural pronoun


Use the short -i forms or make up new endings and treat the word as neutrum.
Native speakers and new speakers alike have been thinking up helpful gender neutral alternatives. Some of these gender neutral pronouns include:
* mein bestes Freundi
* ''Siad'' - though not commonly used, some people have used this in place of binary pronouns, although some a critical of using it this way because they worry it will confuse people, because of ''Siad'' being used as a plural pronoun.
* mein liebes Mitbewohnsi
* ''Siú'' - suggested from some learners in the duolingo community, it bears resemblance to ''Sé'' and ''Sí'' but stands alone as a gender neutral alternative. Not regularly used. Also bears similarity to siùd, meaning "those"
* ''Duí'' - non-standard, used in place of ''Sí'' and ''Sé'', it derives from the word ''duine'' which translates to ''person''. Bear in mind that the grammatical gender of ''duine'' itself is grammatically masculine in gender.
* ''Cí'' - non-standard, nonbinary pronoun inspired from Gaulish "Chí"
*''Són'' - Old Irish pronoun meaning "This" (It's modern variant, seo, means the same)
*''Intí -'' Old Irish pronoun meaning one/he/she
* ''S`'' - A possibly ambiguous way to use the simple Slender S sound "S" but shortened without the masc or femme endings. ''Tá S` go maith''
*''Sin'' - this has been in use by some native speakers. it's literal meaning is "that". Alternative ways of spelling Sin could include ''Sinh'', ''S'n'', ''S-n'' or 'Sinhe'. The "Nh" is a borrowed ending from old gaelic, pronounced as a regular N or N followed by an H. Sinh, S'n and S-n would all be pronounced as ''Sin'' In some dialects of Irish and in Scottish Gaelic, ''Sinn/Sinne'' is used as a pronoun meaning We in english.
*''Ea'' - a gender-neutral pronoun regularly used in modern Irish, but usually restricted to certain grammatical circumstances.
*''Amhain'' - The adjectival form meaning "one" (used for numbers when counting people). The use for this, is unknown.
*''Amh'' - Neo pronoun acting as a shortened version of Amhain, meaning "one person". Not used in contemporary gaelic.


Use -mensch, -menschi, -person:
Irish has three grammatical forms for personal pronouns: conjunctive form, disjunctive form and emphatic form.  
* das Postmenschi
* meine Liebhabperson
* der liebe Katzenbetreu-Mensch
Or just random words that you think are cute.
* Ich will Fotografierflausch werden.


===Pronouns===
'''Conjunctive form'''
''See main article at [[Pronouns#German_neutral_pronouns]].''


===Titles===
The conjunctive form is used when the subject follows the verb. Standard Irish sentence structure is Verb Subject Object or VSO. Forms corresponding to the non-standard pronouns above include ''Siú'',''Duí'' and ''''.
'''Instead of Frau/Herr'''
* '''Frann'''<ref>[http://nonbinarytransgermany.tumblr.com/language]</ref> - nonstandard
* '''Ind.'''<ref>[http://nonbinarytransgermany.tumblr.com/language]</ref> from "Individuum", nonstandard
* '''Mau'''<ref>[http://nonbinarytransgermany.tumblr.com/language]</ref> - nonstandard
* '''Per''' - nonstandard


'''Professional &amp; Academic Titles'''
Example:
* '''Doctorx'''<ref>[http://nonbinarytransgermany.tumblr.com/language]</ref> - nonstandard
''Ritheann siú'' or "they (sg.) run"
* '''Professorx'''<ref>[http://nonbinarytransgermany.tumblr.com/language]</ref> - nonstandard
''Ritheann sin'' or "they (sg.) run"
* '''Professx'''<ref>[http://www.spiegel.de/unispiegel/wunderbar/gendertheorie-studierx-lann-hornscheidt-ueber-gerechte-sprache-a-965843.html]</ref>, abbreviated ''Prof.'' or ''Profx.'' - nonstandard
''Ritheann cí'' or "they (sg.) run"
''Ritheann sea'' or "they (sg.) run"


===Family terms===
'''Parent'''
* '''Elter''' - singular rare, but in common dictionaries; will sound awkward but be recognised
* '''Mapa''' - nonstandard
* '''Pama''' - nonstandard


'''Child'''
'''Disjunctive form'''
* '''Enbie, Enby''' - instead of Mädchen/Junge/Bub, nonstandard
* '''Großes''' - standard
* '''Kind''' - standard
* '''Kleines''' - standard


'''Aunt/Uncle'''
The disjunctive form is used when the pronoun isn't the subject or the subject pronoun doesn't follow the verb. Forms corresponding to the non-standard pronouns above include ''Iú'',''Dhuí'' and ''Chí''
* '''Tankel''' - nonstandard


'''Niece/Nephew'''
Examples:
* '''Nibling''' - nonstandard
''Is dalta sin'' or "they are a student"
''Is duine dhuí'' or "they are a person"
''Is garda chí'' or "they are a police officer"
''Buailim mé iú'' or "I hit them"
''Buailim mé dhuí'' or "I hit them"
''Buailim mé chí'' or "I hit them"
''Is muinteoir ea'' or "They sg. are a teacher"


'''Grandparent'''
'''Emphatic form'''  
* '''Großelter''' - (see "Elter")


'''Sibling'''
Emphatic form is used to emphasize pronouns and is similar to the English use of italics to give words a bit more weight. Conjunctive and Disjunctive forms exist within the Emphatic form. Forms for the nonstandard pronouns include ''Suisa'',''Duísean'' and ''Císa'' (emphatic conjunctive) and ''Uisa'', ''Dhuísean'' and ''Chísa (emphatic disjunctive).
* '''Bruderin, Bruder*in''' - nonstandard
* '''Brüderin, Brüder*in''' - nonstandard
* '''das Geschwister''' - singular rare, but in common dictionaries; will sound awkward but be recognised
* '''Geschwisterchen''' - standard, but old fashioned and usually used for very young siblings
* '''der/mein Schwester''' - nonstandard


'''Partner'''
Examples:
* '''Freund*in'''
''Is dhuísean!'' or "It's ''them'"
* '''Herzmensch'''
''Is suisa!'' or "It's ''them''"
* '''Liebschaft'''
''Is císa!'' or "It's ''them''"
* '''Partner*in'''
''Is seasa'' or


'''Prepositional pronouns'''


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In addition to these other forms of pronouns, The irish language has "prepositional pronouns", which create specific forms of gender pronouns depending on the type of preposition. Bear in mind the table below contains only the neutral singular versions of these pronouns and these are all non-standard forms inspired by ones present within Irish currently. To form these, take the frontal stem of the 3rd person plural preposition and add the endings -ín, -ar, -na, -á, -us or -usa.
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==Hindi==
{{Clear}}
{| class="wikitable"
|-
! ag "at" !! de "off" !! le "with" !! roimh "before" !! ar "on"
!do "for/to"
!ó "from"
!thar "over"
!as "out of"
!faoi "under"
!trí "through"
!idir "between"
!chuig "toward"
!i "in"
!um "around"
!fara "along/ with"
|-
|acá
|diobhin
|leosa
|romhin
|orsin
|daoise
|uaithu
|thairu
|asin
|fús
|tría
| ---
|chús
|ionseá
|umúl
|feirsa
|}Another option if using "sin" as a pronoun could be to use the preposition stem in combination with "sin" or "that". Ex. Aige "at him" or Aici "at her" would be replaced with Ag Sin (literally at that). Some non-binary speakers of Irish may also look to using Siad as a pronoun, which would correspond with Siad's additional prepositional forms. <br />


''See also: [[Glossary of Hindi gender and sex terminology]].''
===Family terms===
There are words that would be categorized in binary genders but could be used as neutral sounding words.
* ''Páiste'' means child, (plural ''páistí''), grammatically masculine.  
* ''Tuismitheoir'' means parent (plural ''tuismitheoirí''), grammatically masculine.
*''Mo ghra'' or ''Gra'' can be used in a neutral sense to say "my love" or "love" when referring to a romantic partner.


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''See also: [[Glossary of Irish Gender and Sex Terminology]].''
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==Japanese==
==Japanese==


''See also: [[Glossary of Japanese gender and sex terminology]].''
''See also: [[Glossary of Japanese gender and sex terminology]].''
Japanese does not have grammatical gendered structures (i.e. conjugations or noun endings), but there are many gendered aspects of the language. Specific information, such as the gender of a person being referred to, is often implied through other context in the conversation. There are however, specific sets of vocabulary that are traditionally assigned to narrow demographics. For example, the first-person singular pronoun (i.e. "I" or "me") is different depending on the gender of the speaker: 僕 ("boku") is generally used by young men, while women tend to use あたし ("atashi"). There is also a neutral pronoun, 私 ("watashi"), although it's more formal.


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==Latin==
==Latin==


Latin is essentially a historical language, but it is still used by a small but vibrant community worldwide. It starts to have some LGBT terminology, like "homophylophilia" (homosexuality), "propensio sexualis" (sexual orientation), "intersexualitas" (intersexuality), "identitas generis" (gender identity) etc., but modern neologisms remain a tricky issue in the language. Also, Latin traditionally makes extensive use of generic masculine, which is thus difficult to avoid. If one is ready to use terms that didn't exist in the classical language (or had a different meaning then), but have nevertheless been in use for centuries (e.g. "persona", "individuum"), it is possible to use a mix of terms of different grammatical genders and add other words as appositions aligned in gender in order to convey gender neutrality, e.g. "homo filius", "persona filia" and "individuum filium" in order to express "child" (in the sense of offspring). For "enby", "nebinium" has been proposed.<ref>See [https://nibi.space/pronomen_und_grammatisches_geschlecht_in_anderen_sprachen#romanische_sprachen here].</ref>
Latin is essentially a historical language, but it is still used by a small but vibrant community worldwide. It starts to have some LGBT terminology, like "homosexualitas"/"homophylophilia" (homosexuality), "propensio sexualis" (sexual orientation), "intersexualitas" (intersexuality), "identitas generis" (gender identity) etc., but modern neologisms remain a tricky issue in the language. Also, Latin traditionally makes extensive use of generic masculine, which is thus difficult to avoid. If one is ready to use terms that didn't exist in the classical language (or had a different meaning then), but have nevertheless been in use for centuries (e.g. "persona", "individuum"), it is possible to use a mix of terms of different grammatical genders and add other words as appositions aligned in gender in order to convey gender neutrality, e.g. "homo filius", "persona filia" and "individuum filium" in order to express "child" (in the sense of offspring). For "enby", "nebinium" has been proposed.<ref>See [https://nibi.space/pronomen_und_grammatisches_geschlecht_in_anderen_sprachen#romanische_sprachen here]. [https://web.archive.org/web/20230513041235/https://nibi.space/pronomen_und_grammatisches_geschlecht_in_anderen_sprachen Archived] on 17 July 2023</ref>


==Norwegian==
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*'''Sitt''': The neuter possessive form of 'seg'. Its function is similar to the function described above.
*'''Sitt''': The neuter possessive form of 'seg'. Its function is similar to the function described above.


*'''Hen''': An inclusive third-person pronoun. The Norwegian Language Council (Språkrådet) is unfavourable towards use of "hen" as a general gender-neutral pronoun in formal texts (while open to change should actual language use evolve), but advises to use it when requested by a nonbinary person.  At that occasion, the Språkrådet uses "hen" also as object form and "hens" as genitive form.<ref>http://www.sprakradet.no/Vi-og-vart/Publikasjoner/Spraaknytt/spraknytt-20162/spraknytt-12016/han-ho-eller-hen/</ref>
*'''Hen''': An inclusive third-person pronoun. The Norwegian Language Council (Språkrådet) is unfavourable towards use of "hen" as a general gender-neutral pronoun in formal texts (while open to change should actual language use evolve), but advises to use it when requested by a nonbinary person.  At that occasion, the Språkrådet uses "hen" also as object form and "hens" as genitive form.<ref>http://www.sprakradet.no/Vi-og-vart/Publikasjoner/Spraaknytt/spraknytt-20162/spraknytt-12016/han-ho-eller-hen/ [https://web.archive.org/web/20230321173610/https://www.sprakradet.no/Vi-og-vart/Publikasjoner/Spraaknytt/spraknytt-20162/spraknytt-12016/han-ho-eller-hen/ Archived] on 17 July 2023</ref>
*'''Hin''': Another gender-neutral pronoun.<ref name="frio_Kjøn">{{Cite web |title=Kjønnsportal > Pronomen |trans-title= |author= |work=FRI Oslo og Viken |date= |access-date=8 March 2021 |url= https://www.friosloviken.no/kun/ressurser/kjonn/pronomen/ |language=nb|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20220922014646/https://www.friosloviken.no/kun/ressurser/kjonn/pronomen/|archive-date=17 July 2023}}</ref>
 
*'''Den''' or '''Det''': Pronouns that usually refer to objects (akin to English "it"), however some people choose to use these pronouns.<ref name="frio_Kjøn" />


===Other Types of Relationships===
===Other Types of Relationships===
*'''Venn''': A standard word for "friend". "Kamerat" and "venninne", the other words, are binary.
*'''Venn''': A standard word for "friend". "Kamerat" and "venninne", the other words, are binary.
*'''Kjæreste''': A person who is loved by another person, but not married to them.
*'''Kjæreste''': A person who is loved by another person, but not married to them.
==Polish==
''There is more information about this topic here: [[Gender neutral language in Polish]]''
See also [[Glossary of Polish gender and sex terminology]].
Polish is a very gendered language. Some Polish nonbinary people create solutions such as gender-neutral verb endings, for example "chciałxm"/"chciałom"/"chciałx" instead of "chciałbym" (masculine) or "chciałabym" (feminine).<ref>{{cite web|title=hi how to use they them in poland. próbuję ale im failing miserably|archive-date=17 June 2020|archive-url=http://archive.is/ZMwts|url=https://urodziwy.tumblr.com/post/187175986471/hi-how-to-use-they-them-in-poland-pr%C3%B3buj%C4%99-ale-im}}</ref><ref>{{cite web|title=Czemu ludzie są Twoim zdaniem dyskryminowani przez swoją orientację seksualną?|archive-url=http://archive.is/k4Xzj|archive-date=17 June 2020|url=https://ask.fm/brainlessxx/answers/162268935811}}</ref> In the novel ''Perfect Imperfection'', author Jacek Dukaj used -um verb endings (e.g. "zobaczyłum" instead of the masculine "zobaczyłem" or feminine "zobaczyłam").<ref name="TransGrysy">{{Cite web |title=TransGrysy wyjaśniają: co robić, a czego nie robić w kontaktach z osobami transpłciowymi? |trans-title=TransGrysy explains: what to do and what not to do when dealing with transgender people? |last=Winky |first=Kinky |work=kinkywinky.pl |date= |access-date=1 October 2020 |url= https://www.kinkywinky.pl/blog/poradnik/transplciowosc-savoir-vivre.html |language=pl|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230623034945/https://www.kinkywinky.pl/blog/poradnik/transplciowosc-savoir-vivre.html |archive-date=17 July 2023 }}</ref> These have since become known as Dukaisms.<ref name="zaimkipl">{{Cite web |title=An overview of Polish nonbinary pronouns |trans-title= |author= |work=Zaimki.pl |date= |access-date=25 November 2020 |url= https://zaimki.pl/english |language=en |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230603042546/https://zaimki.pl/english |archive-date=17 July 2023 }}</ref>
Another gender-neutral way of speaking or writing Polish is rewording phrases to use a non-gendered conjugation of a verb. For example, instead of saying "I saw" in the masculine form "zobaczyłem" or feminine form "zobaczyłam", one could say "Udało mi się zobaczyć" (I was able to see).<ref name="grabieżca">{{Cite web |title=Osoby niebinarne - jakiej są płci? |trans-title= |author=niski_grabieżca |work=transseksualizm.blogspot.com |date=12 June 2019 |access-date=1 October 2020 |url= https://transseksualizm.blogspot.com/2019/06/osoby-niebinarne-jakiej-sa-pci.html |language=pl|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230623022837/https://transseksualizm.blogspot.com/2019/06/osoby-niebinarne-jakiej-sa-pci.html |archive-date=17 July 2023 }}</ref>
For written Polish, it is possible to combine the masculine and feminine forms of a noun, with a space in between the endings to acknowledge other genders. For example instead of the masculine "aktorzy" or the feminine "aktorki", one could write "aktorki_rzy".<ref name="123t_Gend">{{Cite web |title=Gender. Płeć w języku. Feminizm w języku polskim |trans-title=Gender. Gender in language. Feminism in Polish language |last=Tłumaczeń |first=Biuro |work=Ekspresowe tłumaczenia |date=11 December 2015 |access-date=1 October 2020 |url= https://123tlumacz.pl/gender-plec-w-jezyku-feminizm-w-jezyku-polskim/ |language=pl|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230612005847/https://123tlumacz.pl/gender-plec-w-jezyku-feminizm-w-jezyku-polskim/ |archive-date=17 July 2023 }}</ref>


==Portuguese==
==Portuguese==
''[[Gender neutral language in Portuguese]] contains more information on this topic.''
''See also: [[Glossary of Brazilian Portuguese gender and sex terminology]] and [[Glossary of European Portuguese gender and sex terminology]].''
=== Pronous ===
The most common neutral pronouns are ''elu'' and ''ile'', though there are many others.
{| class="wikitable"
|+''Ela'' and ''ele'' compared to some Portuguese neopronouns:<ref>{{Cite web|url=https://identidades.wikia.org/pt-br/wiki/Linguagem_n%C3%A3o-bin%C3%A1ria_ou_neutra|title=Linguagem não-binária ou neutra|last=Lobo|first=Cari|last2=Gaigaia|first2=V.|website=wikia|language=Portuguese|trans-title=Non-binary or neutral language|others=Revised by Kumiho Lim|access-date=20 June 2021|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20221025071357/http://identidades.wikia.org/pt-br/wiki/Linguagem_n%C3%A3o-bin%C3%A1ria_ou_neutra|archive-date=17 July 2023}}</ref><ref>{{Cite web|url=https://pt.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pronome_neutro_de_terceira_pessoa#Portugu%C3%AAs|title=Pronome neutro de terceira pessoa|website=Wikipedia|access-date=21 June 2021|language=Portuguese|trans-title=Neutral third person pronoun|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230605221819/https://pt.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pronome_neutro_de_terceira_pessoa|archive-date=17 July 2023}}</ref><ref>{{Cite web|url=https://orientando.org/listas/tipos-de-linguagem/|title=Elementos de conjuntos de linguagem|website=orientando|language=Portuguese|trans-title=Elements of sets of language|access-date=21 June 2021|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230606023545/https://orientando.org/listas/tipos-de-linguagem/|archive-date=17 July 2023}}</ref>
!ela/e(s)
!ael(s)
!el(s)
!el@(s)*
!elu(s)
!elx(s)*
!ile(s)
!ilu(s)
|-
|dela/e(s)
|dael(s)
|del(s)
|del@(s)
|delu(s)
|delx(s)
|dile(s)
|dilu(s)
|-
|nela/e(s)
|nael(s)
|nel(s)
|nel@(s)
|nelu(s)
|nelx(s)
|nile(s)
|nilu(s)
|-
|aquela/e(s)
|aquael(s)
|aquel(s)
|aquel@(s)
| aquelu(s)
|aquelx(s)
|aquile(s)
|aquilu(s)
|-
|daquela/e(s)
| daquael(s)
|daquel(s)
|daquel@(s)
|daquelu(s)
|daquelx(s)
|daquile(s)
| daquilu(s)
|-
|naquela/e(s)
|naquael(s)
|naquel(s)
|naquel@(s)
|naquelu(s)
|naquelx(s)
|naquile(s)
|naquilu(s)
|-
|àquela/e(s)
|àquael(s)
| àquel(s)
| àquel@(s)
|àquelu(s)
|àquelx(s)
|àquile(s)
|àquilu(s)
|}
<nowiki>*</nowiki>The use of these pronouns is not encouraged.


''See also: [[Glossary of Brazilian Portuguese gender and sex terminology]], and [[Glossary of European Portuguese gender and sex terminology]].''
=== Family Terms ===
* '''Mai''' - mom/dad


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''See also: [[Glossary of Russian gender and sex terminology]].''
''See also: [[Glossary of Russian gender and sex terminology]].''


Unlike English, Russian has three grammatical genders: masculine, feminine, and neuter. While neuter allows some non-binary people adjectives to use, this gender is not ideal for non-binary people for grammatical reasons. The first is that most neuter nouns decline like masculine nouns. The second is that neuter animate nouns do not change in the accusative case, while both masculine and feminine nouns do. This implies that people using neuter words are not human.
Unlike English, Russian has three grammatical genders: masculine, feminine, and neuter. While neuter allows some nonbinary people adjectives to use, this gender is not ideal for nonbinary people for grammatical reasons. The first is that most neuter nouns decline like masculine nouns. The second is that neuter animate nouns do not change in the accusative case (though there are rare neuter animate nouns that change in the accusative plural; see [https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/лицо#Declension "лицо" in Wiktionary]), while both masculine and feminine nouns do. This implies that people using neuter words are not human.


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==Spanish==
==Spanish==
This section has it's own article [[Gender neutral language in Spanish]].
[[File:ParentsFloat2009MarchaDF.JPG|thumb|Parents of Gays float at the 2009 Marcha Gay in Mexico City. The banner shows the @ symbol substituted for the masculine "o" or feminine "a" to make it gender neutral.]]
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As a language in the Romance family, Spanish has two grammatical genders, masculine and feminine, which are part of every adjective, noun, and article. This makes it nearly impossible to speak in a completely gender-neutral in standard Spanish. Feminists, LGBT people, and other activists today are creating methods to speak Spanish in a gender-neutral way when needed. Because the ending -o is masculine, and -a is feminine,  it's now common for people to substitute these with a different letter or symbol to create a neutral version. The most used and more accepted is using -e. Some common examples of this are "L@s Latin@s,"<ref name="sikian">Sikian. ''Reddit''. Forum comment. 2015. https://www.reddit.com/r/genderqueer/comments/2ymn25/gender_in_language_to_all_you_nonbinary_redditors/cpdjdhi [https://web.archive.org/web/20220923080826/https://www.reddit.com/r/genderqueer/comments/2ymn25/gender_in_language_to_all_you_nonbinary_redditors/cpdjdhi/ Archived] on 17 July 2023</ref><ref name="gubb">Sophia Gubb. "Construyendo Un Género Neutro En Español – Para Una Lengua Feminista, Igualitaria E Inclusiva." February 10, 2013. ''Sophia Gubb's Blog''. Personal blog entry. http://www.sophiagubb.com/construyendo-un-genero-neutro-en-espanol-para-una-lengua-feminista-igualitaria-e-inclusiva/ [https://web.archive.org/web/20230318230932/http://www.sophiagubb.com/construyendo-un-genero-neutro-en-espanol-para-una-lengua-feminista-igualitaria-e-inclusiva/ Archived] on 17 July 2023</ref><ref name="socialchange">http://www.spanishforsocialchange.com/2015/05/living-as-non-binary-or-gender-neutral.html [https://web.archive.org/web/20230323183754/https://www.spanishforsocialchange.com/2015/05/living-as-non-binary-or-gender-neutral.html Archived] on 17 July 2023</ref><ref name="genderfork">http://genderfork.com/2013/question-gender-neutral-honorifics-in-spanish/ [https://web.archive.org/web/20220921230102/http://genderfork.com/2013/question-gender-neutral-honorifics-in-spanish/ Archived] on 17 July 2023</ref> "Lxs Latinxs,"<ref name="sikian /><ref name="genderfork /><ref name="socialchange /> "Les Latines,"<ref name="Schmidt">{{Cite web |title=A Language for All |last=Schmidt |first=Samantha |work=Washington Post |date=5 December 2019 |access-date=29 May 2020 |url= https://www.washingtonpost.com/dc-md-va/2019/12/05/teens-argentina-are-leading-charge-gender-neutral-language/|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20230510125055/https://www.washingtonpost.com/dc-md-va/2019/12/05/teens-argentina-are-leading-charge-gender-neutral-language/ |archive-date=17 July 2023 }}</ref><ref name="socialchange" /> and even "LⒶs LatinⒶs."<ref name="tawny">Phoenix Tawnyflower. "Nonbinary Spanish." May 24, 2014. ''Reflections of a Queer Artist'' (personal blog). http://phoenixtawnyflower.blogspot.com/2014/05/nonbinary-spanish.html [https://web.archive.org/web/20220924210924/https://phoenixtawnyflower.blogspot.com/2014/05/nonbinary-spanish.html Archived] on 17 July 2023</ref>
 
In Spanish the neutral word for mom/dad that would be equal to parent in English is xadre, the word madre being mom and the word padre being dad and the alternative to daddy/mommy that in Spanish would be papi/mami respectively is xami, xadi or xaxi.
 
All of this pronunciating the x as an s. This forms are not largely used.
 
For words that describe professions for example actor/actriz meaning actor/actress there are two alternatives. The first one works as any other adjective adding an 'e' to actor and the second one takes the ending of naturally gender neutral words like cantante meaning singer, taking the 'ante' and adding it to the original word's root, in this case being actuante.


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==Swedish==
==Swedish==


[[File:Hen - Swedish pronoun.jpg|thumb|A symbol of Swedish female, male, and neutral pronouns.]]
[[File:Hen - The Swedish pronoun.svg|thumb|A symbol of Swedish female, male, and neutral pronouns.]]


''See also: [[Glossary of Swedish gender and sex terminology]].''
''See also: http://nonbinary.wiki/wiki/Gender_neutral_language_in_Swedish.''


Traditionally, the word ''den'' has been used as a gender neutral pronoun and remains widely used today. However, depending on the context, the word ''den'' can also mean ''it'' leaving it unsatisfactory as a gender neutral pronoun for many who do not wish to be seen as comparable to an inanimate object. Since the 1960s, the person pronoun ''hen'' has become increasingly popular and will, in 2015, be added for the first time to ''Svenska Akademiens Ordlista'' (the Swedish equivalent to France's ''Dictionnaire de l'Académie française''). It usage, however, remains somewhat contraversial and is vigorously opposed by some.
Traditionally, the word ''den'' has been used as a gender neutral pronoun and remains widely used today. However, depending on the context, the word ''den'' can also mean ''it'' leaving it unsatisfactory as a gender neutral pronoun for many who do not wish to be seen as comparable to an inanimate object. Since the 1960s, the person pronoun ''hen'' has become increasingly popular and will, in 2015, be added for the first time to ''Svenska Akademiens Ordlista'' (the Swedish equivalent to France's ''Dictionnaire de l'Académie française''). Its usage, however, remains somewhat contraversial and is vigorously opposed by some.
 
In 2024, the official Swedish gender-neutral pronoun is hen/hen/hens. The Swedish common-inanimate pronoun den/den/dens (equivalent to it/it/its) is also used for gender-neutral language and by some [[nonbinary]] people, as well as the non-standard anglicized practice of singular de/dem/deras (they/them/their). Some [[nonbinary]] people have also opted for [[neopronouns|neopronoun]] such as hin/hin/hins, which is in actuality an obsolete pronoun that means something alike “that one”, but is in modern times pretty much only used in the set phrase “hin håle” (the hard one, the devil).


===Pronouns===
===Pronouns===


{| class="wikitable"
{| class="wikitable"
! <u>Hen</u>
! Standard gender-neutral/third-gender personal pronoun
|-
|-
! hen
!hen
| Standard gender neutral / third gender personal pronoun
|Subject form
|-
|-
! hens
!hen/henom
| Possive form of hen
|Object form is generaly just "hen", but some use "henom". It is very individual.
|-
|-
! henom
 
| Object form of hen
!hens
|Possessive form
|}
{| class="wikitable"
! <u>Den</u>
! Gender-neutral/common-inanimate "it"
|-
!den
|Subject/object form
|-
|-
!dens/dess
|Possessive form
|}
|}
{| class="wikitable"
! <u>De</u>
! Non-standard anglicized singular "they"
|-
!de
|Subject form is sometimes written "dom"
|-
!dem
|Object form  is sometimes written "dom"
|-


The object form of hen is sometimes just hens. It is very individual.
!deras
 
|Possessive form
|}
{| class="wikitable"
! <u>Hin</u>
! Neopronoun/obsolete pronoun "hin"
|-
!hin
|Subject/object form
|-
!hins
|Possessive form
|}
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==Welsh==


==External links==
==External links==


* [http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles Gender-neutral/Queer Titles]. A long, continually updated list of gender-neutral or genderqueer words for family members and relationships in English.
*[http://genderqueeries.tumblr.com/titles Gender-neutral/Queer Titles]. A long, continually updated list of gender-neutral or genderqueer words for family members and relationships in English.
* [https://collectanealinguistica.wordpress.com/2016/06/28/language-learning-beyond-the-gender-binary/ Language learning beyond the gender binary], by linguist Timothy McKeon, on how to be gender-neutral or gender-variant in many different languages.
*[https://collectanealinguistica.wordpress.com/2016/06/28/language-learning-beyond-the-gender-binary/ Language learning beyond the gender binary], by linguist Timothy McKeon, on how to be gender-neutral or gender-variant in many different languages.
*[https://deepbaltic.com/2018/03/20/being-non-binary-in-a-language-without-gendered-pronouns-estonian/ Being Non-Binary in a Language Without Gendered Pronouns – Estonian]


==References==
==References==
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Gender neutral language

Gender-neutral language, also called gender-inclusive language, is the practice of using words that don't give an idea of someone being female or male. For example, the word "fireman" gives the idea that a person in that work is male. An offer for a job as a "cleaning lady" gives the idea that only a woman should do the job. The gender-neutral alternatives are to say "fire fighter" and "janitor," respectively. Then it is easier to see that these jobs can be done by a person of any gender. Gender-neutral language is important in feminism, because changing the way that people talk can help make sexist ideas less common. For example, the sexist idea that some jobs should only be done by people of certain genders.

Gender-neutral language is also important to many people who have nonbinary gender identities. For one reason, this kind of talk helps fight against nonbinary erasure, which is the common but wrong and sexist idea that there are only two genders. Since gender-neutral language doesn't give the idea that a person is male or female, it can also apply to people who identify as other genders, outside of the gender binary. Nonbinary people can ask to be talked about in this way.

Gender-neutral language is both useful and necessary grammatically and socially for the situtations in which gender is varied/queer, mixed/diverse in a group, irrelevant/unwanted, secret or unknown.

Arabic[edit | edit source]

The Washington Post has reported that "Modern standard Arabic, based on Koranic classical Arabic, additionally has a dual option for nouns and verbs that doesn’t imply a specific gender. Some people therefore use the dual of they and you — “huma” (هما) and “intuma” (انتما) — as a gender-neutral alternative. Colloquial Arabic spoken today has largely done away with the dual, so this form can sound very formal to those not in the know."[1]

Chinese[edit | edit source]

See also: Glossary of Chinese gender and sex terminology.

Pronouns

  • tā. Verbally all gendered pronouns sound the same, and so they technically can be gender neutral.

Titles

  • 先生 (xian sheng). A gender neutral term to refer to a teacher, a new acquaintance with whom you are unfamiliar, or anyone with whom you are not on a first-name basis, though it is usually masculine-based.
  • 师傅 (shi fu). A gender neutral term, though it is usually masculine-based, conveying respect to someone if you don't know their name, and it means "master."
  • 老师 (lao shi). Standard word for teacher.
  • 博士 (bo shi). Standard word for professor.
  • 老板 (lao ban). Standard term for one's boss (say at work).
  • 同学 (tong xue). Standard term for one's classmates

Family Terms

  • 孩子 (hai zi). Standard gender neutral term for child.
  • 家长 (jia zhang). Standard gender neutral term for parent.

Professions

  • 服务员 (fu wu yuan). Standard word for server and/or gender neutral term for waiter/waitress.

Romantic

  • 对象 (dui xiang). Term that means one's romantic partner. It is gender neutral.
  • 配偶 (pei ou). Term that means one's partner in marriage. It is gender neutral.

Cornish[edit | edit source]

Cornish, like all other modern Celtic languages, has two grammatical genders: masculine and feminine. Although the way that gender-neutral nouns and non-binary people are referred to in terms of grammatical gender, and the impact that those nouns would have on adjectives, is yet to be determined, Cornish has a complete set of non-binary 3rd person singular pronouns:

Paradigm of the Cornish non-binary pronoun
Purpose Word or element in Cornish Examples
Personal pronoun hynn, hydn, hedn Hynn a wra dos avorow.

They will come tomorrow.

Possessive adjective ho2 (causes soft mutation) My a wra ho weles avorow.

I will see them tomorrow.

Infixed pronoun 'gh(2/4 if desired by speakers to improve the sound of the sentence) My a'gh gwel/wel/kwel avorow.

I will see them tomorrow.

Emphatic pronoun hehynn, ehynn, hyhynn, etc. Ny wra saw hehynn dos avorow.

Only they will come tomorrow.

Conjugated prepositions -m at the end of the masculine form My a wra mos dhodhom avorow.

I will go to them tomorrow.

Ottoma lyver skrifys gansom.

Here is a book written by them.

Ny aswonnav travyth anodhom.

I don't know anything about them.

etc.

Dutch[edit | edit source]

There is more information about this topic here: gender neutral language in Dutch

English[edit | edit source]

There is more information about this topic here: gender neutral language in English

English is one of the easiest languages to speak in a gender neutral way. One reason for this is it is in the Germanic language family, it originally had three grammatical genders: masculine, feminine, and neuter. Another reason is that in the 1200s, English speakers stopped making gender a part of every noun, adjective, and article. Remnants of grammatical gender survived only in personal pronouns and some common nouns.[2] On the other hand, a movement in the 18th century condemned neutral language like singular they, and insisted it sounded more educated to use masculine language like "he" instead, like in Latin. All these changes to English still have effects today, and sometimes create problems. For example, old laws are not clear about whether they use "he" to mean anybody, or men only. Linguists, feminists, and LGBT people have been working on finding the best solutions to the remaining problems with gender exclusive language. Over the past century, they created hundreds of pronouns, out of the lingering belief that "singular they" pronouns will not do. From the 1970s, they have also developed alternatives to gendered words, such as "mail carrier" rather than "mailman."

French[edit | edit source]

See also: Glossary of French gender and sex terminology and Gender neutral language in French.

French, like other Romance languages (except for Asturian), traditionally has only two grammatical genders: masculine and feminine. Additionally, according to the standard language rules, masculine is always treated as the generic gender, meaning that a mixed-gender group will always be referred to in masculine (and not in feminine, unless everyone is a woman). These rules have been established over the centuries by men and male-led institutions like the Académie Française. In 1675, talking about the grammar of the French language, abbot Dominique Bouhours stated "When both genders meet, the most noble must prevail". French inclusive language refuses such rules, and feminist and queer activists work hard to try and rid French of its sexism. They have developed over the last few decades different ways to adapt the French language to be more inclusive of women and gender minorities.

However, there is not one single way to speak inclusively in French, but rather, there are a wide variety of tools and workarounds one can use to adapt one's language.[3] It should also be noted that the "mainstream" inclusive language used by an ever growing number or people, journals and institutions aims at being inclusive of women. These changes, albeit fairly minimal, are still very controversial with certain people. The problem of a language inclusive of the nonbinary community hasn't yet reached the mainstream debate and remains mostly confined within queer and feminist circles.

Finally, as it is not officially recognised, it is important to mention that inclusive French might not be accepted in contexts where formal language is expected; such as exams, language proficiency tests, official documents etc.

Gender neutral pronouns[edit | edit source]

Singular pronouns[edit | edit source]

These pronouns are considered neopronouns and are used to refer to nonbinary people or someone whose gender is unknown. They are not formally recognised and are not usually used in what could be called "mainstream inclusive French". Their use is mostly limited to nonbinary people, feminist and queer circles as well as the internet. Because nothing is codified, there are almost no limits on what can be used, and a wide variety of options have been created and adopted by different people. Due to these circumstances, it is common for French gender non-conforming people to accept different sets of pronouns/neopronouns, or any pronouns/neopronouns. The lists below are not exhaustive.

Subject pronouns use Exemples
iel (can also be spelled ielle, yel or yelle) The most common spelling is "iel". It is the main gender neutral pronoun used in French and is a contraction of the two binary pronouns "il" and "elle". For that reason some nonbinary people do not find it adequate and prefer to use other neutral alternatives. It is also used to refer to someone whose gender is yet to be determined. "Iel est non-binaire. Iel n'est ni un garçon, ni une fille".


"Quelqu'un a mangé le dernier gâteau au chocolat. Je ne sais pas qui c'est, mais iel aurait quand même pu en laisser un morceau pour les autres".

ille Just like "iel", "ille" is a contraction of "il" and "elle", and therefore faces the same criticism. Its pronunciation can easily sound like the masculine "il" if the last syllable is not accentuated enough, which could either be considered a problem or an advantage depending on how one looks at it. An alternative pronunciation could be \ij\. "Ille est arrivé-e hier soir"
el Just like "iel", "el" is a contraction of "il" and "elle", and therefore faces the same criticism. Its pronunciation sounds like the feminine "elle". It could either be considered a problem or an advantage depending on how one looks at it.
ul or ol These pronouns are usually preferred by those whose gender identity falls mostly or completely outside the gender binary. They are the most common gender neutral pronouns after "iel". "Ul est parti en vacance. Ol va lu rejoindre dans quelques jours".
ael "Ael" also does not stem from the contraction of "il" and "elle". Although any types of agreement can be used, it is most often paired with "-ae". "Ael est allae en Australie pendant deux semaines"

‘’Çom’’ a neo pronoun derived from an archaic català pronoun “hom” used as an impersonal/gender neutral subject pronoun. Since Hom is similar to homme, the pronoun variation featured here is based off a similar Occitan pronoun Òm.

Object pronouns use exemples
lea It is the main gender neutral object pronoun. It is used to refer to nonbinary people or someone whose gender is yet unknown. It is often paired with "iel" "Iel est arrivé-e à la gare, je ne vais pas tarder à aller lea chercher"
lo or lu These neopronouns are usually used to refer to those who chose to go by "ol" or "ul". "Ol est arrivé-e à la gare, je ne vais pas tarder à aller lo chercher"
ellui "Ellui" is most commonly used as a reflexive pronoun. it is otherwise found to sound clunky or hard to understand when used as a non-reflexive pronoun. "Iel vient manger à la maison ce soir, je ne mais pas tarder à aller lea chercher à la gare. Nous irons manger chez ellui la semaine prochaine"
Possessive pronouns use exemple
mo and man These result from the merging of the feminine possessive pronoun "ma" and the masculine "mon".

A commonly used alternative to these would be the "alternating approach" where one refers to somebody using "ma" and "mon" alternatively.

"Iel est man meillleur-e ami-e depuis l'école primaire. Je lea connais depuis mes douze ans"

plural pronouns[edit | edit source]

agreements[edit | edit source]

German[edit | edit source]

There is more information about this topic here: gender neutral language in German

Pronouns[edit | edit source]

  • Zett
  • As
  • Dey

Hindi[edit | edit source]

See also: Gender neutral language in Hindi.

Hindi is a gendered language.

Pronouns[edit | edit source]

Personal pronouns in Hindi are gender neutral.

Verb Conjugations[edit | edit source]

Although in 2014, India, the parent culture of Hindi formally recognized the rights of transgender, non-binary, genderqueer and gender-questioning people to determine their gender identification as going beyond the existing binary classifications of male or female, Hindi has lagged behind in that, in Hindi verbs are still conjugated along traditional binary male-female classifications.

This traditional gendered nature of verb conjugations in Hindi is problematic as it forces people with non-binary identities to misgender themselves.

In an attempt to address the limitations posed by the gendered nature of verb conjugations in Hindi, and to ensure students are not forced to misgender themselves, in 2016, some faculty at the University of Texas at Austin, shared an avant-garde proposal for a non-binary verb conjugation option that does not currently exist in Hindi. This proposal has largely been well received by colleagues and students alike (with some predictable backlash). They are currently in the process of creating a webpage dedicated to making Hindi pedagogy more inclusive, which will also include details of this proposal.

The proposal in a nutshell: Using the vowel ओ o non-binary verb conjugations is suggested .

In the gendered binary option: - male voice conjugations end in ā for masculine singular conjugations and e for masculine plural conjugations. - female voice conjugations end in ī for both, feminine singular and plural conjugations, with ī sometimes being nasalized to ईं ī̃ for plural conjugations. For a non-binary voice option, we suggest conjugations end in o for both, non-binary singular and plural conjugations, with o sometimes being nasalized to ओं õ for plural conjugations, along principles similar to conjugations for the female voice.

Adopting o / ओं õ for a non-binary voice verb conjugation seems to be a straightforward approach without any disruption to the principles of Hindi verb conjugations.

So, for example, in the Habitual aspect the verb खाना / khānā “to eat”, would be conjugated as:

[MS = masculine singular, MP = masculine plural, FS= feminine singular, FP = feminine plural, NBS = non-binary singular, NBP = non-binary plural]

Present day binary conjugation:

   MS-Present:   मैं खाता हूँ    mãĩ  khā hū̃ (I eat- male voice)   MS-Past:   मैं खाता था mãĩ khātā thā (I used to eat - male voice)

   MP-Present:   हम खाते हैं   ham khāte hãĩ  (we eat- male voice)   MP-Past:   हम खाते थे  ham khāte the (we used to eat - male voice)

   FS-Present:    मैं खाती हूँ    mãĩ  khā hū̃  (I eat - female voice)   FS-Past:    मैं खाती थी mãĩ  khātī thī   (I used to eat - female voice)

FP-Present:    हम  खाती हैं   ham khā hãĩ (we eat - female voice)    FP-Past:    हम  खाती थीं ham khātī thī̃ (we used to eat - female voice)

Suggested non-binary conjugation for inclusion:

    NBS-Present: मैं खातो हूँ    mãĩ khāto hū̃  (I eat - suggested non-binary voice)   NBS-Past: मैं खातो थो  mãĩ khāto tho (I used to eat - suggested non-binary voice)

    NBP-Present: हम  खातो हैं  ham khāto hãĩ (I eat - suggested non-binary voice) NBP-Past:  हम  खातो थों   ham khāto thõ (we used to eat - suggested non-binary voice)

The Inclusive Hindi website: contains examples of how all tenses and aspect conjugations would look if one factors in the suggested non-binary option.

The same principle of using o / ओं õ for a non-binary voice, when transferred on to certain classes of nouns and adjectives, may make one pause to ponder over how it may affect other parts of speech, specifically, possession (particularly the possessive particles in Hindi), the plural oblique case, and in some instances, overlap between the imperative/command construction and the one-time completed action past tense. However, going deeper, one realizes that interference is minimal, if at all. Just as some other aspects of Hindi grammar which on the surface seem the same, being clearly context and/or marker dependent become non-issues, this too, being clearly either context and/or marker dependent would not pose a problem. Also, having the o/ओं õ sound ending to indicate possession is not alien in Hindi as observed in various varieties like Braj Bhāshā, to name one. Besides, for now this point is quite mute, given that currently there is no class of non-binary nouns in Hindi!

Icelandic[edit | edit source]

Italian[edit | edit source]

Italian, as with other romance languages, presents challenges for inclusivity of nonbinary genders in that grammatically there only exists masculine and feminine genders. Although it descended from Latin, which had 3 genders (masculine, feminine and neuter), it has since lost its neuter form. Nevertheless, different approaches may transform the way Italian is spoken to make it more gender inclusive. In standard Italian, pronouns tend to be omitted unless they are needed for emphatic affect. Ex. Mangia un panino means " ___ eats a sandwich"

Nouns[edit | edit source]

Italian has masculine and feminine grammatical genders, although some nouns ending in -e (singular)/ -i (plural) hint at a suggested neutral form not dissimilar from gender ambiguous nouns in Spanish (ex. el estudiante and la gente both end in -e even though they are gendered masculine and feminine). One idea therefore may be to use these endings for nouns to neutralize language. Possible noun endings that could work:

  • e, i. Already present in standard Italian
  • en, is. Nonstandard and not regularly used, taking from latin endings.
  • u, un, us. Nonstandard, taking from latin endings.
  • @. Similar to "chic@s" in Spanish
  • ə. The schwa, or scevà in Italian. In some regional languages, especially Neapolitan, the schwa is commonly found at the end of words, which can make many gendered words sound almost gender neutral. When spoken quickly, for listeners it can sound similar to removing the vowel, although it isn't because the schwa is a distinct sound.
  • *. The asterisk is used at the end of words to represent gender neutral vowels. This method has been used by Queer Italian activists and even has been sported in some Italian pride media.

Personal Pronouns[edit | edit source]

  • Ləi. Nonstandard Italian, to be used in conjunction with the schwa.
  • Loi/Luoi. Nonstandard Italian, not regularly used. (Nonbinary option as "singular they")
  • Ilu. Nonstandard Italian, status of use unknown.
  • Il@. Nonstandard Italian, status of use unknown.
  • Lau. Nonstandard Italian, status of use unknown.
  • Leu. Nonstandard Italian, status of use unknown.
  • Ciu. Nonstandard Italian Pronoun, inspired by the Word Cio/Ci, meaning "That". Use is unknown
  • Ci. Present in Standard italian as a pronoun that is neutral, but is used in only specific grammatical structures. Additionally, this pronoun is associated with the pronoun "We" in certain contexts.
  • Ne. Present in Standard Italian as a pronoun that is neutral, but like Ci, it is only used under certain circumstances.

Here is a hypothetical Pronoun model following the italian Neo Pronoun "Luoi".

Nominative Genitive Dative Accusative Instrumental
Luoi Ne/Di luoi Glie/A luoi Ciu/Luoi Ci/Ce/Con Luoi

Irish[edit | edit source]

The Irish language (Gaeilge) presents some challenges to creating a gender neutral way of speaking. Every noun is gendered in either masculine or feminine grammatical gender, with accompanied binary forms for adjective agreement, pronouns and prepositions.

Nouns[edit | edit source]

Nouns in Irish are categorized into masculine and feminine grammatical genders, which in turn dictate the way nouns behave with the definitive articles "an" and "na", initial consonant mutations and the formation of adjectives. Gendered nouns correspond to gendered pronouns as stand ins (ex. masculine, Sé, or feminine, Sí). Nouns do seem to possess standard endings for the most part, although there are some exceptions. Irish nouns have 4 grammatical cases: nominative/accusative, vocative, genitive and prepositional.

Masculine endings include the following

  • ending in a broad consonant
  • occupational nouns ending in -óir/oir, -éir/eir, -úir/uir
  • single syllable words ending in -eacht or -acht
  • end with the masculine diminutives -ín or -án
  • end with -ste
  • most loan words are masculine (including derivatives using -ach)

Feminine endings include:

  • ending in a slender consonant
  • multiple syllable words ending in -eacht, -acht, or íocht.
  • ending in -eog or -óg
  • ending in -chan
  • are place names ending in -lann
  • most countries, rivers and languages are feminine.

(it could be argued since -eacht and -acht occur as both feminine and masculine nouns that there is some gender ambiguity/neutralized gender, and perhaps these could be neuter endings for nouns). For a traditionalist approach, it's important to recognize that grammatical gender is not the same as actual gender of the noun and can be categorical at times (ex. Paiste and Duine are both behave grammatically as masculine nouns but do not strictly mean a "male child" or "male person" and are basically neutral concepts).

Pronouns[edit | edit source]

Pronouns in standard Irish Gaelic are as follows:

  • - meaning he in English, is a masculine pronoun.
  • - meaning she in English, is a feminine pronoun.
  • Siad - meaning they in English, is neutral but a plural pronoun

Native speakers and new speakers alike have been thinking up helpful gender neutral alternatives. Some of these gender neutral pronouns include:

  • Siad - though not commonly used, some people have used this in place of binary pronouns, although some a critical of using it this way because they worry it will confuse people, because of Siad being used as a plural pronoun.
  • Siú - suggested from some learners in the duolingo community, it bears resemblance to and but stands alone as a gender neutral alternative. Not regularly used. Also bears similarity to siùd, meaning "those"
  • Duí - non-standard, used in place of and , it derives from the word duine which translates to person. Bear in mind that the grammatical gender of duine itself is grammatically masculine in gender.
  • - non-standard, nonbinary pronoun inspired from Gaulish "Chí"
  • Són - Old Irish pronoun meaning "This" (It's modern variant, seo, means the same)
  • Intí - Old Irish pronoun meaning one/he/she
  • S` - A possibly ambiguous way to use the simple Slender S sound "S" but shortened without the masc or femme endings. Tá S` go maith
  • Sin - this has been in use by some native speakers. it's literal meaning is "that". Alternative ways of spelling Sin could include Sinh, S'n, S-n or 'Sinhe'. The "Nh" is a borrowed ending from old gaelic, pronounced as a regular N or N followed by an H. Sinh, S'n and S-n would all be pronounced as Sin In some dialects of Irish and in Scottish Gaelic, Sinn/Sinne is used as a pronoun meaning We in english.
  • Ea - a gender-neutral pronoun regularly used in modern Irish, but usually restricted to certain grammatical circumstances.
  • Amhain - The adjectival form meaning "one" (used for numbers when counting people). The use for this, is unknown.
  • Amh - Neo pronoun acting as a shortened version of Amhain, meaning "one person". Not used in contemporary gaelic.

Irish has three grammatical forms for personal pronouns: conjunctive form, disjunctive form and emphatic form.

Conjunctive form

The conjunctive form is used when the subject follows the verb. Standard Irish sentence structure is Verb Subject Object or VSO. Forms corresponding to the non-standard pronouns above include Siú,Duí and .

Example: Ritheann siú or "they (sg.) run" Ritheann sin or "they (sg.) run" Ritheann cí or "they (sg.) run" Ritheann sea or "they (sg.) run"


Disjunctive form

The disjunctive form is used when the pronoun isn't the subject or the subject pronoun doesn't follow the verb. Forms corresponding to the non-standard pronouns above include ,Dhuí and Chí

Examples: Is dalta sin or "they are a student" Is duine dhuí or "they are a person" Is garda chí or "they are a police officer" Buailim mé iú or "I hit them" Buailim mé dhuí or "I hit them" Buailim mé chí or "I hit them" Is muinteoir ea or "They sg. are a teacher"

Emphatic form

Emphatic form is used to emphasize pronouns and is similar to the English use of italics to give words a bit more weight. Conjunctive and Disjunctive forms exist within the Emphatic form. Forms for the nonstandard pronouns include Suisa,Duísean and Císa (emphatic conjunctive) and Uisa, Dhuísean and Chísa (emphatic disjunctive).

Examples: Is dhuísean! or "It's them'" Is suisa! or "It's them" Is císa! or "It's them" Is seasa or

Prepositional pronouns

In addition to these other forms of pronouns, The irish language has "prepositional pronouns", which create specific forms of gender pronouns depending on the type of preposition. Bear in mind the table below contains only the neutral singular versions of these pronouns and these are all non-standard forms inspired by ones present within Irish currently. To form these, take the frontal stem of the 3rd person plural preposition and add the endings -ín, -ar, -na, -á, -us or -usa.

ag "at" de "off" le "with" roimh "before" ar "on" do "for/to" ó "from" thar "over" as "out of" faoi "under" trí "through" idir "between" chuig "toward" i "in" um "around" fara "along/ with"
acá diobhin leosa romhin orsin daoise uaithu thairu asin fús tría --- chús ionseá umúl feirsa

Another option if using "sin" as a pronoun could be to use the preposition stem in combination with "sin" or "that". Ex. Aige "at him" or Aici "at her" would be replaced with Ag Sin (literally at that). Some non-binary speakers of Irish may also look to using Siad as a pronoun, which would correspond with Siad's additional prepositional forms.

Family terms[edit | edit source]

There are words that would be categorized in binary genders but could be used as neutral sounding words.

  • Páiste means child, (plural páistí), grammatically masculine.
  • Tuismitheoir means parent (plural tuismitheoirí), grammatically masculine.
  • Mo ghra or Gra can be used in a neutral sense to say "my love" or "love" when referring to a romantic partner.

See also: Glossary of Irish Gender and Sex Terminology.

Japanese[edit | edit source]

See also: Glossary of Japanese gender and sex terminology.

Japanese does not have grammatical gendered structures (i.e. conjugations or noun endings), but there are many gendered aspects of the language. Specific information, such as the gender of a person being referred to, is often implied through other context in the conversation. There are however, specific sets of vocabulary that are traditionally assigned to narrow demographics. For example, the first-person singular pronoun (i.e. "I" or "me") is different depending on the gender of the speaker: 僕 ("boku") is generally used by young men, while women tend to use あたし ("atashi"). There is also a neutral pronoun, 私 ("watashi"), although it's more formal.


Korean[edit | edit source]

See also: Glossary of Korean gender and sex terminology.


Latin[edit | edit source]

Latin is essentially a historical language, but it is still used by a small but vibrant community worldwide. It starts to have some LGBT terminology, like "homosexualitas"/"homophylophilia" (homosexuality), "propensio sexualis" (sexual orientation), "intersexualitas" (intersexuality), "identitas generis" (gender identity) etc., but modern neologisms remain a tricky issue in the language. Also, Latin traditionally makes extensive use of generic masculine, which is thus difficult to avoid. If one is ready to use terms that didn't exist in the classical language (or had a different meaning then), but have nevertheless been in use for centuries (e.g. "persona", "individuum"), it is possible to use a mix of terms of different grammatical genders and add other words as appositions aligned in gender in order to convey gender neutrality, e.g. "homo filius", "persona filia" and "individuum filium" in order to express "child" (in the sense of offspring). For "enby", "nebinium" has been proposed.[4]

Norwegian[edit | edit source]

Norwegian is a language with three grammatical genders: masculine, feminine, and neuter, but they have nothing at all to do with real gender. For example, "kvinne", which means "woman", "kusine", which means a female cousin, "jente", which means "girl", and "dronning", which means "queen", are all or can be masculine nouns. There are also a few odd words, such as romkamerat, an inclusive word meaning room-mate. The word "kamerat" means male friend.

Family terms[edit | edit source]

  • Ektefelle: An inclusive word for a spouse.
  • Barn: An inclusive word for a child.
  • Søskenbarn: An inclusive word for a cousin.
  • Forelder: A word for a parent.

Pronouns[edit | edit source]

  • Seg: An extremely common, standard word for "themself" or "themselves".
  • Si: The feminine possessive form of 'seg'. It indicates belonging to the subject, but not the gender/lack of gender of the subject (or even the object).
  • Sin: The masculine possessive form of 'seg'. Its function is similar to the function described above.
  • Sitt: The neuter possessive form of 'seg'. Its function is similar to the function described above.
  • Hen: An inclusive third-person pronoun. The Norwegian Language Council (Språkrådet) is unfavourable towards use of "hen" as a general gender-neutral pronoun in formal texts (while open to change should actual language use evolve), but advises to use it when requested by a nonbinary person. At that occasion, the Språkrådet uses "hen" also as object form and "hens" as genitive form.[5]
  • Hin: Another gender-neutral pronoun.[6]
  • Den or Det: Pronouns that usually refer to objects (akin to English "it"), however some people choose to use these pronouns.[6]

Other Types of Relationships[edit | edit source]

  • Venn: A standard word for "friend". "Kamerat" and "venninne", the other words, are binary.
  • Kjæreste: A person who is loved by another person, but not married to them.

Polish[edit | edit source]

There is more information about this topic here: Gender neutral language in Polish

See also Glossary of Polish gender and sex terminology.

Polish is a very gendered language. Some Polish nonbinary people create solutions such as gender-neutral verb endings, for example "chciałxm"/"chciałom"/"chciałx" instead of "chciałbym" (masculine) or "chciałabym" (feminine).[7][8] In the novel Perfect Imperfection, author Jacek Dukaj used -um verb endings (e.g. "zobaczyłum" instead of the masculine "zobaczyłem" or feminine "zobaczyłam").[9] These have since become known as Dukaisms.[10]

Another gender-neutral way of speaking or writing Polish is rewording phrases to use a non-gendered conjugation of a verb. For example, instead of saying "I saw" in the masculine form "zobaczyłem" or feminine form "zobaczyłam", one could say "Udało mi się zobaczyć" (I was able to see).[11]

For written Polish, it is possible to combine the masculine and feminine forms of a noun, with a space in between the endings to acknowledge other genders. For example instead of the masculine "aktorzy" or the feminine "aktorki", one could write "aktorki_rzy".[12]

Portuguese[edit | edit source]

Gender neutral language in Portuguese contains more information on this topic.

See also: Glossary of Brazilian Portuguese gender and sex terminology and Glossary of European Portuguese gender and sex terminology.

Pronous[edit | edit source]

The most common neutral pronouns are elu and ile, though there are many others.

Ela and ele compared to some Portuguese neopronouns:[13][14][15]
ela/e(s) ael(s) el(s) el@(s)* elu(s) elx(s)* ile(s) ilu(s)
dela/e(s) dael(s) del(s) del@(s) delu(s) delx(s) dile(s) dilu(s)
nela/e(s) nael(s) nel(s) nel@(s) nelu(s) nelx(s) nile(s) nilu(s)
aquela/e(s) aquael(s) aquel(s) aquel@(s) aquelu(s) aquelx(s) aquile(s) aquilu(s)
daquela/e(s) daquael(s) daquel(s) daquel@(s) daquelu(s) daquelx(s) daquile(s) daquilu(s)
naquela/e(s) naquael(s) naquel(s) naquel@(s) naquelu(s) naquelx(s) naquile(s) naquilu(s)
àquela/e(s) àquael(s) àquel(s) àquel@(s) àquelu(s) àquelx(s) àquile(s) àquilu(s)

*The use of these pronouns is not encouraged.

Family Terms[edit | edit source]

  • Mai - mom/dad
  • Irmane - brother/sister


Russian[edit | edit source]

See also: Glossary of Russian gender and sex terminology.

Unlike English, Russian has three grammatical genders: masculine, feminine, and neuter. While neuter allows some nonbinary people adjectives to use, this gender is not ideal for nonbinary people for grammatical reasons. The first is that most neuter nouns decline like masculine nouns. The second is that neuter animate nouns do not change in the accusative case (though there are rare neuter animate nouns that change in the accusative plural; see "лицо" in Wiktionary), while both masculine and feminine nouns do. This implies that people using neuter words are not human.


Titles[edit | edit source]

госпожне Plural is "госпожня". Grammatical gender is neutral, and while in the singular it takes endings similar to the masculine.

Family Terms[edit | edit source]

-евче and -овче In Russian, rather than middle names, children have patronyms, or their father's first name with -евич/-ович (for boys) or -евна/-овна (for girls) added to the end. -евче and -овче are genderqueer endings for one's patronym. Alternatives include -евчен/-овчен (agender), -еви/-ови (multigender) and more.


Spanish[edit | edit source]

Parents of Gays float at the 2009 Marcha Gay in Mexico City. The banner shows the @ symbol substituted for the masculine "o" or feminine "a" to make it gender neutral.

There is more information about this topic here: Gender neutral language in Spanish

As a language in the Romance family, Spanish has two grammatical genders, masculine and feminine, which are part of every adjective, noun, and article. This makes it nearly impossible to speak in a completely gender-neutral in standard Spanish. Feminists, LGBT people, and other activists today are creating methods to speak Spanish in a gender-neutral way when needed. Because the ending -o is masculine, and -a is feminine, it's now common for people to substitute these with a different letter or symbol to create a neutral version. The most used and more accepted is using -e. Some common examples of this are "L@s Latin@s,"[16][17][18][19] "Lxs Latinxs,"[16][19][18] "Les Latines,"[20][18] and even "LⒶs LatinⒶs."[21]

In Spanish the neutral word for mom/dad that would be equal to parent in English is xadre, the word madre being mom and the word padre being dad and the alternative to daddy/mommy that in Spanish would be papi/mami respectively is xami, xadi or xaxi.

All of this pronunciating the x as an s. This forms are not largely used.

For words that describe professions for example actor/actriz meaning actor/actress there are two alternatives. The first one works as any other adjective adding an 'e' to actor and the second one takes the ending of naturally gender neutral words like cantante meaning singer, taking the 'ante' and adding it to the original word's root, in this case being actuante.

Swedish[edit | edit source]

A symbol of Swedish female, male, and neutral pronouns.

See also: http://nonbinary.wiki/wiki/Gender_neutral_language_in_Swedish.

Traditionally, the word den has been used as a gender neutral pronoun and remains widely used today. However, depending on the context, the word den can also mean it leaving it unsatisfactory as a gender neutral pronoun for many who do not wish to be seen as comparable to an inanimate object. Since the 1960s, the person pronoun hen has become increasingly popular and will, in 2015, be added for the first time to Svenska Akademiens Ordlista (the Swedish equivalent to France's Dictionnaire de l'Académie française). Its usage, however, remains somewhat contraversial and is vigorously opposed by some.

In 2024, the official Swedish gender-neutral pronoun is hen/hen/hens. The Swedish common-inanimate pronoun den/den/dens (equivalent to it/it/its) is also used for gender-neutral language and by some nonbinary people, as well as the non-standard anglicized practice of singular de/dem/deras (they/them/their). Some nonbinary people have also opted for neopronoun such as hin/hin/hins, which is in actuality an obsolete pronoun that means something alike “that one”, but is in modern times pretty much only used in the set phrase “hin håle” (the hard one, the devil).

Pronouns[edit | edit source]

Hen Standard gender-neutral/third-gender personal pronoun
hen Subject form
hen/henom Object form is generaly just "hen", but some use "henom". It is very individual.
hens Possessive form
Den Gender-neutral/common-inanimate "it"
den Subject/object form
dens/dess Possessive form
De Non-standard anglicized singular "they"
de Subject form is sometimes written "dom"
dem Object form is sometimes written "dom"
deras Possessive form
Hin Neopronoun/obsolete pronoun "hin"
hin Subject/object form
hins Possessive form

Thai[edit | edit source]

See also: Glossary of Thai gender and sex terminology.


Welsh[edit | edit source]

External links[edit | edit source]

References[edit | edit source]

  1. Berger, Miriam (15 December 2019). "A guide to how gender-neutral language is developing around the world". Washington Post. Archived from the original on 17 July 2023. Retrieved 2 October 2020.
  2. Dictionary.com. "English used to have gendered nouns?! Yes!" May 16, 2012. Dictionary.com (blog). http://blog.dictionary.com/oldenglishgender/ Archived on 17 July 2023
  3. Knisely, Kris A. Le français non-binaire: Linguistic forms used by non-binary speakers of French. Foreign Language Annals. 2020;53:850–876.https://doi.org/10.1111/flan.12500
  4. See here. Archived on 17 July 2023
  5. http://www.sprakradet.no/Vi-og-vart/Publikasjoner/Spraaknytt/spraknytt-20162/spraknytt-12016/han-ho-eller-hen/ Archived on 17 July 2023
  6. 6.0 6.1 "Kjønnsportal > Pronomen". FRI Oslo og Viken (in Norwegian Bokmål). Archived from the original on 17 July 2023. Retrieved 8 March 2021.
  7. "hi how to use they them in poland. próbuję ale im failing miserably". Archived from the original on 17 June 2020.
  8. "Czemu ludzie są Twoim zdaniem dyskryminowani przez swoją orientację seksualną?". Archived from the original on 17 June 2020.
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